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Another day of being a beautiful and charismatic woman

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i really believe that discussing the character with someone who shares ur interpretation is the closest u can get to modern day philosophy. we are like plato and aristotle but talking about a fictional guys trauma

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Absolutely insane lines to just drop in the middle of an academic text btw. Feeling so normal about this.

[ A Critical History of English Literature, Vol. 1, Prof. David Daiches, first published in 1960 ]

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#currently preparing for PhD, engaged to the hottest nerd I know #will keep for once I do get into PhD

I have decided I want to be a main character written by Ali Hazelwood- smart, PhD-having boss bitch women who have very grandma-core hobbies and end up with the hottest nerds on the planet!! That’s the dream package!!

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not now babe .. me and the mutuals are trying to find beauty in the mundane

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you ever get surprised by your own recurring issues. like come on man. I thought we were past this.

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whenever the "trauma porn" arguers talk about how "every adult jude met in his childhood were evil, how is that realistic?" I'm reminded of the few adults in Jude's youth who DID do right by him.

I think about the police officers who broke down the doors of the motel room, who held Jude and told him he was safe now. The only gripe I have with them is being too slow to arrest Luke before he offed himself and for not removing Jude from the room first thing.

I think about the detectives who found Jude in the field with Traylor. Who were the ones to arrest Traylor, the ones to take Jude to the hospital, and the ones who made sure that Traylor was put behind bars. The ones who came to Jude's college to tell him personally that the man who hurt him was dead and there was nothing to fear anymore. They were proud of him and told him so.

I think about the Douglasses, who took Jude in and cared for him. Who tailored their home for kids like Jude, kids with mobility aids. I think about Mr. Douglass, who sat outside the bathroom ready to step in if Jude slipped and fell. They told him to keep in touch.

I wonder if any of these adults ever saw Jude in the news, in the press, or even saw the paintings JB made of him. I wonder if they ever thought about him.

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I just read bride by Ali hazelwood and how did we go from feminist stem novels TO KNOTTING 😭😭😭

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I really like how the Secret History lets you question your own morality, like you’re more upset of a person being a jerk rather than being an actual murderer.

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Am I wet? Am I on my period? Did I pee my pants?- next on wtf is going on down there.

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so excited to finally let y'all know about Alo.

over the past two months my mom and I have been working on this small little passion project, pouring wax into jars, figuring out so many things we had no prior knowledge about.

After countless hours of self doubts, brainstorming with friends about the branding, the logos, the packaging and every other aspect of it, we have successfully curated our first batch which goes live on 15th October.

All of our collections are experimental, produced in micro batches as we're still trying to figure what mediums, jars and fragrance etc suits us best to bring affordable luxury to you.

We've loved this journey through and through and I hope y'all love these candles as much as we loved creating them.

with warmth and love

ria

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Something something... Griffin and Anthony are foils to each other via their respective relationships to Robin and Victoire

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wow,,, coming back on Tumblr only to change my description from 22y/o to 24y/o 😭😭

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Pleaseeee

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i'm obsessed with how different compliments are on tumblr compared to... literally anywhere else actually

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you know the exhausting thing about being an only child? to a single mom? with cousins with a huge age gap? no one to have fun with IN MY OWN SHAADI.

with all the marriage conversations coming up, all i can think about is not having siblings or cousins or dad or a huge ass family to have a fun wedding yk,,,