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i just want you to know.

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If Chimney cries tomorrow so will I btw I’m not scared to say I’m a little bitch w feelings

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has anyone done a gifset of Buck's "I love women I've always loved women" from 705 with "I love dogs I've always loved dogs" from Jupiter Ascending yet? asking for my wife

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And to be clear, this isnt a “i wanted Buddie to hook up/have feelings realizations” shipper *disappointment. This is a “for three weeks they have only shown this ONE THING in EVERY promo and now we aren’t getting it” disappointment.

*i know we haven’t seen the episode yet but still. Like cmon.

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OLIVER STARK as EVAN 'BUCK' BUCKLEY 9-1-1 • 7.05 – You Don't Know Me

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I can't dance around it, I'd better be yours.

I want it so bad (I'm still your boy)

—i'm still your boy, luke hemmings

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911onabc: all eyes are on the security cam footage. 👀

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Hey, don’t cry.

New bucktommy kisses in a day and a half, okay ?

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i actually think the 911 fandom should just believe when people of colour say they’ve been harmed instead of trying every line of reasoning to defend a white person. but you know.

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why should i believe someone who says someone is racist if they don't prove it?

I'm not going to tell you how to live your life anon, but I will say this:

If a person of colour says they've experienced racism, we should believe them. They don't owe it to anyone to 'prove' that they've experienced racism. Racism is an every day lived experiences of countless people of colour.

Racism isn't always slurs or obvious to people who haven't experienced it. Racism is microaggressions, it's people discrediting someone's experience or opinion, it's a million things that, as a white person, you might miss because you haven't lived in it every day for your entire life.

As a general rule, I believe people of colour if they say they've experienced racism. Often times people who are being racist don't actually understand that they're being racist or how something they said could be considered racist. It's on us as white people to listen when someone of colour tells us somethings we did (or one of our friends did) is racist. It's on us as white people to accept and understand that people of colour don't owe us forgiveness even if we apologize.

It's also on us as white people to learn and grow and continual challenge our own thoughts and beliefs because most of us were raised benefiting from racist systems - especially if you were raised in the United States.

Saying you're anti-racist or against racism isn't enough. Being anti-racist is a behavior, not a belief. You have to be willing to face your own prejudiced and grow and continue to grow. Unlearning racism is a lifelong journey.

So why should you believe someone when they say something is racist or someone is racist? Because most of the time when someone comes out with those kinds of accusations it hurts them. It's hard. They face countless people telling them to 'prove it'.

Just like we should believe women when they say they experienced sexism or traumatic sexual experiences. Just like we should believe queer people when they tell us they've experienced homophobia. Just like we should believe trans people when they tell us they've experienced transphobia. Just like we should believe Jewish people when they say they experienced antisemitism. Just like we should believe Muslim people when they tell us they've experienced Islamophobia.

It is extremely rare for reports of racism, sexual assault, homophobia, etc to be false. Only around 3% of sexual assault accusations are false (and according to the linked report, that is about the same as false reports of all violent crimes).

If someone is brave enough to say "hey, this person/comment/activity/etc is racist, I believe them and adjust my behaviour accordingly because, for me, I trust marginalized people when they speak out.

There will always be false accusations, but those are vastly outnumbered by actual harmful experiences.

And I can speak with some authority about my own experience being believed and being forced to justify my own experience because when I was 18 I was sexual assaulted and when I told a trusted friend they didn't believe me, managed to spread around our entire friend group that I was a liar, and they are still friends with the person who assaulted me 13 years later.

It was exhausting and it made me wish I never said anything. It took me nearly a decade to tell someone else and thankfully that person believed me.

Again, I'm not going to tell you how to live your life. I'm just telling you how I try to live mine and why.

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Ryan and Devin (who played Shannon) were filming recently (for 911)?

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i’m not strong enough for this 😭😭

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rewatched 7x05 in its entirety and the entire conversation buck has with maddie is SO funny from maddie's perspective. like.

The FIRST thing he says. NO OTHER CONTEXT. is that he lied to eddie and it's eating him up inside.

Maddie is sitting there thinking like oh boy. lied to eddie??? Ok. what's all this then.

Buck explains about being on a date, running into Eddie and Marisol etc etc etc and after Maddie rules out buck doing something TRULY wild like dating a celebrity or a married woman she's run out of possible options as to like. WHY did Buck lie to Eddie? So ofc she asks him, why did you did that.

Buck is like I don't know.

NOW IF IM MADDIE. sitting here wondering why my baby brother just lied to his bestie about being on a date for no apparent reason. like. She's GOT to be wondering, right??? She's gotta be like. Something has CHANGED between Buck and Eddie and Buck now, out of nowhere, seems to NOT want to tell Eddie he's dating someone. WHATS all this then.

Finally she gets the crucial piece of information that oh yeah, i was on a date with a guy, no big deal maddie NOT THE POINT. obviously i check out hot guys' asses CAN WE PLEASE FOCUS

now things are making sense again. Maddie's like, yeah actually, kind of the point. You felt weird about telling Eddie you were on a date with a guy when no one, not even you, even knew you were interested in guys before. that totally tracks, very reasonable actually.

except then. THEN. Buck reveals the second crucial piece of information. that the guy Buck was on a date with. was Tommy. as in BBPU double-u backslash TOMMY. TOMMY FROM THE CALENDAR TOMMY!!!!!! WHOM. LAST MADDIE CHECKED. IS BUCK'S SOLE RIVAL IN THE BATTLE FOR EDDIE'S ATTENTION THAT HE MADE UP IN HIS HEAD.

at this point, in maddie's head she's gotta be like. ah. my little brother has entered into some kind of insane gay psychodrama of triangulated desire the likes of which patricia highsmith could only dream of. and she's just like well. it seems that your problem might be that you were on a date with a man whom not one week ago you were competing with for your best friend's attention, and now you are lying to said best friend about it and THAT PART is what made you spiral so hard you showed up at my door like a guilty puppy. and frankly. as a woman who is happily nearly-married to the love of my life whom i have a three-year-old with i am not qualified to tell you what the FUCK it is you think you are doing here. so. you should tell eddie your feelings, which you still don't understand, at some point i guess! godspeed little brother

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Some Buckley hugs for the heart. ♡

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HRMMMMMM

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in honour of ryan's recent violence against this fandom

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It ain't no lie, baby, bi bi bi ♫