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Do you like to read? If yes, put your current/most recent book in the tags!

Yes

No

I used to but dont anymore

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unmarked .mov file that my qpp sent me over discord. enjoy

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— Daphne du Maurier

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adults: oh silly children with no responsibilities no real trauma no life experience no worries and yet oh so dramatic about nothing

also adults: oh thank fucking GOD i am not in school anymore, i had another nightmare i was THERE again, i woke up in a cold sweat bc i didn't study for my TEST-there's nothing not anything like the sweet relief of realizing that you actually don't have one and you won't have one in a very very long time, i still remember what the hallways smell like, i graduated years ago but i don't feel safe yet

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are u a "dont fucking touch me or ill rip ur spine out thru ur throat" traumatized or a "please please touch me i need physical validation to live" traumatized

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"hey *property manager*, I'm experiencing domestic violence and need to vacate this rental asap for the sake of my mental and physical wellbeing"

Property manager: I understand. There's nothing I can do to assist you. Have a nice day.

Property managers really are a different breed, hey...

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Things you should do while planning to move out

Calculate all your monthly expenses and add them to a google sheet, things to include: rent, food, phone bill, laundry, Misc, Dentist, Takeout, car payments, power and light, and if you have pets add the expenses from that

Start saving! Do the 50: 30:20 rule. -Needs 50%: Food/groceries, bills & utilities, housing & rent, Transportation. -Wants 30: Shopping, dining out, entertainment, travel. -Savings 20: emergency fund, Savings account, retirement fund, investments, debt payment, stocks, crypto

Make a five year plan (find ideas online)

Prepare yourself mentally to live alone

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“Your body MY choice”

My knife YOUR life

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“So, do it. Decide. Is this the life you want to live? Is this the person you want to love? Is this the best you can be? Can you be stronger? Kinder? More compassionate? Decide. Breathe in. Breathe out, and decide.”

— Meredith Grey

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Turquoise Lake, Colorado, USA

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I can think of a really easy solution to this problem.

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Having a healthy relationship with my partner has taught me that you’re not supposed to be yelled at if you cry. In fact, it’s normal to be comforted when you cry.

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You don't need to be actively trying to heal all the time. And honestly, that sounds like a recipe for burn out.

It's okay to not always be focused on your healing. It's okay to take breaks.