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It’s unbelievable how quickly your mood can change, how deeply your heart can sink and how much one person can affect you.

How it is possible for someone to have such a big impact on you?

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Susan Sontag, from “Reborn: Journals and Notebooks, 1947-1963″

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When you’re with the right person, you won’t feel the need to change who you are or pretend to be someone else to get their attention. They won’t care if you’re too loud or too quiet. They won’t care if you’re a CEO or a freelancer or unemployed. They won’t care if your waist is too big or too small. They won’t care about your style or the colour of your hair. They will embrace who you are with all your quirks and imperfections. We’ve been taught that we have to become who we think our partners want us to be, but the truth is these relationships don’t normally work out because they weren’t based on honesty to begin with. They only worked because one person changed to mold into the other person’s life. Too many times we’ve had to wear masks and alter the way we speak, the way we think, the way we express ourselves because we want to be perceived in a certain way, but I have learned that the best kind of love is the one where you don’t have to change who you are or think twice before you speak or act. I have learned that the best kind of love is the kind of love that feels effortless. The one that feels like home. You’re not too concerned about what you’re saying and how you’re acting, you’re not afraid that you might say something that would throw them off and you’re not afraid that they’re going to leave you and find someone else. When you’ve been with a lot of wrong people, they always made you feel like they’re ready to drop you at the first exit because they have plenty of options lined up for them or they’re not too focused on you, and it sometimes made you feel like no matter what you do, you will never be good enough. That’s why when it’s real, you won’t be anxious about it and you won’t be afraid. They won’t make you feel like you have to constantly be on your best behavior, looking flawless and playing every game in the book to capture their heart. With the right person, you will forget all about these games and tricks because they will always find ways to reassure you and you will be too busy enjoying your time with them to think about anything else.

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The bravest thing you can ever do, is to stay kind and soft even when the world has been cruel to you.

Nikita Gill

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Those little things that you alone see, aren't by chance. The sign, the squirrel, the dragonfly, the whisper, the song, the lily.  It's me. I'm always with you to give you hope, keep you on track, and answer your questions. Look even closer.

- The Universe - 

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slow kissing with inappropriate touching>>>

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In Albania, women are more dangerous than shotguns .

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“Let’s get drunk together so I can kiss you and blame it on the vodka.”

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Who loves/likes it in the car?

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Forget about Prince Charming darling, go for the Wolf.

He can see you better. Hear you better. And eat you better.

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build your girl up, motivate her and support her. do everything until she becomes the best version of herself. too many people already doubted her, trying to pull her down and if you can’t help her reach her dreams, might as well leave her alone. she deserves a man, not a boy

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