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i keep seeing misinformation about this, so: queerplatonic relationships do not have a set definition. the name comes from the idea that it's "queering" the platonic relationship, tailoring it to the individual relationships' own desires. it isn't necessarily romance lite, but it also isn't necessarily whatever definition you want to impose on it. the point of queering the platonic relationship is to break away from strict allonormative views on friendship, romance, and sex, not to make a new categorical box to fit in.

the answer to "what is a qpr?" is "whatever you want it to be." sometimes that is romance lite. sometimes it's a deeply committed friendship. sometimes it's friends who have a sexual relationship. sometimes it's based on an entirely different mode of attraction. sometimes it's fluid and impossible to put into words. it's whatever you want it to be. it's queer.

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being an adult is just dragging urself kicking and screaming to things that you will enjoy and that will be good for you

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Happy Pride Month!

Faust the Crow loves you even more than she did the last 2 years!

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ace culture é ter que riscar o "straight" do meme porque mesmo os amigos lgbt fazem a egípcia com a assexualidade

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I would love this to happen

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radio silence + favorite quotes (twitter headers for anon)

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taradarcy <3 🍂

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Fuck WB, Infinity Train is a fucking gift and I will love it until I die

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different tastes

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who gave alice oseman permission to write 'in an otherwise mediocre existence, we choose to feel passion' and 'i wish i could be as subtle and beautiful. all i know how to do is scream' and 'all i know is that i'm here. and i'm alive. and i'm not alone.' ? how did they write 'everything's better under the stars, i suppose. if we get another life after we die, i'll meet you there old sport...' and 'it was in the air, crisp and alive with fresh possibility. it was in falling leaves, crumbling wooden doorways, scuffed cobblestones and fields of dandelions. it was in the touch of hands, scrawled letters, crumpled sheets and the golden hour. a soft yawn, early morning laugher, shoes lined up together by the door. eyes across a dance floor. i could see it all, all the time, all around, but when i got closer, i found nothing was there' and expect me to be fine ??

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listening to universe city in the library while ur besties have their enemies to lovers arc... it's all a part of the georgia warr aroace experience ✨️

happy arospec awareness week! 💚🤍🩶🖤

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boys in luv

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Nathmarc

winter is gone but i did something before that

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Aspecs are so cool. Being able to recognize that you don’t have or want the experiences centered in every form of mainstream media is so cool. Accepting that the emotion that most people prize above all else is not necessary for you is so cool. Embarking on a journey to be proud of yourself and your identity despite everything is so cool. Aspecs are so cool.

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suggestion

tbh i think we should add gummies bears to the ace jokes category, like garlic bread and cake

like, gummies bears are so good, they deserve more attention

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