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I have a very important question of wide Shaul of Shaullyness! Has Kyriel ever made Kai wear a dress? I was trying to think if he would bc Kyriel likes being more fem but idk if he would like Kai being more fem bc like in the earrings piece Kyriels reasoning was that Kai was a slave not bc it's feminine. But if Kyriel wouldn't put Lai in a dress how would Kai feel if there was a situation where he had to wear a dress??????????

Kyriel would make Kai wear dresses for purely humiliation purposes, since Kai is very much hetero cis and he would naturally feel uncomfortable in them. Any femininity Kyriel would force on him would be to watch him squirm for his enjoyment, but he would do so seldomly and never for too long — he wouldn’t force Kai in clothes not fitting his gender unless for punishment / pure private cruelty purposes, and mostly for the same reason he keeps the collar on him: humiliation, humiliation, and humiliation. He wouldn’t force him to wear a dress in public, although he would threaten of course — and Kai, from his side, would flush and splutter deliciously when forced to curtsy prettily for him.

(That being said, Kai would have no issues whatsoever to go fully Achilles and dress as a woman for the purpose of achieving a mission — it’s not the clothes, it’s what they mean, that gets him)

Now, I had actually meant to draw Kai in a dress a while back, so this ask was truly an inspiration for the art:

Masterlist

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writing is so funny because i could write nonstop for 9hrs and then hit a block where im like "how do i transition between this moment and the next?" and then i just dont touch it for 6 months

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Thank you for the tag!! :)

coffee shop or florist | au or fix-it | enemies to lovers or childhood friends (then back to enemies then getting together then denial of emotions then lovers again) | angst or fluff | love at first sight or pining | modern au or historical au | break up & make up or proposal & wedding | get together or established relationship (love when there's a lot of extra lore involved too)| soulmates or unrequited (for better or for worse) | fake dating or secret dating | obvious pining or domestic fluff | hurt/comfort or crack | meet the parents or meet cute

Tagging (w/o any pressure!) @whumble-beeee @ashintheairlikesnow @for-the-love-of-angst @whumpyourdamnpears and anyone else who wishes to join in!

Tag Game: Pick your tropes!

Thanks @loreleiloonsdarkascension for the tag!!!

coffee shop or florist | au or fix-it | enemies to lovers or childhood friends (Oh, this is a hard one because for me it depends) | angst or fluff | love at first sight or pining | modern au or historical au | break up & make up or proposal & wedding | get together or established relationship | soulmates or unrequited | fake dating or secret dating | obvious pining or domestic fluff | hurt/comfort or crack | meet the parents or meet cute

No pressure tag: @inhurtandincomfort @bilightningwhumper @cepheusgalaxy @geode-crystal anyone who wants to give it a try!

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Imagine your favorite historical figure NOT getting assassinated. If they didn’t get assassinated, imagine that they got assassinated.

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Thank you for the tag! I love the little bear plushie!

Featuring me melting in the heat

tagging (w/o pressure!) @eatyourdamnpears @for-the-love-of-angst @pigeonwhumps @watermelons-dont-grow-on-trees and anyone else who wants to join!

Did a picrew, thanks to someone's oc i saw a while back

picrew: https://picrew.me/en/image_maker/1469769

pressure tags: @amirmeavid do the fucking picrew bastard.

no-pressure tags: @fe3lthethunder @cepheusgalaxy @juudaimes-true-form @sarah-ankh @irohs-tea-boy and anyone else who wants to try

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REBLOG POSTS❗❗ COMMENT ON FICS❗❗COMPLIMENT FANART ❗❗LEAVE LITTLE NOTES IN THE TAGS❗❗ BOOKMARK FICS YOU LIKE❗❗ TELL AUTHORS WHAT YOU LIKED ABOUT THEIR FICS❗❗COMMENT ON DECADE OLD FICS ❗❗ADD YOUR OWN ANALYSIS IN LONG POSTS❗❗ENGAGE❗❗ INTERACT❗❗ BUILD A COMMUNITY ❗❗

While people don't post for engagement, it certainly doesn't do any harm..

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whumpee who doesn't need to be chained up in a basement. whumpee who's hidden in plain sight. whumpee who hides their own bruises and smiles when strangers ask them how they're doing.

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Conditioned whumpee rewiring themselves prompts!

Whumpee trying desperately to find someone safe that they can attach their programming to, that can be a new "master."

They think they're healing, but are they really doing that or are they just internalizing a new program?

Whumpee that self harms when they start to fall back on old habits because they think that will help them stop

Whumpee that unpeels a layer of disasociation only to realize too late, fuck, maybe that should've stayed on because now they have to deal with being panicky and on edge.

Allowing their hair to grow out after whumper kept it short and keeps thinking about cutting it to be more like what whumper wanted but ~doesn't~

Whumpee that's been conditioned to be pliable and lean into any touch overreacting to someone who genuinely doesn't know any better trying to help them with extreme violence, and they're so mad at themself for hurting someone that didn't mean anything... but also kind of proud of themself for being capable of it.

Whumpee having to cut themself off from ending every sentence with a sir or other relevant title, and they've been on a good streak of not doing it... but then suddenly something happens and they're back to where they were.

Trying to figure out who they were before whumper, wanting to get back to that but knowing deep in their bones that they will never, ever reclaim that person because that person is dead.

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Darling is such a powerful word to me

Imo you use that word for someone you are truly, deeply in love with. This person is your world, your everything, you can’t live without them.

On the other hand, you use that word for someone you’re extremely possessive of. You call someone that and they’re yours for all of eternity, whether they like it or not. No one else can have them because they’re yours if they know or not is completely irrelevant.

Now, imagine Whumpee being called that by both Caretaker and Whumper…

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My favorite whump trope is utter confusion. It’s just so innocent and also a big “oh shit, this is bad” indication. Nothing shows helplessness more than confusion or even amnesia as the result of illness, injury, or deprivation.

When a whumpee wakes up ill or rouses from passing out and they have no clue what’s going on, what happened, where they are, or even who they are. They might not recognize familiar people. Maybe they feel affection, safety, relief, or fear towards the person/people above them, but can’t recall names.

Alternatively, a whumpee gets more and more confused as their condition progresses. This can be from blood loss, intense pain, shock, concussion, hypothermia, heat stroke, dehydration, starvation, and exhaustion as well as fever.

Always remember to give your whumpee slurred, spacey dialogue. Here are some examples:

“….ngh….w-wh’re m’I…..?”(a classic. It’s especially good when the whumpee is in their own bed)

“…wha’s…goin on….?” (when they don’t want to open their eyes and/or people are freaking out over them)

“…wha hppnd...? (When the floor/bed/cold bath/hospital/person’s arms they’re on/in is very different from the last thing they remember)

“…m’scared…” (because that’s their reaction to knowing nothing)

Of course, Caretaker will have to collect themself enough to explain to Whumpee in simple sentences what happened in a way that lessens the severity of what’s really going on. For example:

“It’s okay, it’s me. You had an accident, but we’re patching you up.” (Whumpee’s body is completely broken)

“You’re in bed. You’re not feeling well” (Whumpee passed the fuck out)

“Hey, shhh shhh… We’re just getting your fever down” (Whumpee wakes up thrashing in a cold bath)

I need more examples.

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The hair and dark undereyes are fully accurate

I hounded people to respond to their emails today!

Tagging (w/o pressure!) @eatyourdamnpears @whumble-beeee @cepheusgalaxy @winedark-whump @outlier-roddy and @there-will-always-be-blood!

tag game!!

Do this picrew of yourself, and tell me one thing you did today!

I got to say hi to all my friends and catch up on stuff after not having my phone for a week :]

@mintymooshroom @onyxofc @pandagobrr @amethysttable @theembergazer @silverdragon889 @sylki221b-of-the-shire @saltinegam @sleepywillowo0o

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Rewatched Goncharov (1973) and did a few studies of my favourite scenes

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inspecting fresh goods

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There are posts for explaining your url but i want one for blog title, so ill just make one myself:

Reblog this and tell us in the tags what your blog title means!

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It's Juneteenth yall. And I'm not letting this day go unmarked.

Black people fight for everybody. We stand in solidarity with women, lgbt people, poor people all over the world of every skin color and background. Every religion and nationality.

Today, stand with us. Be with us. Tell a black person you love them. Hug a black person (with consent). Ask that hot black girl out today. Make a black person smile. Black lives matter to everybody and you matter to us.

Stand with us on Juneteenth like we stand with you all year round, and I hope a happy Pride month continues for all of us

💝

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I need people to get obsessed with their OCs

It makes everyday more fun when you have your own little characters thriving in your head that you have full control over and you can make whatever you want with them

I get so happy when I draw my OCs and I want everyone to feel the same about their own