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PSA:

“Asexuality” is a sexual orientation describing little to no sexual attraction

“Ayyyyy, sexuality!” is a guy at a bar imitating Chandler from Friends while talking about sexuality

“Aye, sexuality,” is a pirate giving his kids ‘the talk’

learn and know the difference!

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Couple + Sibling/relative third wheel is honestly an S-tier trio dynamic and I wish we saw more of this in media.

"You are my soulmate. We are forged together by battle and tears and love. Also my brother's coming along."

"Yo."

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this new wave of posts that are expressing disgust at/making fun of polyamorous people is just regurgitated ace/pan discourse why the fuck are we doing this again

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Palestine fundraisers with easily-achievable goals

By "easily-achievable", I mean in the 50-60K range and below. Once again, drawing from my pinned list of fundraisers, which have all been vetted by Palestinians on Tumblr (check that post for the proof next to each family name). I'll update this post just like the main list and the "under 1000 donations" list. Many of these are extremely close to completing their funding. Let's help get them there!

As always, donate if you can, reblog if you can't!

LAST UPDATED 9/2

10K range

Aya's family Goal: 15K 2/3 funded

The Saftawi family Goal: 16K 3147 TO GO!

20K range

The Sami family Goal: 20K Half funded

Zaen and Yehya Goal: 25K 1/4 funded

The Ismaeel family Goal: 25K 1/3 funded

Ashraf's family Goal: 25K 4019 TO GO!

30K range

Ahmed's family Goal: 30K 1/3 funded

The Alnabih family Goal: 30K 4434 TO GO!

The Khalaf family Goal: 30K 2875 TO GO!

Issam Aziz's mother Goal: 30K 4053 TO GO!

Amira's family Goal: 39K 2/3 funded

40K range

The Hor family Goal: 40K Under 1/5 funded

The Abushammaleh family Goal: 40K 1/3 funded

The Shaqoura family Goal: 45K Half funded

The Aburass family Goal: 45K 1/4 funded

Note: The Aburass campaign is in SEK, so the goal is technically 450K, but converted to USD it's closer to 45. Ultimately I decided to include this one since USD, CAD, GBP, and EUR will be more powerful here, and a huge chunk of the site's user base will pay with one of those currencies. The more hands on deck, the better.

50K range

Amal's family Goal: 50K Under 1/5 funded

Walaa's family Goal: 50K 1/5 funded

The Shorbaje family Goal: 50K 1/3 funded

The Aldeeb family Goal: 55K 2/3 funded

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Intersex Woman Experience of being 18 at a gay club and having a group of butch dykes laugh at and openly critique the way I dressed - femme, but my body was too masculine, and so I deserved to be mocked for thinking I could dress like that. No lesbian would want a dyke like me. Before I ever let my beard grow out, while I was actively trying to pass.

Intersex Woman Experience of being in a gay club and having multiple gay men ask if I'm a baby drag queen because I was dressed femme, but my body was too masculine, so I couldn't be a woman in a dress - a man in a dress. Before I ever let my beard grow out, while I was actively trying to pass.

Intersex Woman Experience of hitting it off with a trans person at a bar, having great conversation, being misgendered or having my identity incorrectly assumed - and then when I politely say I'm an intersex woman and not trans, there's either fear on their face or they disconnect entirely and the conversation trails off. This is current, this is now.

Queer spaces are not welcoming or safe for intersex people. No group of queer people actively try to include us or make it safe for us.

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love myself a cockroach of a character. i look at them and go ”how is that fucker not dead? they should be dead. they should be dead ten times over. how are they not?” and 90% of the time the answer is a combo of sheer stubborness and homosexuality

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controversial opinion, but characters are so much more interesting when you are able to forget about shipping them for a moment and actually appreciate their unrelated personal plot/arc. if the most interesting thing you can think of about a character is the ship you like them with, then I don't think you actually like that character very much

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It's with a heavy but hopeful heart that I watch Palestinian families fundraiser on here, slowly accumulating the precious little money to go around that they need to survive. However, not everyone is so lucky. A lot of Palestinians that have not had that kind of luck, that did not get early verification, that did not get massive platforms behind them from large bloggers, have approached me in my inbox, asking me kindly to do what I can for them. It kills me that I have so little to give myself, but I've seen this platform collectively raise enough to change someone's life. I've made a list of Palestinian fundraisers that are extremely low on funds, in the hope that drawing attention to people who have not been lucky at all can help turn that luck around. I know most of us can't possibly give enough to get all of these families safe in one go. But please, reblog this list. Pick one or two fundraisers, give what you can, and then keep track of it. Slowly, collectively, we can make a difference in these people's lives. Share and donate as much as you can. https://docs.google.com/document/d/178EGDFKkHlh3y4TMVX82kqgITHsqtoMdNccI2f_94Os/edit?usp=sharing

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the issue with shipping aro/ace characters isn't putting them into relationships, it's the fact that no one adds how their sexuality impacts the relationship at large. And how it'll always be different from your average romantic relationship in some way.

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...how are they only now realising that Netanyahu doesn't give a shit about the hostages?

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Where do you see yourself in 5 years?

Look buddy, i’m just trying to make it to Friday.

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🇵🇸 Palestine Fundraisers Masterlist 🇵🇸

I've got a lot of asks from palestinians asking me to help share their campaigns so I thought it would be a good idea to make a masterlist and share it with everyone.

They are vetted or otherwise trustworthy, but I know I'm not infallible so please inform me if any of them are scams. Thank you 🍉🇵🇸

I will keep updating this list as I receive more asks so please check the reblog to see the added campaigns

Etaf Al-Qataa @familymaria1234567 - not yet vetted - GOFUND ME LINK - progress €814/€10000

Musab @musababed - vetted by @/90-ghost - GOFUNDME LINK - progress £4,841/£8,000

Omar Fathi @omarhelles - not yet vetted - GOFUNDME LINK - progress €0/€20,000 euro

Eman Abosedo @emanaebosedo - not yet vetted - GOFUNDME LINK - progress $165/$50,000

Osama Basil @osama-basil-ps - vetted by @/gazagfmboost #90 on their the list - GOFUNDME LINK - progress €1,460/€15,000

Muhammad Al-Habil @zakariafamily - not yet vetted - GOFUNDME LINK - progress €20/€20,000

Dr. Husam Farhat @shamfarhat1 - #248 on the Vetted Gaza Evacuation Fundraiser List - GOFUNDME LINK - progress $5,430/$29,500

Lina @lina-gaza - vetted by association by @/90-ghost - GOFUNDME LINK - progress €35,946/€45,000

Majed Al-Gharabawi @majedgaza1 - not yet vetted - GOFUNDME LINK - progress $1,010/$70,000

Mohammed Hilles @hmzamahamed5 - #170 on the Vetted Gaza Evacuation Fundraiser List - GOFUNDME LINK - progress €28,070/€37,000

Hassen Wajih @hassanmadi2 - vetted by association - GOFUNDME LINK - progress €385/€50,000

Salahaldin Ahmad Khalil Hor @salahaldinhorsblog - vetted by @/90-ghost - GOFUNDME LINK - progress €5,543/€40,000

Lama Al-Hourani @lamahourani7 - not yet vetted - GOFUNDME LINK - progress $355/$10,000

Anas Al-Sharfa @anasalshrafa - not yet vetted - GOFUNDME LINK - progress €225/€50,000

 Hossam Saleh Mohamed El Bardawil @hossamalbardawel - vetted by @/moayesh - GOFUNDME LINK - progress $9,142 /$20,000

Muhammad Shehab @zeanyahya1 - vetted by @/90-ghost - GOFUNDME LINK - progress €6,897/€25,000

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love reacting with emojis in discord . #1 activity . i am listening and nodding but i dont have anything to say or itd be rude to intrude . emojis my best friend

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Love it when Rolling Stone puts out an article about the 25 most influential internet creators and I've only heard of 7 of them

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i would describe myself as fun and light hearted and unburdened. please ignore the blood in my mouth

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sorry to everyone who is sending me messages, im not using tumblr much these days but ill post them as soon as I can ❤️