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So, while non-white people struggle with racism all the time, white people want to experience racism?It feels like if all people agree that white people can experience racism (they can't but IF) they will celebrate it.Like "Omg, I'm so excited to be called racial slurs!!Also I really want people to insult me because of my race..Oh, wish me luck!!!".Because like actually wtf do these people want?And what do they mean by "racism to white people"?HOW MANY TIMES HAVE I ASKED THAT, no one has answered me.

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WHY DO PEOPLE ALWAYS SAY THAT KENNY IS PAN HE'S LITERALLY THE STRAIGHTEST PERSON EVER😭😭They did him SO straight y'all can't be fr..

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Why do people believe that Jimmy Urine is a pedo?

Girl accused him after 20 years (okay, a lot of people can do this after a lot of years) but there is literally no evidence that they have ever been together.Her just saying that they were isn't enough.

Jimmy, his lawyers and Jane agreed to end the lawsuit which doesn't mean that he's innocent or guilty BUT the fact that it was closed only when labels weren't accused anymore is saying A LOT.I mean, Jimmy isn't rich and when he's the only one accused it's closed?Interesting...

The lawsuit was not only against Jimmy, but also the manager and labels.Her claims are like "listen to their songs or OR OR read what they wrote when they were searchings for a drummer!!".And even if joking about pdf may be a bad thing, it's not an actual reason to accuse someone in pedophilia.Jimmy was not charged with a criminal offense, because Jane couldn't do it because it was like 25 years ago or something.It civil offense.

IDC what other say, but it's just so weird and I don't like to blame victims, but I don't think that she's a victim.It's probably for money.

Also, a lot of people say that he's racist.He used the n word and he said sorry for that, also it was more normalized back then.I don't think that he's racist in a way that he hates people because of their race or thinks that one race us better than others, but I can't really think of a word I would call it.I mean, he shouldn't have said that, no one shouldn't.It is disgusting to use this word, but also like saying that someone is racist only because of it...I don't feel like this.It's a shock band and in my opinion most of their songs have deep meaning that a lot of people can't understand.If you listen doesn't mean you hear, but you should.A lot of their song actually mock bad things and have really good and deep meaning, but people just like to say that msi is oroblematic.I think that it is problematic, but not THAT problematic.

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I've said before that russophobia isn't real and russians should understand it, but I want also ad that ukrainians should understand that it's impossible to cancel all russians.

Because often someone who is russian or isn't russian but has worked with russians/in russia before getting hate for that by ukrainians.Yes, we should boycott russian brands, companies or people who openly support russian aggression.BUT hating on all of these people is impossible.Also like why we don't hate on all countries then?It would mean hating even your own country.

The thing is: there is a war in ukraine, a lot of ukrainians lost their loved ones, their house, their country and even culture and language are being destroyed.Of course it makes people mad, so I think that's why some may go to far and that's why people from other countries have different opinion.

We need to remember that A LOT of people still work and are friends with russians and we can't do anything about it.But we shouldn't hate every russian artist, influencer etc who doesn't support russia, doesn't live there anymore and doesn't give concerts there.Situation with people who live there is a bit harder.Technically, they didn't do anything, but they at least silently support russia, sponsor war etc.At the same time it's actually hard to move from your country, not only financially.You have to live everything you had before, who if not ukrainians should understand it (situations are completely different, but still).Russians should take responsibility for what is going in Ukraine, still we can't just hate on everyone who is from russia because at the end of the day why did you chose to be born in Ukraine then?🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️But also I am really annoyed by how russians/russia are romanticized by westerners.I think even russians are shocked when they see all that shit, because most of it either not true or absurd.Like, no, most russians don't look like that, and no, poorness isn't cool.And especially when they romanticize russian soldiers🤢🤮🤮it's disgusting.

I believe in free russia, but you know, a bit 🤏🤏🤏 smaller.Like the size of moscovian republic, with freedom of all other republics.

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Tommy cash is so fine, I just can't...He's so hot I'm on the floor and I can't breath..someone please help.

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If Tommy Cash will be disqualified because his song is "mocking Italians" I can immediately tell who won the eurovision 2025...I usually don't like eurovision songs, but this is one of the good ones.

Also he's so ugly but in a good way🙏🙏He is ugly and hot...I'm obsessed..

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So, some people actually think that Ukraine gave up it's nuclear weapons to russia and then attacked russia...in Ukriane??

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One of the reasons I daydream is because I want to talk to someone, but I don't have any friends at all.Genuinely, how to make online friends?Where to find them?

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I have been daydreaming everyday since like 6-7 years old.Now that I'm trying to get rid of it, even like 30 minutes with actually me are so quiet and calm, because I literally ALWAYS daydream if I'm not reading, doing homework or something that needs to think about it, but anyway I will stop and daydream.But when I listen to music, draw, play games, eat, cook, take shower, walk etc I daydream.Doing these things and not daydreaming feels so weird and calm, refreshing, I like it.But the thing is: I can't stop daydreaming, even though I hate it.I love the scenarios I have, but maladaptive daydreaming is shit.I daydream automatically.I can think that I need to stop doing it and literally minute after I'll do it again and then stop myself and minute after I'll do it again and again and again...it's so annoying..

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Question to people who had maladaptive daydreaming, how long does it take to stop doing it?

What I have been noticing for a long time is that I always daydream about being who I want to be and getting attention maybe??I don't really crave attention this much, but I think I absolutely could change myself.Changing myself to who I want to be can help me.But I was daydreaming for years and now it's my habit.I do it automatically.Technically I can just stop myself everytime I catch myself doing it, but how long will it take to get rid of this habit?

I THINK that I daydream because then I can be whoever I want, so trying to be who I want to be should help??But is it possible to stop it if it has been my daily habit for years and it's only getting worse?

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It really pisses me off to see "But what can we do?.." from russians. and especially Ukrainians and Belaruthians because that's the cancerous state of mind spread by russia.

Okay, let's assume you were unlucky and you're ethnic russian or were raised in russia. You don't want to go fight or make donations or become a double agent. What can you do?

First of all, stop wasting your time on public whining and complaining and making yourself a victim. It doesn't help anyone, it only pisses people off.

Stop only saying how much you love Ukraine/Belarus. Your country is killing us and erasing our culture, the last thing we need is your love confessions.

Forget "Kiev" and "Kievan Rus". It's Kyiv and Kyivan Rus, and it always has been. It was Volodymyr Sviatoslavych the Great, not Vladimir - and there can not be any "accepted English form" because these "accepted English forms" were made by russia.

Forget the "slavic sisterhood" bullshit. Just accept the fact that we are not siblings. No matter how much russia tried, Poland didn't become its another sister, Finland didn't become its sister, and we will not as well. Ukraine is not your sister. Belarus is not your sister. Accept it and Give up.

Fix all the russified names in English Wiki. Enlight foreigners about the correct names. Yes, the Belaruthian cities and historical figures as well. It's Polack (in Belaruthian Latin) or Polatsk, not Polotsk.

Learn the goddamn Belaruthian Latin. It's not that hard.

Share information about Ukraine. Your country's war crimes especially. Culture. Share information about Belarus and Belaruthian culture and always add that it's currently being erased by russia. Belaruthians really need cultural support, as much as Ukraine needs weapons.

STOP AVOIDING OCCUPATION OF ICHKERIA TOPIC. TALK ABOUT ICHKERIA. SHARE THEIR CULTURE.

STOP AVOIDING OCCUPATION OF SAKARTVELO (GEORGIA) TOPIC.

Just accept the fact that your country is a nazi state and stop whitewashing it. Spread awareness about what it does. Enough to hide behind "just politics".

Just accept that it's not "politics quarrelled us". Just accept that your neighbours have all the rights to hate you.

Crimea is Ukraine, Ichkeria is not russia.

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sometimes i think about how i’ve effectively dug myself a grave with this blog. half my internet presence is about being queer and ukrainian, famously two things russia hates the most.

if trump proceeds with the “peaceful negotiations” that happen without ukraine even present, if he pushes to implement another leader in ukraine (meaning, of course, a pro-russian puppet) and makes my country a quote unquote neutral territory, it obviously means occupation. when there are bombs over my head, i’m at least an abstract target, i can rely on luck not to get hit. if russians come to power tho? i’m toast.

i wish i was exaggerating, but this is already happening to people in occupied parts of the country. those who had social media posts in ukrainian, about queer rights, etc. are being seeked out and threatened. my acquaintance was once on call with her friend on crimea, who had weird noises in the background. when questioned, she casually said that they were coming from russian police beating her neighbour for listening to ukrainian music.

i constantly hear from people who miraculously left the occupied territories how they had to delete everything from their phones, because russian soldiers would do random phone searches — both just on the street or when a person tries to leave the occupied city. it’s not uncommon that people get shot over it.

everything about “peaceful negotiations” and “compromises”, trading “land for a peace agreement” promises me a death sentence

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They claimed that Ukraine is full of Nazis - yet they were the Nazis all along. They claimed Ukraine is the most corrupt country in the world - yet they are the oligarchs who openly bought their way into the government. Now they claim that Ukraine isn't the victim, but the aggressor who wants war - yet they threaten numerous countries with invasion. Now they claim Ukraine is ungrateful and greedy - yet they demand us to give up our country's resources to them while gaining nothing in return. Now their leader claims Ukraine is ruled by a dictator - yet he praises the real dictator, who's been ruling a totalitarian regime and starting wars for 25 years. Now they claim Ukraine isn't a democracy - yet they openly call their leader a king and want him to rule forever.

Every accusation is an admission. Always.

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May be a hot take, but russophobia does not exist.What russians call "russophobia" is actually just russians being treated as they deserve, after all the things they did to countries around them.

Of course people won't be the nicest to you after your country stole their history and culture, banned their language and oppressed their people.

Different people can have different emotions, which is okay.You have never felt what they feel all the time, so you can't say how they should feel.

I agree that some people may actually hate all russians, but it doesn't mean that russophobia is a thing.Russians aren't being oppressed or discriminated in any way.To say that russophobia exists because some people actually hate all russians is to say that racism and hate that cancelled celebrities get when they fucked up is equal.

I personally try my best not to hate russians, which can be really hard when you open a history book, news or just look around.I understand that hating on all of them will be wrong, but it's really hard to control, which they need to understand.

A lot of countries speak russian and it's not because "historically it happened that way" as they like to say.

And boycotting something is not equal to hating on people.If you can boycott at least some thing then do it!!Not sponsoring war isn't hating on people.

Also russians need to understand that they're responsible for war because they support it or just don't do anything.

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It's crazy how even like few years ago if someone said that someone is a nazi, you both just automatically agreed that it's bad without even saying anything.Now when someone said that someone is a nazi you have to ask do they think that nazism is bad or good...

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"russia invaded Ukraine because they don't want nato on their borders" so they decided to take ukrainian territories so nato will be even closer to them?And what about Estonia, Finland, Poland?russia borders these countries that are in nato.Yet they attacking ukraine.Even more than that, putin said that he has no problems with Sweden and Finland in nato.And also who wanted to join nato??russia...right..