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attracted to butches in a faggot way 👍

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he/they/kit

what is UP my fellow dykes 📢🍾🥳

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transmasc dykes are awesome. i love dykes who are trans men. i love when a dyke is so masculine that they want to go on T or transition to become a man and still be a dyke. i love dykes who identify as men. i love transmasc boydykes and guydykes. i love transmasc lesboys. i love dykes who pack and wear men's clothing. i love super macho butches that identify as bears and hypermasculine. i love dykes who pass for cis men & like doing so. i love transmasc bigender and multigender dykes. i love transmasc genderfluid dykes. i love transmasc intersex dykes. i love transmasculine nonbinary & genderqueer dykes. i love genderfucked dykes who do whatever the hell they want at all times and don't care how other people see them.

i love transmasc, trans male, trans man & ftm dykes 💕

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My loverboy butch hat

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Thinking, once again, about butch4butch sex

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ugh i hate not being able to block from a sideblog on mobile

@staff please im begging you

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it’s that time of year again folks!! (he/they)

here’s my 6 selfies of 2024. This year….was rough. But i made it through!

tagging anyone who wishes to do this!

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goddd being kissed under the mistletoe this year by a hot dyke would fix me actually

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I don't know which pillow princess needs to hear this right now, but there’s a stone/service top out there that's going to spoil the fuck outta you.

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god gives his most specific, hard to explain genders to his strongest dykes

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You have a complex relationship with your body and need to keep some/all of your clothes on during sex?

That's okay, what you're wearing looks good on you.

You need to take a lot of breaks doing anything intimate because you're easily overwhelmed?

I understand, I'm just happy to be here with you.

You're on medication that impacts your libido/makes reaching orgasm really difficult?

No pressure, tell me what feels good for you, and if you get frustrated we can do something else together.

Sex isn't going to look the same for everybody and that's fine, that's normal.

Sometimes you don't orgasm, sometimes you need to stop because your mood changes out of nowhere, sometimes you get really self conscious and need accommodations to take your mind off of it.

People are too complex for everybody to go about it the same, just keep doing what feels best for you, regardless of how different it may seem from other people's experiences.

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If you're ever feeling like the jingle of the keys on your carabiner is too loud, like you need to tuck it away in your pocket, tell me - would you rid a cat of its meow? A dog of its bark? No? Well, there you go! Let the call of the dyke jingle for all to hear!

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goddd being kissed under the mistletoe this year by a hot dyke would fix me actually

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holy crap i can’t believe butchtisms wasn’t taken!! anyways:

boydykeharlancore -> butchtisms

maybe this one will stick haha

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There was a good post about including disabled and chronically ill butches in your love for butches, and how some butches can't do labor-intensive, physical protection, and I wholeheartedly agree, but I think it's important to also realize protection isn't just physical. This idea that it is, is what made previous butch-love movements fall so flat, I feel.

Butch/femme was never about being a muscular guard-dog butch for a femme waif. It will never be, either. And the femme protects the butch just as much as the butch does the femme. By rejecting femininity and gender as is imposed unto women, you create the space for femmes to subvert gender, and vise versa. You protect each other from the pressure (and pain!) of conforming. It's emotional. It's spiritual. It's intimate. Sometimes sexual, sometimes not. Sometimes leaving a stone on land, sometimes watching it change with the flow of water. It's so much more than what I can describe with words.

Never just physical. Physical ability never makes a butch, nor does it define "protection." You can be a bouncer of a masc, but not a butch because of this.