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“rap is the worst music genre” “no actually it’s soul” “no actually it’s jazz” “no actually it’s ska” “no actually it’s r&b” hey guys do you notice a common denominator in the genres you hate or is it just me

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I’m about to save you thousands of dollars in therapy by teaching you what I learned paying thousands of dollars for therapy:

It may sound woo woo but it’s an important skill capitalism and hyper individualism have robbed us of as human beings.

Learn to process your emotions. It will improve your mental health and quality of life. Emotions serve a biological purpose, they aren’t just things that happen for no reason.

1. Pause and notice you’re having a big feeling or reaching for a distraction to maybe avoid a feeling. Notice what triggered the feeling or need for a distraction without judgement. Just note that it’s there. Don’t label it as good or bad.

2. Find it in your body. Where do you feel it? Your chest? Your head? Your stomach? Does it feel like a weight everywhere? Does it feel like you’re vibrating? Does it feel like you’re numb all over?

3. Name the feeling. Look up an emotion chart if you need to. Find the feeling that resonates the most with what you’re feeling. Is it disappointment? Heartbreak? Anxiety? Anger? Humiliation?

4. Validate the feeling. Sometimes feelings misfire or are disproportionately big, but they’re still valid. You don’t have to justify what you’re feeling, it’s just valid. Tell yourself “yeah it makes sense that you feel that right now.” Or something as simple as “I hear you.” For example: If I get really big feelings of humiliation when I lose at a game of chess, the feeling may not be necessary, but it is valid and makes sense if I grew up with parents who berated me every time I did something wrong. So I could say “Yeah I understand why we are feeling that way given how we were treated growing up. That’s valid.”

5. Do something with your body that’s not a mental distraction from the feeling. Something where you can still think. Go on a walk. Do something with your hands like art or crochet or baking. Journal. Clean a room. Figure out what works best for you.

6. Repeat, it takes practice but is a skill you can learn :)

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🏳️‍🌈HAPPY PRIDE!!!🏳️‍⚧️

Fuck you Disney these characters are queer :)

Version with my headcanon individual pride flags under the cut:

It's ok to disagree with my headcanons, just don't be a prick

Also, yes, this is the return of the Kalluzeb boob meme

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This is what “Batman:White Knight” basically about

From my Patreon

P.s. also! is it batjoke or batjokes? idk, tmblr has both tags

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1000 Books You May Have Actually Read

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DinLuke Week 2024: Voting Begins!!🖤💚

Hello, fellow DinLukers! Now that season 3 is over and a movie is on its way in place of a season 4, some of us fans have been missing our boys and their little green son.

Here's an upcoming event that could rouse your interests 👀

Voting for DinLuke Week is now open! Click on the link below to help us pick this year's final prompts. Since last year, we've gotten more than 700 followers who we bet are excited to join in creating and to see the amazing fanworks being submitted! Thanks so much for all your support 🥰

Voting will be open from May 19th to May 30th! The final prompts will be posted not long after, so keep your eyes out for it!

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the whole mutual thing is really overhyped on this site. sometimes interests don’t match up and that’s the only reason why there isn’t a mutual following. if you’re a regular in my inbox or my notifications, i have visited your blog before. if i didn’t want you around for any reason, you would be blocked. so yeah. you can spam my notes and/or talk with me (and possibly become my friend) even if i’m not following you back. no worries.

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In those moments alone

The first episodes of Bridgerton season 3 have me in a chokehold, and I could not stop myself from writing at least a little bit of smut about it.

Author | Cam_elot Fandom | Bridgerton (TV), Bridgerton Series - Julia Quinn Pairing | Colin Bridgerton/Penelope Featherington Rating | Explicit Characters | Colin Bridgerton, Penelope Featherington Tags | Wet Dream, Masturbation, Fantasizing, Oral Sex, Vaginal Fingering, Pining, POV Colin Bridgerton, Porn with Feelings, Season 3

Summary “Colin” Her whisper tears through him like a blade and he finds himself on his knees before he can take a breath. She says his name again. She did a million times before but never has her voice had this breathless quality before. He wants her.

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DinLuke Mermay 🧜‍♂️✨💚

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KRISTEN STEWART by Zoey Grossman for Porter Magazine | May 2024

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🌟DinLuke Week 2024 Prompt Submissions 🌟

Hello, fellow DinLuke shippers!

Please use the Google Form below to submit any prompts you would like to see/create fanworks for during DinLuke Week 2024! We look forward to seeing what you all come up with this year! 🖤💚

IMPORTANT INFO:

You don't have to be a creator to submit prompts! We'd love to hear from all DinLuke fans what sort of content they'd like to see.

You can only toss us 10 prompts per Form response, but you can send as many responses as you want. Go wild!

If you have any questions about prompt submission or the event as a whole, send us an ask! We are happy to send you a private reply, if you request it.

We have a dedicated DinLuke Week channel in the Star Dads Discord server! We post notifications, updates, and reminders about the event as we move forward. The moderators of the server are also the moderators of the event, and they are available to answer any questions you have! For a link to the server, please visit the Star Dads Tumblr blog and check the pinned post.

Follow this blog for updates about the event! And consider reblogging this post to help us get more prompts!

@swfandomevents

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the whole point of a zine is that it's cheap to produce, amateur and homemade. if you're being asked to apply to participate in a print project, it is not a zine. if the final product is being printed and bound professionally, it is not a zine. if you are being asked to enter into any kind of licensing agreement more complex than "my work can be reproduced as part of this publication" it is not a zine. nine times put of ten if the final product costs more than $5 you have left zine country. im so serious about this.

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This was supposed to be just a simple outline and shades but I think I got a bit too into it

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real

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My cowboy Bo-Katan pinup piece for the @wildwestzine !

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💖Be cruel to me, cause I’m a fool for you💖

Got all four pinups of the Baby Saving Lesbian Squad done in time for Valentine’s Day 👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩 who’s you’re favorite?