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#tell them hunny.

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me watching love and leashes

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Jiwoo, you’re my sun. The first sun I’ve ever met.  LOVE AND LEASHES (2022) dir. Hyeon Jin Park

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what I really like about “Love and Leashes”

calls out toxic masculinity, heteronormativity, sexism, harassment and homophobia right from the start till the end

Femdom and Malesub 👌

even though it’s a romcom about B-D-S-M it doesn’t mock it or drags it into a parody, from the first trailer I expected it to be more comedic but I am glad it isn’t that much (it has funny parts but also handles the topic seriously)

it is actually really educational!!

includes some psychological aspects

includes fails

they both communicate and set boundaries!

aftercare

the glasses as subtle sign of “consent” in the office is clever

talks about non-sexual and sexual B-D-S-M relationships, while pointing out that it’s different for everyone and you should just do what fits you all best

draws a big line between consent and assault, shows safety precautions 

separation between daily life, romantic feelings and sessions (if you are in D/s relationship this is not a 24/7 thing…)

supportive non-prude mom

fucc kink shaming in the year of 2022

THEY ARE BOTH LOVELY

(the OST is nice too!)

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me: actually being happy, smiling and joking around for once

my anxiety:

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IM DYING

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Swear 🥵🥵🥵

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Mikannie dynamic:

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everyone on tumblr dot com after seeing an unnamed aesthetic

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I'm trying to understand how this shit is romantic 😑 first he steals her first kiss because some dude is stalking her. How are you going to help someone from getting harassed by harassing them and kissing them without asking?! Wtf. She's all jumpy around him too after because she's scared he'll do it again without permission. And then he invites her to karaoke where he's admitted that there's a girl there that's his first love? And expects her to not react? He kissed her and acts like it's nothing. And then he takes her to go bowling with someone he slept with 🥲 like this dude is a walking red flag. And then he tells her to not cut her hair even though she wanted to because he preferred her hair long! Like cmon bruh. This anime pisses me off. When that chick said, I took advantage of his kindness 🥲 He didn't say no when she offered up the opportunity 🥲 How does his dick just accidentally fall in? He clearly made his choice to sleep with her. He gives me "nice guy" vibes. Ew creepy 🤢🤮

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my piece for the ‘Classics But Make It Gay’ zine!!

based on The Death of Marc Anthony , by Pompeo Girolamo Batoni

prints available here!

(click image for optimal quality)

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please help me get top surgery

i was holding off on remaking this post until i have a set date but everything's very chaotic with my doctor rn but it's sometime at the end of January, so I only have until the beginning of January to get the money, please help me by sharing/reblogging this post!! thank you so much to everyone for all the help and kindness so far, I can't express how thankful I am for everything🥺 🥺 🥺

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I've been feeling out of it lately. All I did was purchase some onlyfans type of content, and I managed to fall in love with the person in the video. How the fuck does that happen? How do I fall in love with someone that's masturbating on camera like that? I feel like a fucking creep and stalker. I basically have become one. It's driving me crazy. I should've never watched those videos. I never do this. I never ever fall for some online persona. They're not like a celebrity or anything but they have a big following. Am I just some kind of raging fan? 🥲🤮 I don't want to feel this anymore. I stopped watching those vids I purchased, so maybe I just need to avoid looking through their content all around? I think this is just a crush. Please make it stop. I don't want to like them anymore. It's making me crazy.