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Anti 13RW

Trigger Warnings for 13RW: suicide, sexual assault, rape, drugs, victim blaming, scars, self harm, guns.

13 reasons why is bad. The show doesn’t supply appropriate warnings for its content, which is graphic to say the least. It was irresponsibly handled by the people in charge who disregarded mental professionals and is linked to increases in suicide. The show tries to use love as a way to get over depression and that’s not medically sound, therapy and medicine help with depression.

The show stereotypes people with mental illness. It romanticizes suicide and makes it sound like a viable option for fixing problems and as a way to get revenge.

Be very careful if you’re going to watch it, 741-741 is a crisis line and suicide hotlines are available in each state. If you are in an emergency, call 911. You cannot recieve help if you do not reach out to get it.

If you love the show, that’s okay, but it’s not handled appropriately for people with mental illnesses. Please do not attack people who don’t like it and/or who won’t watch it.

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I very much dislike this show. It didn’t create discussions or raise questions. When I hear people talking about it, they aren’t talking about how to help actually mentally ill people, they are talking about fictional characters and how evil they are for not being able to read Hannah’s mine (ie: Clay, Mr. Porter). Please, if you watch this show, talk about how to help mentally ill people instead of demonizing them, and include mentally ill people in the discussion. Be supportive of real life people. This show is triggering and I was personally very disappointed in it, because I thought it would be different.

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Hello, to our new Jared Kleinman

Sky Lakota-Lynch

So happy to have you on board! I’m sure you’ll make a great addition to the cast!

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EVAN IS THE ONLY VILLAIN IN DEH!

(Please don't kill me)

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This is a mood.

(shoveling handfuls of moss into my mouth) i understand everything good in the world

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#justicefornoura

petition and information

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It has been done, thank you for reminding me of these unacceptable sins.

DEH SHIPS

Acceptable:

Bandtrees

Kliensen

Treebros

Evlana

Jarlana

Zared

Klienphy

Galaxy Gals

Conlana

Sincerely three

Conlanmen

Zoe×Evan×Jared

Zoe×Alana×Jared

Evan×Alana×Jared

Evan×Alana×Zoe

Evan×Alana×Connor

Jared×Evan×Connor×Alana

Evan×Zoe×Jared×Alana

Unacceptable:

Zoe×Connor

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This is my new favorite thing. I just found it and I’m 1000% in love

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DEH SHIPS

Acceptable:

Bandtrees

Kliensen

Treebros

Evlana

Jarlana

Zared

Klienphy

Galaxy Gals

Conlana

Larry×Cynthia

Sincerely three

Conlanmen

Zoe×Evan×Jared

Zoe×Alana×Jared

Evan×Alana×Jared

Evan×Alana×Zoe

Evan×Alana×Connor

Jared×Evan×Connor×Alana

Evan×Zoe×Jared×Alana

Unacceptable:

Zoe×Connor

Cynthia×Heidi

Heidi×Larry

*insert all ships that are the high schoolers and adults in a relationship*

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hey everybody have you heard?

larry murphy isnt the villain of deh

now👏go👏spread👏the👏word👏

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y’all making larry the abusive one when honey connor was the abusive one

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Alana Beck board ft Phoenix Best

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Can you please reblog if your blog is a safe place for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, asexual, aromantic, pansexual, non binary, demisexual or any other kind of queer or questioning people? Because mine is.

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Hey, stop scrolling.

Everyone who is reading this: I’m so glad you’re alive. I’m so proud of you. You are loved. I’m here. Don’t give up, we’re almost there.

Pass it on.

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Y'all know @dearevanhansenofficial right? Well y'all know the new Alana right? Well then why is there not anymore fanart of Phoenix Best as Alana? She's so beautiful and deserves more love. ❤💖💓💗💛💙💚💜💟💕💜💙

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WOW Alana your mom let you have TWO boyfriends?! 

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i don’t have a name for this au yet so let’s go with the ‘summer’ au

(yes it’s fuckin kleinphy)

ok so

important backstory for alana and jared!!!

alana: has two dads, is an only child, and thought she was straight until senior year. was best friends with connor in ninth grade, but they stopped hanging out because she thought their friendship was more than that. but it wasn’t. cause they’re both gay, but didn’t know it then.

jared: his mum and dad split when he was eight. his mum was bipolar, never took her medication and got involved in drugs. he comes from a really rich family, all the same. his mum moved out to some hippy farm on the other side of the country where they grow grapes and dye sheep wool with flowers. idk hippy stuff my grandma did in the 60s. his dad remarried, and had another son with his new wife alison. the brother is nine, and called nathaniel.

anyway

it’s the start of summer break: the summer break leading up to senior year

it’s raining loads and jared can’t sleep so he’s like ‘fuck it let’s go for a midnight drive’

he’s passing over this HUGE suspension bridge over a river, when he gets the spontaneous idea

like

this could all end right now

no one would really even care

because currently jared is dealing with like,,, accepting the fact he’s gay (he realised recently, but he’s closeted and in denial big time; his parents aren’t homophobic, he’s just an insecure lil shit)

he pulls over but guess what omg

there’s a mysterious figure sitting over the railings and smoking weed

big surprise it’s connor

he’s just getting high dw

however, he can tell what jareds up to

i see connor as very empathetic when he needs to be, and considering he’s on a GOOD high rn, he’s like ‘let’s drive’

he basically wants to keep jared preoccupied long enough for him to forget about stuff idk

they drive and talk for a little bit

and then jared goes home

THE NEXT NIGHT

jared goes to the bridge again but is thwarted once more

this time he blabs about being gay and all that jazz

and then boom! he’s like “im also kinda gay for u”

because yeah jared finds most tall boys attractive

(he hates himself for it but he has a list of cute boys)

so then there’s gay stuff

and ~ooh~ secret relationship is a go

it’s only secret because jared isn’t out yet and neither of them have any friends to tell anyway

so a lot of side plot is going on; jareds family, connor and zoe (noting that this is set before the events of the musical), and connor and larry

just so you know, larry is my favourite character and i’m writing him how he deserves to be written; as a decent person

larry wants to be supportive. he has a motive. when he was 17, his best friend at the time committed suicide. and that really messed him up. so, when his son starts going through that same struggle, he’s in denial. he doesn’t want to accept the fact that if he can’t do enough, he might lose someone else to the same fight. because that’s how a character works, they have motivation and backstory.

anyway i’ll stop being salty about larry now

connor doesn’t like his dad because of the whole denial thing

ANYWAY there’s also the alana side plot

she’s kinda starting to think ‘i like girls’ so she’s trying to reach out to connor and maybe reconnect with him

we get hints of this throughout, until a final big reveal later

so there’s lots of secret gay staff with connor and jared over the months

and then it’s connors birthday (28th august)

i headcanon his birthday is in summer and he hates it because he wants to be a mature, old, december baby. because august babies are always the youngest in the year, and aren’t exactly edgy emo children like the winter babies. (and yes i’m being sarcastic. connor makes fun of how pessimistic he is a lot, it’s all a dumb joke, he’s not actual emo and i understand he has bipolar disorder blah blah blah)

anyway jareds big surprise is sex because it’s kleinphy you know

it’s soft

anyway after that it’s nearly senior year again

connor is like “we should be open at school”

here comes the conflict

jareds a closeted little fuckin mess, so they have a massive argument that results in

dun dun dunn

a break up

just as senior year starts

and then the curtain rises and we have evan, typing out his letter etc

so yeah now you have this context in the lovely ‘freak’ scene

:))))

anyway connor dies lol

and here’s where the alana plot line meets a sweet end

so connor said to jared like MONTHS ago, when they were talking about death casually, like, in years and years and years to come:

“when i die, don’t cry for me. get high, so it feels like you’re in the sky with me.”

and so jareds smokin weed and crying in the park

and alana comes along basically doing the same

and they have a very vague conversation and lots of eye contact

and the gist of it is:

“so u fucked up ur relationship with printer boy too?”

“lol yea”

“fuck evan”

“lol yea”

but much more poetic than that obviously

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Connor × Jared

Okay everyone! I have some words to say! We're all fighting about whether Treebros, Kleinsen, or Sincerely three is better, but 5ish people talk about Kleinphy. Are y'all aware of how cute this ship is? Jesus Faist it's adorable! And all the amazing fanart is great! Please don't forget about this, I know that you can have your opinions, but come one. I don't really like Kleinsen, but I still respect people who ship it, so stop hating on those of us who ship Kleinphy.

The amount of hate I've seen on Kleinphy pages is horrible, and when point out that the ship could work, most of everyone attacks us. We don't go around hating on your Tree Bros or your Kleinsen, so stop hating on our ship.

If you need proof of how amazing this ship is go check out @kleinphyfics and @kkleinphyyy these two blogs have some really amazing things on them and might have you guys not hating us as much. And if I see any of your hating on their posts I will find you.