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Deleting my account so i dont actually kill myself. Hope youre happy that you made me want to die just because im joyful about my disability and I dont think its a bad thing.

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TW: Pedophilia

Teenagers are rarely taught the reason why they can't consent to sex with adults.

And that's because teaching them that would completely unravel our coercion-based society.

It can be difficult to explain in detail the exact reason and all the specifics in a way that they will understand. But the simplest way to phrase it is that in some cases, even when someone agrees to something and even when they appear enthusiastic about it, there's too much of a power imbalance that it's no different than forcing them. Also, having power and being abusive doesn't require a conscious expectation to be obeyed.

Imagine a world in which every teenager understood that and was easily able to call out anyone who tried to convince them otherwise.

They'd know that there's no such thing as an employee consenting to working for a poverty wage, working in unsafe conditions, working long hours, or working without taking breaks. They'd know that there's no such thing as consenting to paying a bank overdraft fee. They'd know that there's no such thing as consenting to student loan debt. They'd know that there's no such thing as consenting to medical bills. They'd know that there's no such thing as consenting to generating profit for banks or landlords in order to have a place to live and being evicted or foreclosed when you lose your source of income. They'd know that there's no such thing as consenting to a police search. They'd know that there's no such thing as a child who's okay with their parents spanking them. They'd know that being dependent on someone does not mean that you can never criticize them. They'd know that if it's considered abusive to simply play along when someone obeys, then it has to be much more abusive to actively expect to be obeyed, which many adults do to them.

And people who benefit from a society based on coercion masquerading as freedom wouldn't like that.

So instead, teenagers are taught something dismissive. They're taught that what they want doesn't matter. They're taught that they're too young to know what love is. They're taught "it's the law". They're taught things that are insulting to their intelligence, which they'll naturally rebel against.

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I literally have POTS and hEDS and autism and many more disabilities. I am a disabled voice. Deal with it.

Its all "disability is not inherently bad" and "disability isn't a curse" and "disability should be viewed as a normal part of life" until the transabled people say it. Just say you're ableist with the amount of shit you're spewing about disability being inherently undesirable

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I got tired and went onto photoshop and my friend told me to post what I made so

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Its all "disability is not inherently bad" and "disability isn't a curse" and "disability should be viewed as a normal part of life" until the transabled people say it. Just say you're ableist with the amount of shit you're spewing about disability being inherently undesirable

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If you reblog or reply to my posts with anti radqueer bullshit and dont expect me to block and laugh at you, idk why youre doing it. You look like a fool, im sorry-not-sorry. I will keep tagging with disability tags because being transabled is part of the disabled experience whether you like it or not.

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Okay lol. Stay mad????

🍼 I get where ppl are coming from when they say “you dont want *thing* it isnt cute or quirky it is suffering” like yes I’m aware, however atypical dysphoria is not something I chose to have. I understand when I do end up transitioning fully to some of my transids I probably will be suffering to some degree but that to me sounds better than the dysphoria. I’m aware what these things entail because I have done my research as well as most radqueer people have done, I know what is going to happen and I know how I’m going to feel and I would rather feel like that than dysphoric I rather have that experience than dysphoria.

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Hey, warning that I am unable to respond to messages or replies in my posts! Reblog or send me an ask if you wanna talk to me ^^

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This!!! As a transabled person who ended up "transitioning" (aka i found out I had disabilities and they suddenly got worse) I hate when anti transabled disabled people (or even able bodied pricks) are like "actually you don't know what you want because you're glamourizing the condition and you dont know the ACTUAL horrible symptoms and--" shut up!!!

Do they think transabled people genuinely don't know that a disability has... Symptoms? That don't feel necessarily good? Dude. We WANT the symptoms, bruh, thats what we are on about

If you expect me to "regret" my transition, if you want me to say "nooo don't transition to a difficult condition it'll be difficult :((" you've come to the wrong disabled person. I fucking love being disabled. I love my chronic pain. I love when I dislocate something. I love when my heart rate spikes to 170 from walking a little bit. I love when my legs give out mid-trip. I love spending money on mobility aids, and I love using them and needing them. It's worth it guys.

If you feel in your heart that you should be disabled, I have tips, and I am a safe space. Do it. Buy the mobility aids you "don't need". Decondition yourself and make things worse so your dysphoria can be relieved. If you don't have dysphoria, do it for the euphoria you know you will get when you sit on that wheelchair. Do it for the joy of walking around with crutches. Do it for the relief when something in your body hurts like hell and you feel right, like you belong. Do it for yourself, and the community of people behind you, we have your back.

Disability is not a curse or an inherently awful thing, so why shouldn't people want it?

🍼 I get where ppl are coming from when they say “you dont want *thing* it isnt cute or quirky it is suffering” like yes I’m aware, however atypical dysphoria is not something I chose to have. I understand when I do end up transitioning fully to some of my transids I probably will be suffering to some degree but that to me sounds better than the dysphoria. I’m aware what these things entail because I have done my research as well as most radqueer people have done, I know what is going to happen and I know how I’m going to feel and I would rather feel like that than dysphoric I rather have that experience than dysphoria.

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Body's "mother" (woman who birthed us, lady housemate, whatever you wanna call her) saw our brand new rollator for the first time, sighed and went "you keep spending money on these things... (/neg /judgemental tone) EXCUSE ME LADY?

Like. Im sorry I need extra help to go to the grocery store??? Im sorry I used MY OWN MONEY to get something to HELP MYSELF?? Geez.

I literally wanna disappear when she says stuff like that. She KNOWS I have hEDS and she KNOWS I have POTS (I'm not diagnosed yet but she's seen my hypermobility symptoms and agrees with hEDS being the answer, plus I literally have an oximeter and I show it to her when my heart rate spikes up to 160+ bpm from standing/talking/getting dressed). Like??? WHAT.

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Thing that kinda pisses me off about the transID coining community: the language y'all use to refer to how someone's transID.

I ain't "thinkin" I'm my IDs, I don "believe" I'm my IDs, I AM my IDs. Thats like sayin a trans woman "believes" she's a woman. Y'all realize how transphobic that sounds, right? Y'all hear yourselves, right?

If that's the language y'all PERSONALLY wanna use in reference to YER IDs, thats YER business, but it ain't got a place in coinin, if ya ask me. It feels real dismissive of the reality of being transID & havin atypical dysphoria.

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INTRO !! 🌀 (not my art)

DAY (he/she/they), 19yo (call me CAR if you'd like!). rq, proship and no-c pro-c !! taken x2 (closed poly) by forest & para :3 brazilian, detransitioner, disabled, system!

DNI : anyone that will take issue w my existence ^^

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New main who dis. (Actually this is a sideblog used as a main) ((My main is actually @delightofday0 )) (((too much discourse there tho)))

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