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Goth woman in paintings

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not enough secret gardens and hidden passageways and bookshelves that open to a mysterious library these days. get working on that girls.

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Dolce & Gabbana, 2015

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Femme Fatale Guide: How To Live In Your Dark Feminine Energy

Learning to live in your dark feminine energy allows you to reclaim your power and enables you to move through the world as the strong, smart, seductive, and socially intelligent individual you're meant to be. Here's a general guide on the principles, mindset shifts, and behaviors to internalize to embrace your dark femininity.

Set Boundaries: In your work life, family life, social life, and intimate relationships. "No" is a complete sentence. Don't overextend yourself for the sake of others' approval.

Practice Self-Care: Indulge in the activities and habits that enable you to be your best self. Eat well and exercise. Practice proper hygiene. Establish a consistent skincare routine. Find books, music, and movies, a yoga practice, or meditation that relaxes you at the end of the day.

Invest In Your Appearance: Presenting yourself well is a sign of self-respect and social awareness. Find clothes that fit well, are stylish, match well together, and are clean/pressed whenever you wear them out. Establish a consistent, flattering beauty routine (makeup, hair, nails). Discover your signature scent. Maintain good posture and composure during interpersonal interactions. Learn social skills. Practice emotional intelligence. Figure out how to read social cues.

Embrace Your Sexuality: Let go of any shame. Wear lingerie daily to make yourself feel irresistible. Dress in a way that empowers you to subtly embrace your sensual side. Self-pleasure to learn about and feel confident in your body. Speak up to get your needs met with a partner. Explore this aspect of your life and personality.

Cultivate Confidence: In every area of your life (career, family, social, intimacy, etc.). Learn what you want and find out how to get there. Hold your head up high and know you're deserving. Be the woman who holds her own in any room or conversation.

Remain Educated & Well-Read: Being smart and worldly is incredibly seductive. Knowledge is power when it comes to learning how to advance in every area of life, gain a deeper understanding of your interests and goals, and makes you into a better conversation partner (a skill that opens many opportunities if you allow yourself to stay in this confident headspace without letting imposter syndrome or fear get to you).

Ultimately, living in your dark feminine energy is about honoring your needs and every aspect of your being. Know you're worth it and the world instantly feels more like a chess board and less intimidating.

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I'm still groggy and worn out after a bout of migraine, but fortunately I've managed to pick up a book and read for the first time in ages, which is a good thing. Yay for horror novels. . . . #currentlyreading #currentread #horrorreaders #horrornovel #horrorjunkie #horrorreads #horrorfan #horrorfiction #bookstagram #bibliophile #bookworm #bookdragon #ilovebooks #ilovereading #booksaremagic #booksareneveroutoffashion #readingiscool #readingissexy https://www.instagram.com/p/CqD18PGIu0C/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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Anyone up for homemade orange swirls? . . . #bakedgoods #bakingfromscratch #baking #bakingtime #bakingmakesmehappy #bakingfun #bakingday #bakinglove #bakingtherapy https://www.instagram.com/p/CqBPI8srE0x/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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Homemade biff curry for the win a Saturday night. . . . #curry #beefcurry #dinnerathome #dinnerfromscratch #dinnerideas #dinnertime #cookingwithlove #cookingideas #cookingathome #cookingfromscratch https://www.instagram.com/p/Cp8Rnn_rydf/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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Finally some spring tendencies, even if it's indoors. . . . #tulipsofinstagram #tulips #tuliplove #tulipaner #flowers #flower_daily #flowerphotography #flowersofinstagram #flowerfriday #flowersofig https://www.instagram.com/p/Cp42L5eoxi-/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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While baking blood orange muffins I did indeed miscalculate how much batter goes into each liner. Oh well, giant sized muffins it is. At least they're baked through. . . . #bakedgoods #bakingfromscratch #baking #bakingtime #bakingfun #bakingday #bakingtherapy #bakingmakesmehappy https://www.instagram.com/p/CpqPKxJrG8L/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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Anyone up for some warming reindeer stew with mushrooms and red wine? . . . #dinnerathome #dinnerfromscratch #dinnerideas #dinnertime #cookingwithlove #cookingideas #cooking #cookingathome #cookingfromscratch https://www.instagram.com/p/Cpps0pfomwi/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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When it's snow on the ground and in general cold, I'm grateful for being able to knit my own sweaters, as I often struggle to find any that I like in the shops. . . . #knitoholic #knitting_is_love #knitandbehappy #knittinginstagram #knittinglife #knittersgonnaknit #knitstagram #knittersofinstagram #knittinglove #knittersoftheworld #knittersofig #knittingismyyoga #knittingaddict #knittingisthenewyoga #knittedsweater https://www.instagram.com/p/CpnVr_oI7Ro/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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Just a little bit baking day therapy. . . . #bakedgoods #bakingfromscratch #bakingtime #bakingfun #bakingaddiction #bakingday #bakinglove #bakingtherapy https://www.instagram.com/p/CpnAknhNziC/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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Gotta love the seafood truck to @fonnegersund . . . . #seafoodlovers #seafoodlove #seafoodlover #seafood #seafoodporn #streetfoodnorway #streetfoodlovers #streetfood #streetfoodies #foodphotography #foodgram #foodtrucks #foodstagram #foodiesofinstagram #foodporn #foodiegram #visitrogaland #visitegersund (ved Egersund) https://www.instagram.com/p/CpkYqUoIEUY/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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Spring, what's that? (ved Egersund) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cpj99hjLSB3/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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"Black is such a happy colour." (Morticia Addams) . . . @collectifclothing @manillusion #rockabillyfashion #rockabillygirl #rockabilly #rockabillystyle #gothclothing #gothlife #gothsofinstagram #gothstyle #gothbabe #gothgirls #gothfashion #gothootd #gothabilly #gothabillygirl #chubbygoth #chubbygothgirl https://www.instagram.com/p/CphprlYI7Ti/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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I most certainly don't regret buying an old house with a woodburning stove, especially as I can decorating the way I want to. . . . #oldbuildinglover #oldhouse #oldhouselife #oldhouselove #oldhousesofinstagram #oldhousecharm #oldhouselovers #spookyvibes #spookydecor #spookyart https://www.instagram.com/p/Cpf4XexLuve/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=