harshitraman

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moving on

Long shot but pick an activity which is mildly annoying but is good for you, for example brush your teeth or taking a walk. Now everytime you think of ur ex, brush ur teeth or take a walk. Gradually u’ll get over ur ex becuse u’ll b like - dobara brush krna pdega ya phir se jana pdega yaar. Soon you’ll be over them, and have spectacular teeth and health .

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After the lungs, If Corona has damaged something the most thats relationships. People are not ready to stand with their loved ones ..

By opening the shutter of the shop, you can give the goods to the customer, take the vegetables from the vegetable seller, take milk from the milkman, take the grocery from the grocery store, without knowing who is the corona positive and who is not.

But if a relative in ur house or friend needs help, then people are not stepping out of the their room, not going near that person or just simply comfort a person … One of the most unwanted gift this disease gives is , it lifts the curtains on hollow relationships and friendship.

Please hold on to people who are with you in these tough times because rest of them are just to enjoy the show of your misery.

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Its not easy to maintain the relations which means most to us especially if other person feels the same way too, after a point its just hard to match with their expectations which always are justified, at that point only question that arises in mind is who is at fault here? One who is expecting things or one who is failing to estimate other persons expectations, sometimes both people are right , one person emotional intelligence is something which can be blamed for this but is it fair or reliable measure of their sincerity in relationship?

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There is a distressing tendency in the world where people have already identified to which political party they belong to and always vote to that party ,this is like tribal identity and is everything against the intentions of our constitution makers , this is not democracy its feudalism.

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"Why do we love if there is always 83.9% chances that other person will eventually end up with someone else ?"he asked. To this that esteemed wise man with a smirk on his face replied ,"So that when u get to be with ur love ,u will know its real value."

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"Taking your own life . that's an interesting expression , taking it from who ?

Once it's over , it's not you who'll miss it.

your own death is something that happens to everyone else.

your life isn't your own so keep your hands off it"

-SH

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"Something strange happened to me today. I forgot something in the bathroom, and when I went back to get it, the bathroom smelled exactly like it smelled after my grandfather took a bath. That's when I realised it wasn't him; it was me. My smell, the smell of an old man."

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People always use relations they establish for their own benefit, for forming a relation you have to proof you worth, its basic fundamental of forming a relationship .

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Its been a loveless year.

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at 18, we all thought we will marry our‘first love’. we all thought that this is easy.and then the reality hits you like a truck. but even then you never really stopped believing in love. deep down, you still think you willfind someone some day.

but you’ve become scared to love. you takethings slow. because when you fall forsomeone, you fall hard. you give your all.perhaps that’s why you end up getting hurttoo, at times. you are old school that way.you believe in being on time for a date ortelling, “text me when you reach home,”after a date.

our generation has ruined it with terms likeghosting, bread-crumbing and god knows what. and then, there you are, unaware what‘bread-crumbing’ even means.



you still believe in talking. you still believe in telling what you feel. you are real. it‘s rare.and that’s why sometimes, it goes the otherway for you.

you still want to write those ‘handwritten’letters for the one you love. the idea of dates which are simple has always excited you. a lovely walk. a cup of chai. and some music.this is perhaps your idea of the perfect date.

you remember the weirdest things. the first place where you guys went. you keep bills or boarding passes like they are little treasuresof your relationship. her hoodies or his t-shirts somehow become your favorite clothes.

you cannot understand the kind ofrelationship that your friends have. your heart longs for something permanent in a worldwhere Instagram stories expire in 24 hours.

you know it is difficult. to some extent,impossible. but deep down, you know, someday, you will find a weirdo who willlike you for what you are.and then, all this wait will seem worth it.

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For the first time any game made me cry.. I just can't play this game again.. just can't.

Seriously guys .. I am still sad on the fact that Chloe lost Rachel…

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There are different versions of me on different social media platforms-

#facebook version just shares funny contents and doesn't give a damn about politics or world around him.. he is the most naive and immature version of me..You don't wanna be friends with him.

#whatsapp version likes to share memes , videos on his status.. he is just like an entertainer, wearing a joker mask so that everyone enjoy his company and don't leave him alone.

#instagram version of me , well ignore him he is probably sociopath and a stalker.. likes to see other people's effort to get acceptance from whole world.

#twiiter version of me is the most honest version of my personality, but still there is some hypocrisy left in him , he has a hunger of followers , for that he can tweet anything,hurt anyone, troll anyone, but hey!! On the plus side, there are no mask on his face,most of the times he tweets what he feels... He enjoys anonymity and just says what he feels without fear of being judged.. anyone who has read his tweets , know him more than any other person ..

#tumblr version of me is the most liberated version of me, there is no hypocrisy,no hunger of followers or anything.. this is the most honest version of me.. no one knows him here, no one chats with him here, he can do whatever he feels here there no one to judge.. there is no limit for him here..He feels liberated here.

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things women should stop apologising for:

1. “I’m sorry, but I always saw you as my friend.”

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You told me you wanted to be friends with me and that’s why we started hanging out. I didn’t know you were secretly hoping that we’d date.

2. “I’m sorry, I don’t feel like cuddling.”

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Please understand to act on subtle cues. If we are into it, you will know. If we’re not, you will know. It’s simple.

3. “I’m sorry, but I can’t go out with you.”

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I imagined us as a couple, but I don’t think it’ll work. You and me. I don’t want to lead you on.

4. “I am sorry for burdening you with my issues.”

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I thought you’d said you will be there to listen. But when I tell you about my feelings, you shrug and ask me to deal with it.

5. “I’m sorry for the late reply.”

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I have work to do, and I’m sure you’ve something to do, too. We’re adults, let’s behave like them. We can’t be texting all day.

6. “I’m sorry, but this is how I am.”

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A boss and someone who you can’t control. I’m sorry to disappoint you but this is the kind of a woman I am. I am just being myself, and I am not apologetic.

7. “I’m sorry I was out late.”

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I’m not sorry. You should be sorry for creating an environment where girls don’t feel safe after 11 pm if they’re alone.

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Too shy to say, but I hope you stay.

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This is why it hurts the way it hurts.

You have too many words in your head. There are too many ways to describe the way you feel. You will never have the luxury of a dull ache.

You must suffer through the intricacy of feeling too much.

— Iain Thomas