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Girl when I tell you my life flashed before my eyes

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It's me.........

posy lamb 🌤️

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What song are you listening to?

:3c.

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Throwback thursday to when I was like 12 and I was putting out new writing DAILY...... Like entire Chapters of my then-current wips just, over an afternoon. What the fuck was I on

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Today is going to be a bad day

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The worst trick a childhood anxiety disorder pulls is, you spend your early years being applauded for being so much more mature than your peers, because you aren’t disruptive, you don’t want any kind of attention, you don’t express yourself, you keep yourself to yourself - this makes you a pleasure to have in class, etc etc - and you start to believe it’s virtue. But you’re actually way behind your peers in normal social development, and who knows if you can ever catch up.

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What most people think the challenges of polyamory are: jealousy, lack of commitment, insecurity.

What better-informed people think the challenges of polyamory are: calendar management, social stigma.

What the challenges of polyamory actually are: when your husband and your lover bond over classical music, and your lover suggests to your husband that he would really enjoy Stravinsky. And it turns out your husband does really enjoy Stravinsky, but unfortunately with the exception of the opening bit of Firebird, which is OK, you fucking hate Stravinsky. And the background music of your life is Stravinsky for months on end because your husband loves Stravinsky now. So even when the three of you meet up together it turns into Stravinsky Fan Club Time. Plus a third wheel of you.

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Mental health matters until its ASPD or NPD, then they are "cringe" and "corny" for sharing their struggles. You try and build this accepting safe space for all people to bond and when people who have different struggles than yours share their problems you boo them. You tell people to "get help", yet call them evil when they be honest about their problems. We don't have to mask to fit into your mold of perfect little victims to be valid. If you want to be helpful to people with mental health issues, try being less judgemental first.

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speaking of third-wheeling i love when people are like "third-wheeled too hard and now i'm in a throuple" but i think a little spoken of third-wheeled-too-hard option is getting adopted by other adults. one time when i was 25 and in undergrad i made friends with a married couple in their thirties and ended up in such an unusual relationship that one day they called me to their house and sat me down very somberly and then one of them started crying and i thought one of them must have gotten some sort of life-altering health diagnosis or something

but then they told me they were getting a divorce and they were going to be okay, but they had been agonizing for two weeks over how to tell me because they didn't want to "disrupt" my life and it was then that i had to remind them that i was actually a fully grown adult and that i was going to be completely okay and that in fact i would like to be there for them in this tumultuous time and they were like

"oh....... yeah"

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You WILL look at Ullamaisa

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I couldn’t give a fuck if people are poly. you want me to be mad about random people I don’t know mutually agreeing to date several people ??? LIKE I DON’T KNOW THESE PEOPLE WHO GIVES A SHIT 💀

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it’s been years and I still think about it😳

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day one of trying not to think about fucking that old man

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people will care about your characters if you actually show said characters btw