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I need to shove my fingers down their throat. I need them to swish their tongue around my fingers. I NEED to put all focus on their mouth. I need to tease them so casually yet desperately

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I want to viciously fuck a femboy <3

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I feel the need to collar a lovely boy and make them have a tag with my name on it. That would mean everyone knows they’re collared and alllll mine~

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Let’s do doggystyle and if you’re a good pup, then I might let you have a treat for being such a good boy for me~

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It’s okay to need big breaks during scenes or long conversations beforehand and afterwards! It’s okay to need a bit more than what other subs around you need!! Scenes aren’t about what other people need they are about what the people participating need and if you need additional support or frequent check ins that’s perfectly okay <33

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Here’s some safe words/actions I have/use with my partner(s) that I recommend with others:

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The Red, Yellow, Green Words:

Red will mean stop immediately what you’re/we’re doing. You either hurt me or outside of my comfort/consent. They could also be having some sort of flashback or panic attack. Make sure to check up on them immediately and stop what you’re doing. Anything relating to those or similar things.

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Yellow will mean something along the lines of check up on me, slow down, etc or it could mean something like I’m fine but let’s do something else.

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Green means you’re fine and doing okay. Whoever is free to continue doing what they’re doing or plan on doing.

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Using the 3 tap method:

Me or my partner will use this if one of us has something blocking our mouths or if we go nonverbal for whatever reason it may be. We will tap each other somewhere noticeable like their shoulder or arm with a decent amount of force (not enough to hurt but enough to notice). Then either of us will do 3 quick yet decently hard taps to let each other know to either stop to check in on each other.

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Using an object with light:

When things can get too intense all they have to do is break the glow stick (or other similar light object) and the light will notify the other(s) to stop what they’re doing and check in

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When making a safe word, make sure it’s something easy to be said but not common enough to where they could easily use it in a sentence (example as if you and your partner(s) were roleplaying)

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While stop and no can be used as safe words, Some people enjoy using stop or similar phrases when doing activities which can be confusing to those doing them. That’s why it’s important to go over beforehand any time doing anything intimate so there won’t be any mix up or confusion of safe words while doing whatever activities.

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!!REMINDER: MAKE SURE TO GO OVER SAFE WORD(S) AND CONSENT BEFORE EVERY TIME DOING ANYTHING INTIMATE OR BDSM RELATED!!

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Consent can always be taken back and safe words might be used. So it’s important to always go over them before in case they’re needed.

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Regardless of safe words being used it’s ALWAYS important to continue to check in with your partner(s). It will allow times to remind them of their safe words or to think of yours, get water, for either to withdraw consent, switch to doing something else, or many other things. It will also give them reassurance that you’re there for them and want to watch over them/comfort them.

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okay, tumblr. let's try this again.

> safewords are 100% necessary in any BDSM activity.

> "no", "stop", and other plain language *are technically* safewords.

> everyone involved in a BDSM activity can use a safeword, not just the s-type or bottom.

> safewords must be negotiated in advance before play in order to ensure everyone is on the same page with what is and is not a safeword for that BDSM activity.

> even the most extreme of 24/7 TPE M/s free use CNC dynamics still have and use safewords.

> if someone tells you they "don't believe in safewords", or "safewords are for beginners only" (or the inverse, which i've personally experienced in conversation, "safewords are for advanced play only"), or "you can negotiate ignoring a safeword", run away.

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I have the need to take a bath with a boy while they sit so carefully and so innocently between my legs. I’ll slowly rub all over your body and make my way down there to start rubbing your dick/t dick. After all, you need it to be cleaned… don’t you, my handsome pup?

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Kink tumblr etiquette:

Because there's a lot of fresh faces on this blog and some people aren't getting this.

Consent is mandatory. If you interact with someone's post and they tell you you've made them uncomfortable, oblige them and remove yourself from the situation, take down your post, unfollow them, etc. Your kink is not above someone else's comfort. Follow up: if you see "men DNI" or "women DNI", etc. clearly listed and you belong to said group, do not fucking interact

Put your age in your bio. I don't know how many times you people have to see that before you do it. If you are not forthcoming with your age, you do not get to interact with adult content. People can't consent to you if you don't say how old you are. If you're actually a minor, leave. You're endangering people by being here.

Do not impose your kinks on someone else's post. Especially on non-sexualized posts and ESPECIALLY if you do not know them.

Do not send unsolicited sexual messages. Especially with people who you have never interacted with before. It's creepy. And with people you do know? It still needs to be solicited, bucko. Ask them first.

Treat online kink like you would treat kink in person. If you ignore consent, boundaries, and comfort in a real kink community, you are no longer welcome in that community.

If it says don't reblog, don't reblog. Respect people's privacy.

Am I missing anything major? I might keep this updated.

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I need a cute subby boy to collar and call mine~

I need to feel them grind against me as they struggle to keep eye contact. Any time they look away, I’ll put them towards me by their collar

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In the mood to listen to a guys pathetic whimpers

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Get yourself a subby man who will suck your strap on <3

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i’m a slut for vocal men. moans, little whimpers, gasps, growls. i love it and i love the men who do it.

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Men moaning > Women Moaning

Both are attractive but there’s something about men moaning that gets me

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Aftercare:

What is aftercare? Aftercare in the sexual sense is the time after sex/a sexual setting where it’s time to take care of your partner(s), wind down, being sensual with them. Making sure they feel comforted, safe, loved, and cared for.

There’s a chance whoever won’t climax during sex which is perfectly normal/okay but can lead to you and/or your partner(s) feeling frustrated or lonely. Aftercare tends to get overlooked due to hurt feelings, embarrassment, or even shame. But it’s one of the most essential parts of sex.

Why is aftercare important? It’s important because sex can make us feel vulnerable. Aftercare is a way of showing kindness and caring for your partner.

Physical intimacy is one way of you feeling special and appreciated. Aftercare helps create this feeling of closeness and intimacy. It can help people feel like whatever they did was special.

Aftercare can make you feel less lonely after sex/a sexual setting. It can also make it obvious that you are cared about and cares for instead of feeling tossed aside or left alone. It can also help you and your partner not make it seem like either is using each other for sexual pleasure.

Here’s some ways to show aftercare to your lover(s):

• Cuddling/Holding

• Sensual Touch

• Discussing things that went well (positive reinforcement)

• Laying next to your partner while watching a favorite show/movie

• Playing games with them

• Clean up after sex since there will be moments where items/fluids will need to be cleaned up. You can also clean up your lover(s) if they need/want help

• Taking care of your partners’ physical and/or emotional well-being. Some examples are but not limited to:

- Getting water/food for you and your partner. Water/hydration is needed to rehydrate the body after sex/sexual settings. Drinking water can also help prevent headaches, muscle aches, no urinary tract infections (UTIs)

- Make sure those who have women genitalia should use the bathroom after sex to help prevent urinary tract infections (UTIs). Help your lover(s) use the bathroom (if they need/want it) to help prevent.

- Checking in to make sure they’re okay (which should be done before, during, and after). Both sub(s) and dom(s) should be checked in on <3

- Making sure to cover your sub(s) up with something (like a blanket) because their temp during sex rises and then drops after causing feeling cold and feeling uncomfortable

- Make sure to check in with your lover(s) the following day(s). Communication with them is very important. Sub/Dom drops can happen between right after sex/sexual setting up to 72 hours so make sure to check in with them both physically and emotionally.

What NOT to do after sex:

‼️There’s way more than this. Also these are just my opinions. There’s many others out there who agree with me on these points‼️

• Don’t immediately get onto your phone. Make sure to take care of you and your lover(s) physical and/or emotional needs before using your phone. Checking your phone for important messages/calls is fine but don’t let your phone distract you from your lover(s). It can make them feeling uncared for, feeling used, and/or cause them to feel lonely. 

• Don’t immediately get onto electronics in general unless watching/playing something with your lover(s). If you get onto watch something or play a game on your own then that takes focus away from them. Of course if you have permission from your lover(s) then that’s fine. It can cause them to overthink or feel unappreciated or even feel used. I’d recommend trying to watch or play something with them to show them love instead of on your own.

• Don’t Act Cold and Distant. This can cause your lover(s) to feel used and alone. This should be common sense on what not to do but some people aren’t the smartest.

• Unless asked by the lover(s) Don’t Leave your lover(s) alone by either leaving them alone in the room or leaving the house. If you weren’t asked and randomly decided to leave them alone it can cause loneliness, embarrassment, and even feelings of being used. You must be there for them to help take care (unless asked otherwise).

Have fun and stay safe out there! ❤️

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About Me:

Welcome to My Blog everyone. Enjoy your stay here. I’m Finn, 20, and use They/He/It pronouns. If you use anything else for me without my permission, then I will block you.

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I identify as Non-binary/Trans masc and as queer. I’m currently happily taken!!!

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I’m a Dom leaning switch so most of my content will be directed towards subs.

Accounts:

Main: @finnthepup69 , I will follow back on that account, if you’re wanting to become mutuals or if I enjoy your content

About This Blog:

This is my NSFT blog. I won’t be on much due to having a low sex drive. I’ll be writing concepts, random thoughts, and reblogging other peoples posts. NO NUDES OR PORN WILL BE SHOWN!

DNI (Do Not Interact):

• If below 18 or above 40. For 40+ you may interaction, ONLY If I interact first (PLEASE HAVE YOUR AGE IN YOUR BIO/PINNED POST)

• You’re hateful (Anti-Lgbt, Transphobic, racist, etc)

• You’re an agere/petre blog and/or you’re little while being online. This blog isn’t SFW and don’t want to trigger anyone

• You sexualize mental illnesses

• Pedofiles or Zoophiles

What I’m into:

Pet Play, BDSM, Blood Play, Knife Play, Bondage, Monster Fucking, Breeding, Primal Play, Master/Slave, Oral Fixation, Collars

What I’m interested in but unsure:

Gun Play, Wax Play

Hard Limits/Not interested in whatsoever:

Scat/Vomit/Piss, Vore, DDLG (or anything to that extent), Misgendering/Detrans, necrophilia

Thanks for reading this!

Have a good day/night❤️