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[florastie]

hi! you doing ok? are you hydrated? is your body fed and rested? no? go take care of that! your body needs some love right now.

*gently kisses your forehead*

take care.

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girls with broad shoulders/triangle inverse body type are just so beautiful!!!! 

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four years of gaslighting improved my memory. I had to know what I did and said, especially to certain people. I had to be able to remember things so that no one could lie and convince me of an alternative truth. I had to be sure of myself so I could no longer be manipulated. I became more self-aware of who I am so if someone put my character into question, I knew whether they were making something up or not: they can believe what they want, but there are some things I will never say, never do.

gaslighting is not a good thing. if someone is doing it to you, leave. escape. it is miserable doing mental gymnastics trying to determine reality. but, because of it, I have a stronger sense of being. I am more certain. the whole four years was terrible, but I have to be thankful, or else I drown.

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oh to take a walk in an overgrown, mysterious forest

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it takes a lot of courage to come out as trans and i can’t ever imagine having to go through the hardships that accompany it so hi i love you thank you for being yourself.

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If you wouldn't go to someone for advice, don't take their criticism either.

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Have you drank water today? You need to drink some water, get hydrated, it will clear your head a little.

Have you eaten? You deserve to eat today, your body has been keeping you going strong for this long, is time to recharge.

Have you taken some time for yourself today? All your feelings are valid and deserve to be processed as such, and you have the right to take your time to do so; that will never be selfish of you.

You deserve to feel ok, and to have a happy life; and you have the right to take your time and ask for as many help you may need to do so. You are worthy of love and you are valuable, and you more than deserve to take care of yourself today.

If you need to talk, you can vent to me. I listen. I care. I'll try to help.

You matter.

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Your impact on other people is bigger than you think. Someone still giggles when they think of that funny thing you said. Someone still smiles when they think of the compliment you gave them. Someone silently admires you. The advice you give has made a difference for people. The support and love you've offered others has made someone's day. Your input and opinions have made someone think twice. You're not insignificant and forgotten. Your existence makes a positive difference, whether you see it or not.

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　 　　🌿 .. ꒰ 𝖻𝖾 𝗄𝗂𝗇𝖽 𝗍𝗈 𝗒𝗈𝗎𝗋𝗌𝖾𝗅𝖿 ꒱ ... 🌱

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being single was okay when i thought i was straight,, now i just want a gf

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in the mood to live in a Ghibli movie and do nothing but read books all day in my massive library and write poems of love and appreciation to my best friends

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you can heal and hurt at the same time.

YOU CAN HEAL AND HURT AT THE SAME TIME.

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Remember that atmosphere after a stormy night. Remember how peaceful and refreshed the earth seems afterwards. Your storm will pass, too darling. You will feel caĺm and revived after the rain vanishes. Just hold on a little longer. You are doing so fine; I am incredibly proud of you.

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The Lebanese Red Cross updated their donation site so that you would not need to sign up or download an app to donate. Here is the link supportlrc.app/donate to share with others

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soft reminder: you are beautiful, loved and cared for. you make the world a better place. the universe is lucky to have you here.

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This is it: this is your sign. You’re brand new, refreshed, empowered to change. Your calmer, softer times are coming. Your confidence, your happiness, your bliss, is arriving. Self acceptance is easier, and taking care of yourself is no longer a chore, but something you look forward to. You start to feel replenished - you’re *you* again - and the next chapter of your happier life begins now.

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complex, guarded, cryptic 😼

y’all i got obsessive, ingenious, familiar lmao

original post by @hairless