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Bringing back ye old crowdfunding graphic because my mother and I are very desperately needing help right now. I can't find work or get the public assistance I need and she will literally be served an eviction noticed by the end of next week if she is unable to cover her rent.

I have no means of gaining income right now. My mother is disabled and can only work her alloted 40 hours per week, nothing more and nothing less. I hate to beg, but I really don't know what else to do.

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#B00st

I know I rarely post on this blog anymore, but I’ll start again if y’all act right.

Let’s start by helping keep a Black Trans person housed.

My best friend was kind enough to make this flyer for me to help me crowdfund. I would sincerely appreciate it if yall could share and donate if you're able🙏🏽

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I just put in $75, who can match me?

I'm literally wearing non slip work shoes in this weather btw and my mother only has a few pairs of Chucks. We do not have the shoes to get by in this weather.

Please please please we just need $150 then we'll be able to get our winter boots and the rest of our winter essentials

PP: paypal.me/ravenstarr

CA: $Multibasura

VM: rosapantera

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Found a TikTok account that is actively documenting plus size brands. Please share!

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fat girls are hella pretty reblog if you agree

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#boost #mutualaid #supportblackqueers

Hey mootie patooties!! I know I often make posts for myself but in this case this is for a very special person. My best friend just now able to secure housing for themselves and has started a new job recently as well. However, due to the loans they've had to take out to continue having housing they are now low on funds and will be served an eviction notice on June 30th if they are unable to pay this month's rent. Anything helps, please share and dm for further details if needed

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Sometimes the grandma really do be the baby 🤷🏾‍♀️

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Prince ☔️

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B00st!

I am once again asking for monies 😩

I've been interviewing for so many jobs in the last two months, putting in as many apps as possible but I have not had any luck. I have about 1k worth of bills to pay and I'm severely overwhelmed. I live in Ohio, I cannot afford to have my gas turned off. Please share this and donate if at all possible. It's okay to share outside of Tumblr. I just need help. Thank you to my mooties who donated the last time I made a post, ily 🥺

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Might all three Magic Mike films be about challenging the audiences idea of traditional masculinity, providing examples of healthy homosocialism while also exploring the darkside of the adult entertainment business, the pitfalls of success, destigmatizing the sexual desires of women, the struggles of blue collar workers (and the fact that they overlap with those of sex workers), the impact of the 2008 recession on those very same demographics, capitalism and its impact on interpersonal relationships, knowing your worth and setting boundaries around that, vulnerability, and lastly, found family??

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Take a read.

My dad has a massive vegetable garden and it is his life. Whenever I ask how things are going, he tells me about the garden. Periodically he will text me a picture of the things he's harvested and ask when I'm coming to pick them up. And for a while, the biggest bit of garden gossip has been his nemesis, the gopher. This gopher was consistently ruining his day by pilfering the best of everything just before my dad could harvest it. Anytime I talked to him, all he had to tell me about was "that damned gopher." He dreamt about killing the gopher, his truest enemy. He tried to train the dog to hunt the gopher, but the dog is a pacifist. He led some of the barn cats to the holes, but the barn cats have unionized and refused his offered rate. He then laid no-kill traps (can't risk having poison near the crops) with eventual gophercide in mind, but then suddenly he was faced with a cute and terrified animal and didn't have the heart. He released it. "He was so scared, he'll never come back." The gopher was back the next day, with a vengeance. That was some weeks ago. Today, my dad sent me pictures of his garden, and I saw a squash gently laid by the gopher's hole, like a package left on the doorstep. I said "Dad, what's that squash doing there by the gopher hole?" He said "Oh, he likes squash best." In an effort to appease the gopher, my father now gives him a little squash everyday, like leaving an offering for a garden spirit. This apparently works well as a compromise; the gopher has stopped stealing, content to have his meals delivered to his door.

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THIS. The sharp return to ultra-conservative Cishet patriarchal archetypes (not that it really ever left) is not lost on me and it can/does permeate spiritual spaces. I’d say more, but y’all like to plagiarize 🙃

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“I’m glad to be your heart’s security guard.”

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Megan via Priscilla Ono’s IG Update (October 31, 2022)

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This is 100% true. I used to eat a ton when I was a kid/teen, I was seemingly a bottomless pit, but then in my early 20s, I started to get less and less hungry, and the amount I was able to fit in my stomach at one time decreased. People always assume that because I am fat, I prefer larger meals, and honestly I WOULD like to eat more, but I just…can’t lol.

we really can’t overstate how damaging it has been to indoctrinate the public with the idea that if they let themselves eat as much as they want, they’ll eat too much. human bodies, when permitted over the long term to eat as much as they want, actually get really, really good at calibrating their hunger and satiety, and will over time eat exactly the right amount for themselves. the common conception of a balanced eater as a minimal or restrained eater is absolutely wrong. balanced eaters eat quite a lot (compared to diet cultural ideas about right intake amounts), and they do so consistently and permanently. healthy, balanced eating isn’t some tightrope walk, it’s a gigantic net of total permission to eat.

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Yall wanna be gnc and androgynous but hate intersex people and the idea of being intersex so much, I remember reading about PCOS potentially being considered an intersex disorder and having 100s of people dismiss it because "we can't just be calling 1 in 10 women intersex" or being in transmasc spaces and constantly being told that bottom growth and T dicks are undesirable and that people find non standard genetalia gross, in a GENDER INCLUSIVE SPACE.

The lgbt Community seriously needs to grapple with its hatred of intersex features and stop seeing androgyny that isn't pretty waify white person. You all love femme presenting androgyny but hate when people are androgynous in a broad or hairy way.