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L'Uomo perfetto

Riccardo Scamarcio

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hiiiiii ^_^ do you like fandom whump or OC whump more? and in either case what characters/tropes/tags will make you most likely to click on a fic?

Hiii! :D

I used to only read fandom whump from anything I was interested in, and I still read that. I wasn't really active here, hadn't known anyone who was writing OCs, but ever since I became active here, I met more people with OCs and I'm really enjoying their stories too! So, it's still hard for me to choose which I like more, and I wanna read more oc stories, wanna meet more ocs! I really like both ^^

I'm still very much into Santino D'Antonio x John Wick HEHE so ofc I'll click on that immediately, and I'm writing them (they're so good with whump tropes!) :). I like other characters from other movies/games/shows too, and if there are characters I like with tropes I like, I'll click on it!

I like lots of whump tropes hehe, especially hurt/comfort, anything with a character being hurt and they get comfort from someone. Or they don't, so they deal with it on their own >:]. Exhaustion, headaches, treating wounds, recovery, living weapon, non human whump, emotional hurt/comfort, overworking, passing out and MANY MORE tags and tropes that I really love reading about! I also love alternative universe, like kingdom/royalty, medieval au, werewolf and vampire au, a/b/o dynamics and others! :)

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Helloo! :3

What is one of your favorite whump tropes? Do you have any that you like that are underrated?

yay hi :3

favorite of all time is definitely dehumanization and it’s what i have been going crazy over lately. whether it is institutionalized abuse where everyone is fine with witnessing whumpee being mistreated or a situation where the people around them are horrified but whumper does it anyway. theyre both so good. whumpee being treated like they arent even sentient and talked about like theyre not even in the room ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

for underrated / things i wish i saw more of i would like there to be more rocky recovery stories and more that focus in on whumpee’s self destructive behavior and what they might take to gain back control. more exploration of maladaptive coping mechanisms.

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John moping around the house Wick is Pain (2025)

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@important-dog-pics

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skyrim scenery - part 18

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Last chance before this print leaves my store!

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Whumpee: *finally falls asleep on Caretaker's lap*

Teammate: *walks in* Hey, Caretaker, do you kno-

Caretaker: ....*the most terryfying threatening glare seen by humanking*

Teammmate: Okay, okay I'm going

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Which do you prefer: whumpee getting beat up, or whumpee suffering because of their own emotional state/thoughts?

I like both this was so hard to choose 😭

I'll pick whumpee suffering because of their own emotional state/thoughts! I really like that for many reasons. Whumpee can suffer in silence. They might appear okay on the outside, but they are really suffering on the inside. Or they show some signs on the outside like they look exhausted, zone out/stare into the same spot for a few seconds, might not eat enough, etc.

Ooo, also doing unhealthy coping mechanisms! Like smoking too much, drinking more alcohol, engaging in some risky things because they just want to escape from their thoughts that are eating them on the inside, consuming them, making their daily life difficult.

And of course, spiraling! Overthinking a lot just makes them feel worse. Maybe they just wanna be left alone then, or if they have their Caretaker, they can help them the best they can.

There's more I like for this trope, and I enjoy reading and writing it! More whumpees suffering mentally please! :]

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What is an underrated whump trope that you really like? :3

In-depth discussions of feelings!! I like to see one character demand of another, "Why are you acting this way?" Or, "What are you feeling?" and get a real answer. I also LOVE to see a character say in advance that a situation is going to be upsetting for them and that they'll need extra support, or tell a Caretaker what to do with them when they're triggered.

I know a lot of people think it's unrealistic to have characters like mafia members or bandits talking about their motivations in detail, but I think it can be handled well. They don't need to have gone to therapy to be capable of this. Most of us do think about our desires and try to figure out questions like, "what do I really want out of a relationship," or "why do bad things keep happening to me," or "why do I keep lashing out when I don't mean to?" They may not arrive at healthy answers, but people do have complicated ideas about who they are and what they want, and often have a lot of self-awareness and guilt about what they're doing to others. They might talk about the way they were raised or their faith or the things they worry about in the future. Of course that's on their mind - it really shows that a character is thinking about this and living with it every day.

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whumpee exhausted and on pain meds after a terrible experience, mumbling things that only halfway make sense to caretaker. caretaker smiles tiredly and strokes their forehead, and just tells them they can go to sleep.

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I have been reading egg laying stories because I find the thought of arousal and orgasm during birth super hot. But I feel guilty when it's a baby. Like you are literally getting off to the feel of your child's body in your sexual orifice...it just feels more than a little suss yk??? So I have been trying to stick to eggs. But I am more and more tempted to read stories where it is a baby pup(s) etc. Not an egg. Would this be wrong and should I try harder to stick to just eggs? Or just read whatever I want since it's all fiction and even if I ever have a baby I doubt I would feel that way in reality? Thxxx

Hello! This is a good question and a feeling that happens often to others too!

So, there is a difference between fiction and reality. I'll explain for fiction, but yeah, some ppl are into this irl, too. Everyone is different. Also, these are my opinions! Anyways, finding these things hot while reading a fanfic is, in my opinion, normal, and you DON'T have to be into that irl. You can only find it hot in fanfics, and that's okay! Egg laying might feel "safer" to enjoy since, like you said, when it's birth with a child, to some, it could feel a bit weird. However, it's all fiction! In my opinion, there's nothing wrong with reading that as long as you're comfortable with it. In fanfics, we know it's all fiction, not reality, so enjoying it that was can feel better and different than in real life.

I can understand your worries, that's all normal, too. I'm personally not into pregnancy or anything with it irl, I find it scary and uncomfortable, and there are many other reasons why I don't like it. But I like reading fanfics with mpreg and eggpreg, and I think there's nothing wrong with that! Like I said, it's all fiction!

To answer your questions! No, it wouldn't be wrong to read about pregnancy or birth that's not eggs. You don't have to try harder to stick to eggs. Yes, read whatever you want since it's all fiction! Like you said, you doubt you'll feel like that irl, so really you don't have to worry about it! You can find it hot only in fanfics and not irl, that's okay!

I hope I was helpful! :]

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my oblivion character

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in times like these at least i have the character

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John Wick (2014)

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I love this scene so much. Santino's attitude, Winston not allowing him to act like this in his hotel, but he let him know that in such a calm but still confident way. There's so much I love what's happening here, but I'll write down these dialogs.

"Then you know that I have the right to demand..."

"Nothing. You demand nothing of me, Mr. D'Antonio. This kingdom is mine and mine alone."

I like how Santino didn't snap back, even though I love when he's snappy, but he used his attitude and confidence again and just said:

"Alright. Then enjoy your kingdom, Winston, while you still can."

The ability of Santino to appear calm in these types of situations is something I love about him. But also, here I believe Winston really knew what was going to happen, what could happen, so even before John arrived, he remained calm and didn't agitate Santino even more.