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the bad part of autism they don't talk about is that sometimes hyperfixation does become an exclusive thing. yeah sorry nothing else exists for me right now. "didn't you say you were going to do things" yeah but my brain is having tunnel vision

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anyone wanna see the most birthday boys response to the Protect the Dolls trend? w merch being sold by the kinda trans guy that creates a transmasc only beach day and says no other trans people can come even if invited by a disabled trans guy who wants them there

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ocd is so weird bc its completely belittled and infantilized on the surface level (aka the stereotype- what people think ocd is like) but then the reality of it, the actual symptoms, are completely demonized once you get into them and people see you as evil just for having this mental illness in a non quirky way like they assumed its like. and then at the same time its not taken seriously at all and all the symptoms are handwaved as not that deep because how could you be so upset about something so dumb lol just dont do the compulsion its easy. why dont you hashtag let the intrusive thoughts win and shut the fuck up

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oh i am so pissed rn

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im wine drunk and in tears over this garfield

fucking look at him

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He means a little squeeze bottle with brine shrimp inside but… bottle feeding the loblings…

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can we normalize platonic cuddling PLEASE. i’m not in a relationship but i really need to lay my head in someone’s lap with their hands in my hair like ughhhhhhh

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i remember you from when we were bugs

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you dhould be your own person. you are so young and insecure. at this rate you will never be able to find the cup or the scepter

what

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every time a trans girl infodumps me abt something they're passionate about i cant help but i fall in love a little bit

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wait other post cancelled. mutuals. when r ur birthdays.

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*if you know/have confirmed from multiple sources, pick the first one you experienced

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Just saw a post asking how tall people are and now I want to make it a poll. Apologies to people in the fringe height categories, you do not get specifics.

I had to consult a chart for this

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I think 50 shades of grey did so much damage to BDSM writing in fic and like not because I think fic writers were taking inspiration from it, but we did get a lot of detailed explanatory posts about all the different ways in which those guys were Doing It Wrong, which is not in and of itself a bad thing but since then everybody got so hung up on making sure everybody in their fics was nothing like 50 shades of grey and actually demonstrates that yes I do understand the principles of safe sane and consensual and the traffic light system and safewording and aftercare and checking in that now everybody fucks like a 101 handbook and I think we've only just recently started to recover from it. love me a dynamic where it's two repressed freak idiots who accidentally invent BDSM all on their own and have to come up with the strangest most deeply harmful ways of navigating that situation

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if you find a part of a human body (not your own) you shouldn’t keep it in your house for the next 50 years. yeahhhhh. that jawbone is not for youuuuuuuu.

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I’ve decided that my 20s are actually age 25 - 35