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The Winged Victory of Samothrace, Louvre, Paris, Édouard Baldus, circa 1855

albumen print

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"my gut is telling me that if you make something you love, you should just put it out into the world."

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I’m calling this tropic academia. (: 

I don’t own any of the pictures.

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Last moments of this blossom. This is a Tabebuia rosea. Its blossoming is quite late but it is fated to end with the warm weather. See you next year, pretty.

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Went to a lovely little bookstore today.

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Productivity vs Anxiety

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I wasn’t going to post anything today because I didn’t do anything aesthetic that would look pretty here. I’ve got some foliar area to measure and I use ImageJ for that. And there are thousands of pictures still to go. It is the boring part of working with plants, but I like everything else, so that measures up. I also decided to give you a short list for things I do when I can’t study because of my anxiety. For me, it is difficult when I sit in front of my computer to get stuff done and I just can’t do it, and the more I try the more it gets worst. I suffer from this for a long time now, and I came to realise what I need to do to couple with what I’m feeling at that moment. It doesn’t make the anxiety go away, it doesn’t make the physical symptoms to shut off at once, but with some time, I can come back to work feeling good. Well, this is what I do: 

–   First I struggle. Even going through this for many years, I still try to force myself working for some days before realising what I really have to do. By forcing myself to a certain state, it gets worse. If you’re not feeling ok to do something, even though you love it, don’t feel ashamed. Don’t make less of yourself because of that. It is natural, it is ok. There is only so much our body can take – or make – at once, and the same goes for our brains, our minds. If you need a rest, step away a bit. 

–   By realising that going on with what I should be doing is making me more ill, I stop doing it. At first, not really, as I keep blaming myself for not doing it, but then that feeling goes away. I accept better my situation; I try to do what I like doing but within some boundaries. For example, I love reading. But as I know myself better and better with time, I know that by reading a story that I love today will probably make me to not want to read that paper tomorrow (when I’m in this state only). So, I don’t read. Hence, you have to listen your body and your inner self, get to know you and answer accordingly. Remember: you don’t have to accomplish it all at once. Living is enough. 

–   The next thing is turning off my mobile. Even when you’re feeling well again, let it off for a couple more of days. I can’t explain how much that helps. But don’t just turn it off and keep thinking about what messages may there be, or what is happening on Instagram. Let it go. Shake it off your system for the time being. 

–   Things don’t have a right order here, but for my “mentally resting time” I really just let myself be. I’m an introvert that in some occasions behaves like an extrovert, and I do love building friendships. So, if you feel like it, hang out with your friends, go explore some place new – in the wild or not – run, exercise, yell, or simply do some gardening, play with your pet, hug whoever you love, read that book, meditate, sleep even. Just find what works out for you to let all that tension go away and leave space for new feelings, memories, accomplishments. I personally like playing with my cats, I find that alongside with meditation and gardening the most powerful tools. But that is for me. You should experiment. 

–   So, I rested a couple of days, probably didn’t talk to anyone but my parents and pets, and I feel better. It may take you a few more days to get to that point or not, but know it will happen – but, of course, you have to want to. Then I take another day “off”, but not exactly. I just try to let myself realise that I am rested, I am well, everything is ok inside-out and that the next day is a work day. I don’t rush anything, I don’t plan anything (making plans get me so so so exhausted and anxious every time) I just do some calming stuff as the past days, but start doing something that is actually work. Something easier or that I simply don’t mind if I do it all wrong and have to redo the next day. That is the point: allow yourself doing something without caring about perfection. I postponed the very existence of this tumblr for years because I wanted it to be perfect, and it never seem to be right time for me to doing so. And now, I’m finishing my masters! How much could I have done?! Don’t try to be perfect! You’re awesome and what you do is awesome. 

–   The next day, is a work day. I wake up earlier than I would for planning that day only. Take small steps. If you feel ok by planning, then go ahead and plan your whole week. If I do that, I guess my brain wants to do it all in 5 minutes. It doesn’t work well. So I don’t do that anymore, unless I really have to. I specifically don’t do that when I’m anxious. When I’m in this state I just think about that day or the next day. I’m trying to work on my self-discipline for that all ~ planning the whole week hour by hour ~ and actually doing it, so if you have any tips, please let it in the comments. I appreciate that very much. Anyways, I woke up earlier, had a nice cup of coffee, and planned my day. Then I actually start my day, by doing what have to be done, but in that more positive mindset. At the end of the day, I plan the next day. And so on. 

It takes me 6 days more or less to get back to normal. And even after that, I try to keep myself in that mindset of acceptance, that I don’t have to hurry things and all. But, honestly, it doesn’t last long. Or not as long as I wish it would. But I actually don’t feel bad for a pretty good time, months even. Things just get back to normal, but eventually I have to stop and do it all again. Remember that I’m human. That I can do whatever I want, but it doesn’t have to be all at once, or in a specific amount of time, or in a specific way. I’m allowed to make mistakes, and I shouldn’t care about being judged, because even if I just try, I’m worthy and precious only for doing so. 

I hope this helps anybody that needs it. I don’t have professional tips. I’m not saying these are the right thing to do, but it is something that have helped. It is fine, only natural, to not feel bright and be productive all the time. No matter what, you’re worthy, you’re precious.

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I spent most of this day organizing my schedule and getting some inspiration and self-discipline tips, mainly by watching some videos and reading some articles. You may not know but I have a thesis to write and I’m a huge procrastinator when I don’t have any lab work to do - which is the case. So I’m struggling. If you have any tips for people like me - that is more active when actually have some work to do that is not only about sitting and reading and writing for months - please tell me. I can promise you that is not laziness, I feel truly anxious by doing so. Anyways, in the beginning of this evening I revised some japanese basics with a nice live study video from  이내합격 INAE. I highly recommend that, it really brought me some inner peace. Also I started my inspo bujo as suggested by Fabulous app, but didn’t do much. Now I’ll try to set my week schedule (again as I wasn’t mentally able to work today) and try and get some good sleep. 

Also, what is up with the weather? I live in the south hemisphere and I can assure you that summer is already at its full potential. I miss living in Ireland the most these days.  ):

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Good day to you! 

You guys, I'm trying to be more active here, but it is difficult for now, as I am finishing my masters and have loads to do. Anyways, I am a little bit late but, I brought you some wallpapers that you can download. There are 12 options, 6 of them are Virgo or Libra related. The other 6 bring you september calendars. Check it out! I plan on releasing some nice and free content soon. Keep an eye on my social media for that. Hope y’all having a great week. (:

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Hi everyone! Here is a selection of some nice messages that you can download for free and print if you wish. I plan on doing this very often, and with more inspirational and peaceful quotes. Some of them might be my own as I like writing too. And some of them might be in portuguese. Hopefully, you will find something to help you on your study journey - or any journey truly. You can check out my Etsy too, soon there will be lots of printables there (:

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Hello there! I created this blog so that I can share with you my creations. I like to create frames and printables. I’m currently attempting to sell them on Etsy, but soon I’ll share some freebies here. I welcome all to know my work. I also am a freelancer traductor, revisor and academic writer (English and Portuguese only). 

Cheers (: