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The Power of Words: Why Writing Is My Therapy ✍️💭

There’s something magical about putting pen to paper or fingers to keys that just makes my soul feel at peace. Writing has always been my way of processing the chaos in my head, turning my overthinking into something tangible, and finding clarity in a world that’s constantly moving too fast. I’ve kept journals for as long as I can remember, and each one is like a snapshot of my journey, a way to…

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The Dishwasher Dilemma: Life Lessons in Soapy Water 💧 🧼

Well… our dishwasher broke. 🤨 And let me tell you, the mountain of dirty dishes it left behind wasn’t exactly the “adventure” I had planned for the week. But, when life gives you lemons, 🍋 you hand your kids a sponge and see what happens. 🧐 When the dishwasher died mid-cycle, it left behind a sad mix of not-quite-clean dishes inside and a sink full of others waiting their turn. I sighed, rolled…

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When Kids Complain There’s Nothing to Eat… But Really, There’s EVERYTHING to Eat 🍕🍪🍎

Okay, moms and dads how many of you have heard the words, “There’s nothing to eat!” coming from the mouths of your kids? 🙄 And then, when you take a look in the kitchen, you’re left wondering if they’ve lost their minds. Because, really, there is an entire buffet of options available, and somehow, they’re convinced the fridge is empty. Sound familiar? Yeah, I thought so. 🤦‍♀️ Let’s dive into…

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The Day Before: When My Wedding Vision Came to Life

I’m still floating in the wedding bubble, not quite ready to let go of the magic and honestly, I don’t think I ever will. There’s something about that entire weekend that lives in my heart now, and while the wedding day itself was beautiful beyond words, the day before deserves its own love story. The truth is, I DIY’d every single part of our wedding. Every centerpiece, every sign, every tiny…

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The Epic Saga of Getting My Kids to Clean Their Room 🧹✨

Let’s be real for a second: getting kids to clean their rooms is an adventure. It’s like trying to herd cats, except the cats are much louder, way more opinionated, and can’t remember where they put their shoes. But hey, it’s part of the parenting gig, right? 🙃 Now, I love my kids to bits, but when it comes to their room, it’s like a tornado passed through. Every. Single. Day. No matter how…

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Our First Adventure as Husband and Wife, Niagara Falls Honeymoon Magic

Four days after our beautiful wedding, I was still floating on cloud nine. Every time I looked at my new husband, I felt like the luckiest woman in the world. After over a decade together, and now officially married, we were ready for our first adventure as husband and wife our honeymoon. Neither of us had ever been to Niagara Falls, Ontario, so we packed up the truck and hit the road for a full…

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☀️ Why Summer Is Sacred in Our House

There’s something about summer that just hits different. It’s not just a season in our house—it’s a state of mind. As soon as the warm breeze rolls in and the days stretch a little longer, our family comes alive in a whole new way. Summer is sacred here. And not because it’s perfect—but because it’s ours. ❤️ ☀️ 🌿 We Chase Adventure (Even in Our Backyard) We’re campers at heart. Whether we’re…

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Family Movie Night: They're Probably Just Here for the Snacks, But I Love It Anyway 🍿🎬

There’s something magical about family movie night, right? The popcorn, the cozy blankets, and the promise of a great film to bring everyone together for some much-needed downtime. But let’s be real for a second: while I’m over here genuinely excited about the movie we’re going to watch together, I’m pretty sure my kids are just there for one thing—and one thing only. The Snacks. And honestly,…

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Our Kids Are Growing Up Before Our Eyes: Cherishing Every Moment 💖

As I sit here, watching my kids go about their daily lives, I can’t help but feel a mixture of awe and disbelief. How did we get here so quickly? It feels like just yesterday I was holding them in my arms as tiny babies, and now they’re growing into their own individuals with personalities, dreams, and opinions. Time moves fast when you’re a parent, and sometimes it feels like it’s slipping…

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I Went to the Grocery Store for One Thing...Here’s What Happened

A tale of good intentions and way too many impulse buys. You know the routine. You head to the grocery store with a clear purpose—one thing on your list. Maybe you’re just grabbing some milk or picking up bread for tomorrow’s lunch. Simple. Nothing more. But then… you walk through the automatic doors. And before you know it, you’re standing in the checkout line, your cart brimming with things…

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My Coffee Is Cold Again: A Day in the Life of a Busy Mama of Three

Because sipping it hot is a luxury I gave up around kid #2. It’s 7:00 a.m. My alarm goes off—again—and I can already hear the shuffle of tiny feet (or is that my 14-year-old dragging herself out of bed). Coffee’s brewing, but I know better than to get excited. The likelihood of it staying hot is about as high as my chance of winning the lottery. In this house, coffee is never hot for long, and…

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I Don’t Have It All Figured Out (But Somehow, It’s Working)

Let’s just get this out there: I’m not a perfectly organized, color-coded-calendar kind of mom. I forget things. I reheat my coffee a hundred times. My house is loud, chaotic, and almost always a little messy. And you know what? I’ve finally stopped trying to pretend otherwise. Because even without having it all figured out… something is working. Somehow, the kids get to school.Somehow, dinner…

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Why Showering Alone Feels Like a Spa Day

The rare moments of peace that make motherhood a little more bearable. As moms, we rarely get time to ourselves. Our days are spent managing chaos, making sure everyone is fed, dressed, and happy. But there’s one magical place where we can find a brief escape from the madness: the shower. Let’s be real—taking a shower alone isn’t just about getting clean. It’s a moment of sanctuary, an…

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What Happens When We All Go to the Grocery Store: A Comedy of Errors 🛒🍪

Taking my whole family to the grocery store is like participating in an extreme sport. It’s not for the faint of heart, and if you’re not prepared, you might find yourself in a situation you never expected—like running through the aisles trying to chase down a runaway shopping cart while simultaneously arguing about cereal brands. Here’s a peek at what happens when we all go to the grocery store…

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A Day in the Life of a Personal Support Worker: Embracing the Chaos, Heart, and Humanity 💙

As I sit here writing this, I find myself reflecting on what my day was like. You see, working as a personal support worker (PSW) isn’t just a job—it’s a calling. It’s about more than just providing physical care or helping someone with their daily routines. It’s about showing up every single day and embracing the unpredictability of each person’s needs. For those of you who might not be…

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✨We Did It: Our Family-Focused Wedding Day💍

On June 7th, we stood under the arch I built with my own two hands, surrounded by love, laughter, and all the chaos that makes our life perfectly ours. After 12 years together and 9 years engaged, we finally said I do and it was everything I hoped for and more. It wasn’t just about Wayne and me. It was about our family, our story, and the people who’ve been there through it all. Our daughter…

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💍 Today’s the Day 💗

After 12 years, a whole lot of love, laughter, chaos, and everything in between… today, I get to marry my best friend. 🥹 🤍🤍🤍 This day isn’t just about the two of us it’s about all of us. Our kids, our memories, our journey, our people. The late nights, the silly fights, the healing, the joy, the hard stuff, and the moments that made us stronger. I’ve dreamed of this day, and now it’s here.…