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DANSE GOTTA GO  F A S T 

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i want a bestie who i can be sexual with. we can kiss each other on the lips and it’s not weird. we can smack each other’s asses or grope each other’s tits and it’s not weird. seeing each other fully naked is completely normal. movie nights that end with us naked and passionately making out are pretty standard. 

i want it to be normal for us to eat each other out for pretty much any occasion - to get over a breakup, to celebrate a promotion, or just because one of us hasn’t orgasmed in a while. fingering each other just for funsies. hyping each other up whenever we dress slutty. helping each other shave/wax our pussies and asses because reaching the hair back there is a fucking pain. helping each other take the best lewds and nudes ever. 

just. a friendship where sexual connection is normalised and fun and healthy and just another way that we show our affection for one another. 

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TWITTERS UI TURNED TO SHIT SO I GUESS IM HERE NOW HI

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Bad ending..🌀

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Entirely out of character with this blog buuuut. CUTE OC GO BRR

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*gets wet at the thought of somebody manipulating me and controlling me until i’m their dumb little baby*

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huh...

you've been here before.

you should go home.

its late..

until next time

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“Have you tried seeing a therapist?”

“Have you tried taking melatonin”

“Stop complaining just do it”

“It cant be that bad because x has this”

“Stop being overdramatic”

“Children in africa are dying”

“Have you tried thinking positive”

“Its all in your head”

Bro iv tried

✨Everything✨

Nothing works. Im still trying. Iv been in and out of therapy for 7 years. I feel possibly worse than i did when i started.

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✨Hi there!✨

My name is illiana dyber. Im a sub with adhd and cystic fibrosis, from scotland who has used tumblr for like, 6 years but has always been too scared to interact more socially on here.

I have sfw and nsfw sides of me that i would like to adress. I am in a polyamorous relationship. But i do play and flirt with CLOSE friends that i truely trust. I am bisexual.

Sfw: I age regress yet so not have a set age for it. It’s random. I have kitten regression too which is pretty much the same. Sometimes i go non verbal during these regressions.

Nsfw: i enjoy pet play and i enjoy sub, dom, light bdsm, prey/predator, power play, and hypnosis. Hypnosis is a big one for me, but i, again, will only do it with close friends/play partners and my romantic partners.

I would like to make friends in the kink community but im honestly pretty shy when it comes to making new friends. I have a public, 18+ discord that i like to hang out in alot. Everyone is really friendly there: you can join it through my link page on

It currently has over 2k users and i really love it there. Im more open with making friends somewhere where people know me. So if you would like to join, feel free ❤️ i hope we can be friends!

✨Byebye!✨

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Love it when friends trance you out and get you horny without you even knowing. Theres something so evil but sexy about it. So dangerous. I LOVE IT

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You can resist. It doesn’t matter that there’s two of them. It doesn’t matter that you’re having to split your attention. You can resist. You can keep fighting. Even if they’ve both started to find the small weaknesses in your armour. And are teasing them open.

No. You can resist. Even if their words are awfully tempting. Even if they’re pressing all your buttons so deliciously. It doesn’t matter how much you want to give in, because your will to resist is stronger. But is it stronger than their wills combined?

Can you resist? Now that they’ve found the right words to say to make your mind all fuzzy? Can you resist? As their words begin to make you feel so good? Do you want to resist? Knowing how nice it would be to just drop and comply?  Wouldn’t it be easy?

You can’t resist. Not now their words are in your head. Not now that you’ve started to realise how good it is to sink for them. To accept their suggestions. You will do so very well, for yourself, and for them. Because you want to. Good toy.

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So its almost 7am. Who cant sleep so is just masturbating instead right now?

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(I aint the best at writing...BUTT)

The villain smirks as the silly newbie heroine falls to their knees panting. The hero had tried to hard to take them down. They had so much promise. The villain made their way to the hero on the cold marble floor , their shadow looming over them. “You shouldnt have tried it..you had so much promise..so much strength. But look at you now...” they kneel down to the heros hight as the hero looks back up to meet the villains eyes

“Why havent you finished me off..you could do it right now...have it your way” the hero panted, their breathing belated and their expression defeated

“But you see my dear..that isnt what i want..that would be a waste..you know it would..dont you.?”

The hero stared the villain in the eyes with sheer confusion. Why would they spare them..

“You see, little hero..the last thing i would do is kill you..i like you alive..falling at my feet. Youre so interesting. You try so hard to defeat me. It just makes me want to push you further..” the villain traced their fingers under the heros chin, a grin making its way onto their face.

“Youre not going to be the hero anymore, my dear..youre going to work for me..arent you”

Their eyes begin to glow

“Take my hand, my dear...be my partner in crime..my villainess”

The hero feeling defeated slowly reaches out, a heat glowing in their cheeks, they had already failed. They had nothing left to lose

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playtime! tim was too nervous, but ashes is very curious! :3

my gifs — please credit me if you repost!

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Silkfauns Fairy Self-Care Guide

🌸 Soak in a bath of milk and honey

🌸 Clean your face with a gentle sugar scrub then mist yourself with rose water

🌸 Use natural skin care products - mud masks and infused face oils

🌸 Adorne your hair with little flowers, weave them into braids or a flower crown

🌸 Decorate your room with flowers and flower themed items, framed pressed flowers, floral pillow covers or fresh daisies

🌸 Make your bed with fresh linen and spray it with a fine layer of lavender mist - open your windows and let fresh air and sunlight fill the room

🌸 Eat a nutritious faerie lunch of nuts and berries, sandwiches, soft vegan cheeses and baked treats - perhaps on a picnic in the woods

🌸 Play in nature - barefoot if you can, feel the grass between your toes and talk to the trees - if you listen they just might whisper back

🌸 Meditate to the sound of rustling leaves, babbling brooks and twinkling bells

🌸 Garden, wether it be a windowsill herb garden, an entire greenhouse or a tiny cacti terrarium, tending to plants is calming, rewarding and certainly helps you connect to your inner faerie

🌸 Stay hydrated! Water really is liquid life force, something faeries know well

🌸 Try and get some sun, make sure to use sunscreen to keep yourself protected - spending some time out in the sun can be a great mood booster, helping your faerie-like twinkle shine

🌸 Sing, dance or make some art, CREATE something whimsical and get your creative brain working, a dance inspired by the swaying of branches, a poem about the wonder of nature or a sketch of faeries dancing in the woods, it doesn’t have to be perfect, just a way to express yourself

🌸 Have a cup of herbal tea, accented with hints of rose, lavender or citrus depending on your mood and needs

🌸 Spend some time with animals, take your pet for a walk or cuddle up together, if you have none try your local parks or wildlife sanctuaries

🌸 Spend time daydreaming, imagining magical worlds or your dream home

🌸 Do something kind for someone - it can even be for yourself

🌸 Love and embrace who you truly are and find people you can express this with, don’t let fear of judgement hold you back and pursue the things that matter to you

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ala speaks on: *sigh* losing weight 🏃🏿‍♀️🥗

Disclaimer: There is no shortcut. If you have more to lose you will have to change your lifestyle drastically. If you only need to lose a couple of pounds you will still need to make some changes. Unless you have a very fast metabolism (which, if you are actively trying to lose weight, you most likely don’t) you will not lose 10 kg in 2 weeks. I am not creating this post as a weight loss programme, it is a guide to help you in making decisions on how you want to lose weight.You need to do this for yourself.

Bad Habits that Make You Put on Weight

Mindless snacking: if you are going to eat snacks take a look at the serving sizes and stick to that. If you have a bag of popcorn actually weigh out the stated portion size into a bowl and only eat that. If you are dieting I would suggest not snacking or sticking to one snack a day.

Low levels of activity, this is bad habit most people picked up during lockdown. People count steps for a reason - it is healthy to walk 10,000 steps a day and if you are trying to lose weight walking 10,000 - 15,000 will help a lot.

Takeaways. It is okay to get a fast food takeaway once or twice a week. A problem arises when people order takeaways almost everyday. I don’t have to tell you why that is not healthy. If you seriously want to lose weight stick to one takeaway a week or none at all. If you do buy takeaway make sure to purchase from the children’s menu as the portion sizes are smaller.

Lack of sleep. I am the biggest culprit of this, but you must get at least 8 hours of sleep a day. The negative effects lack of sleep has on your body seep into every aspect of your life. Turn off your phone at 10 pm and get some quality sleep

Not drinking enough water. Anyone successful weight loss journey involves a person up-ing their water intake. You should be drinking a minimum (and I mean bare minimum) of 2 litres of water everyday but when I am losing weight I like to up my intake to 3 litres +. On the opposite end of the spectrum don’t drink too much water (I know, contradictory right?). Drinking too much water is very dangerous so I would say slowly raise your uptake and never drink over 4 litres a day.

Diet

When dieting, of course, calorie control is a major factor but it has to be a healthy restriction. I would say never go below 1,500 calories. Highly restrictive diets (<1,500) are unsustainable, unhealthy, dangerous and just an overall bad idea.

Here are some of my diet “hacks” that have helped me when losing weight:

Drink soups. Creamy, fibrous, vegetable-filled soups that are warm and full of nutrition (can you tell I love soup). Soups are great for diets because they are generally healthy, full of a lot of vitamins and nutrients and they are easier to digest. I find when I drink soups I have no bloating and I never get that overly-full feeling. Have it with a slice or two of French baguette for a light dinner.

Eat five mini-meals throughout the day. If you limit your calories to 1,500 you can eat five 300-calorie meals evenly spread throughout the day

If you stock up on vegetables and fruits you can eat more for less calories e.g. eat one 250-calorie muffin or a large banana, bowl of grapes and a box of raisins (230 calories)

Try and get your sources of nutrients from more low fat options. Instead of getting your calcium from full fat whole milk opt for skimmed milk, yogurts, sardines, beans and lentils

Cut down or carbs. Not completely but you should try not to eat more than 2 slices of bread a day. Try not to eat more than 2 bowls of rice a day (opt for brown rice it has more nutrition).

Cut out juices, fizzy drinks and other unnecessary sources of sugar

Meal-prep so you can make well thought-out decisions on what you want to eat

Here is an example of the way I ate during my diet:

6:00 - a large banana and oatmeal with soya milk

9:00 - a bowl of grapes and ½ a sardine sandwich (1 slice of brown bread)

12:00 - a bowl of white rice with stir-fry chicken breast and vegetables

15:00 - celery, cucumber and carrot sticks with hummus and grilled salmon

18:00 - carrot soup with coconut milk and a slice of French baguette

Exercise

The bane of my existence. Sorry, I’m not coming on here with gym tips and how to dead-lift your way to a six-pack. I don’t know how. All I can say is if you want to lose weight cardio helps a lot (in my experience).

Plain and simple, get in some cardio everyday. Here are just a few examples:

Swimming (30 minutes)

Walking (10,000+ steps)

Jogging (30 minutes)

Jumping rope (15 minutes)

Elliptical (30 minutes)

Exercise bike (30 minutes)

Rowing (20 minutes)

Sprinting intervals (30 minutes)

HIIT, high-intensity interval training

The way I lost most of my weight is by jogging and rowing, I used to go on 30 to 60 minute-long jogs 3 times a week and go to rowing club twice a week. Remember everyone’s weight loss journey and body are different. Find what works for you.

The key point is try and introduce cardio workouts for at least 30 minutes a day, 5 days a week and if you can increase the frequency and length of workouts.

General Tips

Like I said your journey is your journey. Don’t compare your weight loss to others and don’t try and rush the process. 

Think of it as a lifestyle change. A way to reset all the unhealthy habits you’ve built up since birth. Let that motivate you.

Buy a goal outfit you hope to fit in to and try it on periodically as you lose weight

This is going to be controversial. Weigh yourself once a month. Trust me. When you see that number drop after a month of hard work you will feel so much better. People who weigh themselves daily can end up basing their diet and emotions off of the number on the scale each day when weight loss is a combination of many days and weeks of concerted effort

Be easy on yourself; allow yourself to slip up and just start again. You need to give yourself love not hate and harsh words. Like you would tell a child who fell off of a bike that it is okay and to try again, you need to offer yourself that same grace and understanding

Join a weight loss support group or neighbourhood walking group - having support can be very encouraging and you can make some friends

Keep busy. When you’re busy you aren’t snacking The way I maintain my weight loss and not slip into bad habits is by keeping busy. Horse-riding, ballet, reading, bowling, gardening, working. Do anything, just don’t be idle and you will unconsciously increase your activity and not end up mindlessly eating

- ala 👸🏿