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do you hate men or

well, I’ve never raped a man. never beaten one bloody. never trapped one in a relationship by making him fear for his life or the safety of his children. I’ve never killed a man for rejecting my sexual advances or  burned down a house with a man in it because he broke up with me. I’ve never mutilated a man’s penis to prevent him from ever experiencing sexual pleasure. I’ve never thrown acid on a man as punishment for rejecting me or dishonoring his family. I’ve never broken a small boy’s bones to mold his body into a more aesthetically pleasing shape, essentially crippling him in the process. I’ve never bought or sold a man’s body. I’ve never advocated that men should be legally obliged to impregnate women against their will. I’ve never denied a man a career opportunity because of his penis. 

so no, I guess I don’t hate men. certainly not as much as men hate women.

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"it's sexist to single out men as violent and a danger to women and girls! women are just as bad as men!!! "

meanwhile, in the real world:

Christine Lee Silawan (March 26, 2002 - March 10, 2019) a 16-year-old high school student and church collector, was found dead in a vacant lot in Lapu-Lapu City, Cebu. Her body was discovered with multiple stab wounds and her face skinned beyond recognition. She was also naked from the waist down and raped. Before her murder, it was reported that 16-year-old student Christine Lee Silawan's unidentified boyfriend supposedly used a fake Facebook account to lure her into meeting him. Investigators discovered that the suspect had posed as another man on Facebook, trying to "court" her. An autopsy also revealed that her tongue, trachea, esophagus, parts of her neck, and her right ear were missing.

The team found bleeding in her genitals; they also discovered that acid was possibly poured onto Silawan's face before being peeled off. It was discovered that Silawan was strangled to death using a rope, and the forensic team suspected that at least three people may have been involved.

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from “the case against the sexual revolution” by Louise Perry

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yeah all of this. my cousin's husband is one of these. he's a tall, blue-eyed blond man and a real piece of shit anyway. gave off red flags from the start by saying casually misogynistic stuff, "marvel's being ruined by WOKE" type shit and spending all of his free time gaming with incels.

just after he started dating my cousin he decided to go on a 4 month tour of south east asia with 7 other misogynistic white male friends and my cousin was just like "okay have fun sweetie!!" while he was away she confided in me that he's "suffering from porn addiction" and hinted that the videos were violent in nature.

when they got back all of the guys kept joking about "what happens in vietnam stays in vietnam" and shit like that. there is no doubt in my mind that these men travelled to SE asia with the specific intention of raping women there.

"I, a white man, took a trip to Afghanistan and I felt so welcome here and here's my vlog of the trip!"

I will b**t you to d**th with my bare fists.

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What really concerns me with porn use is the complete dehumanization of the people in it. That girl you sit next to on the train, the girl that serves you in the coffee shop, the girl you pass by in the mall, you could have masturbated over her suffering and degradation. You didn't know her real name or age most likely, you don't know what circumstances led to her entering the sexual exploitation industry, you don't even know if she's being trafficked or coerced. If only you had initially viewed her as a living, breathing, feeling human being rather than wank fodder.

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have publications and news sites just given up on using the word rape? did I miss the memo?

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are there other ex-muslim radfems on here? or just ex-muslim or questioning gc feminists in general?

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this is the first thing I said that got me called a terf

I was like okay damn well then maybe terfs aren't so bad after all lol

I don’t care if a woman is amongst the worst human beings to walk this earth, if you believe that writing or imagining rape and sexually violent fantasies is an acceptable response to their actions you should stay far away from women. I don’t care if they’re transgender-exclusive, I don’t care if they’re conservative, I don’t care if they’re a criminal. Your fantasies reflect what you’re capable of thinking about all women.

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I'm literally ex-muslim and have been called an islamophobe by libfems because I've pointed out that it isn't simply scaremongering to say a huge amount of male muslim immigrants harbor misogynistic beliefs and that every single one of them grew up with a misogynistic belief system. because apparently we have to stick our heads in the sand and be totally delusional here at the expense of women and girls' safety

they always go straight for the "well western men are misogynistic and dangerous too!!" whataboutism

like yeah I'm well aware??

women & "feminists" who shut down discussions on how unregulated immigration of *males* from islamic countries *do* pose an additional threat to the safety and freedom of local women & girls are simply spineless.

this is not a "our males vs their males" comparison, which is unnecessary, considering all men harm all women around the world.

this is about opposing the import of potential rapists, which would only add to the existing population of them. they are men who disproportionately leave their women and children behind when immigrating to other countries.

women from islamic countries are aware of how men view the "western woman". we know about their rape fantasies. i will never prioritize my nationality or the comfort of foreign/familiar men over my loyalty to the protection of women & girls.

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I post about how fucked up it is for liberal men to try and justify subscribing to their partner's friend's onlyfans and get a bunch of pornbrained males telling me I'm "jealous" lmao

not a single one of these men understands or cares about women on any level

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literally the most embarrassing response to this possible lmao

sorry to hear about your eternal struggles

look idgaf about selena gomez or her drama and everthing I've learned about this relationship has been against my will

but this story reminded me of so many conversations I have been in with leftist men, back when I was still trying to a be cool kweer girl

men meeting their partner's friends and then paying for their porn but "babe, you can't be angry about that because I'm just being supportive and I didn't realize you were so sex-negative, especially since you keep claiming to care about sex workers :/ it's just like any other work. it's no different from you paying for your friends' art"

I loathe them

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I can't find it now because I closed the app in rage but I found this wealthy, middle-aged, attractive white woman on instagram recently--I think she was british or american--who had all these photos and videos of herself travelling around afghanistan, showing herself laughing and chatting with men there and taking photos in front of beautiful buildings.

when the Taliban came back into power she posted a photo of herself in loose hijab, bleach-blonde hair and rosy-cheeked, accompanied by this long rant about how you can't trust the western media and, actually, women in afghanistan are really happy and thriving thanks to the taliban's implementations and anybody saying otherwise is an islamophobe. open your minds! they're just trying to protect their culture and way of life! peace, love etc. also she totally saw female bank tellers and doctors recently so it's a lie that women can't leave the house or work!!

like imagine throwing other women under the bus like that so you can fucking shil for the taliban. it made me so, so angry and I continue to be furious with how women in the west, especially white women, just refuse to acknowledge what is happening.

Brb, telling all the women and girls in Afghanistan to identify as men so that they'll be allowed to go outside, get an education, travel alone, drive, sing, speak, laugh, read, write, breathe, blink, exist

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look idgaf about selena gomez or her drama and everthing I've learned about this relationship has been against my will

but this story reminded me of so many conversations I have been in with leftist men, back when I was still trying to a be cool kweer girl

men meeting their partner's friends and then paying for their porn but "babe, you can't be angry about that because I'm just being supportive and I didn't realize you were so sex-negative, especially since you keep claiming to care about sex workers :/ it's just like any other work. it's no different from you paying for your friends' art"

I loathe them

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