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Beauty & Sex Pt.1 by ilobeau

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Men’s View

“Magnetically mesmerized with a glance, 

Time paused. 

His heart raced, Imagining moments of embrace, 

close but far, silently her beauty yelled for his attention. 

Lips and hips perfect curved temptations of influence, 

Birthing ideas of intimacy desired unintentionally...”

One moment. One look. 

The conversation between and man’s mind and eyes is brief and Rather straight to the point. In an instant, upon site of a beautiful woman a man decides if he is willing to have sex with her. No words required actually. As he views her physique, developing admiration that quick evolves into lust, he automatically imagines perfect situations where they are engaged in the most passionate and intimate..or intense long-lasting sex scene possible (hush women). In that initial reactive moment, it’s the most perfect sex a man has ever had. Imaginatively lol. 

Visual: 

Men are 100% visual. Even when we find the love of our life, we are still visual. Attracted to the sexiest idea of a woman, our eyes wander to places not allowed and taking our mind with us. Seduced by beauty, men are easily manipulated by our own thoughts of an opportunity. That opportunity includes closely staring at a beautiful woman up close and personal as they experience beauty, inside and out. Curves seduce, glossy lips tease, fragrances temps, and beautiful long hair excites men. It’s never old, visually beauty is always new. 

Imaginative: 

Upon site, men envision possibilities and attempt to answer his self inflicted curiosities. Idealizing sexual positions and nude appearances dominate his mind automatically. He becomes engulfed in lustful short daydreams filled with visual angles, actions, and situations. Never imagining an actual conversation, a man is always at the finish line of a fantasy. Climatically becoming anxious to an imaginative “what if” that may never happen. Expertly reliving the same fantasy each time they see a beautiful woman. 

Power: 

Weak minds are easily manipulated. Creating motivation thru competition that results in wasteful investments, simply to impress and to be chosen. The power of beauty births the idea of sex which guides the imagination and ignites effort. Men are simple. Materialistics are only as valuable as the attention from women it delivers. They do not shop to impress men. Expensive items illustrate value that they believe represents them, similar to advertising. Nice cars, shiny jewelry, expensive clothing are attractive items used to measure a man’s value by women, and men know this. If optional, men would rather be comfortable and cheap. Which explains the results of a longtime girlfriend or wife’s eventual complaints of a lack in effort from men. For example, in many relationships women tend to stop wearing SEXY panties to bed. Replacing sex appeal for comfort and expecting her male partner to still have that excitement that INFLUENCED him to TRY HARD. Nope! Not happening. Men are visual. Though he may know a woman’s value, seeing the trophy all shined up is more influential. 

Beauty and sex. Beginning and end. Which is which, depends. Beauty persuades and seduces men, with sex being the climactic desire for them. Can a man have one without the other, not really. Oooooocassionally Men may secretly have sex with a woman not considered beautiful, but they will always remain attracted to and influenced by SEX with a BEAUTY. 

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The Time Hair Makeup & Beauty Is Wasted by ilobeau

A desire that self inflicts stress and pressure over a trophy we often pretend doesn’t actually matter is a pure waste of time.The North American HairStylist Awards, aka NAHA, once sold an idea of accolades that not only bred competition but inspired each beauty artist to be better than before. Initial introduction to the ceremony gives birth to inspiring motivation to prove you not only belong amongst the best but to prove that your eyes aren’t wrong when they tell ourselves we are better than the rest. Instead, involvement in this show proves the opposite.

Contestants invest countless hours and energy to compete in this national battle of the beauty. Saving up and budgeting finances to achieve recognition for the creativity we worked so hard to gain. But why? What comes along with competing and winning in this great competition? I’m sure we are all trying to win for the recognition that comes with the title right. Magazine spread? Product endorsements? Monetary winnings to reimburse the investment we made to enter? As largely recognized this show is am I wrong for expecting national recognition from my great industry’s nationally recognized award ceremony? One word can summarize the answer... YES.

NAHA doesn’t offer anything but a piece crystal with a name on it. No money, no product endorsements, no promotions for winning, nothing equaling the overall investment of each contestant. Find this to be a ugly reality on the prettiest industry in the world. It’s definitely not a situation in which the company can’t afford it. Revenue during the weekend of the show alone is enough to put together a valid reward. Instead the IBS (international Beauty Services) pockets it all! Seems a bit greedy or pimp like. Misleading value, aka FRAUDULENT for sure can closely describe The NAHA Awards competition.

NAHA is our Grammys! At least we all thought. What is the point of winning an award if no one will ever find out about how amazing we are besides when we tell them on our own social media services? This is simply another company with a lack of respect for the value of the beauty industry. They created a way to sell a false accolade to make money off our artistically and uniquely creative skills. It has to end, the disrespect and the NAHA current method. Time for a new way. The ilobeau Show is coming soon. http://www.ilobeau.com/blog/

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ilobeau loves Hair Awards NAHA

it is in us all. In some of us it lives on the surface and in others it’s buried deep...

   hidden by fears of failure 

   and bottomless feeling of rejection. 

It is desired, 

   the want easily measured by one’s aggression for pursuing it, 

   but not all will claim it.

Best, 

   Reaching the pinnacle of your craft or profession is a steep mountain that promises pain, 

   guaranteed mental exhaustion, and abused belief that was once sure.

Explains why there is only room for...

ONE. 

NAHA.... 

Hello to a billion eyes. Inspired and judgmental, witnessing the brave ones that survived critiquing. Artist, creating beautiful masterpieces of beauty. Hair and makeup is painted, carved and sculpted beyond its own understanding to refresh an awe of rare beauty. 

These are the Grammy’s of beauty. 

Red carpet, glamor, and bright lights! A spectacle indeed!! Guests come dressed as finalist ready for their name to be called, and camera flashes capture everyone in the perfect pose. 

The stage, perfect in size with spotlights that seem to intentionally feed the naturally LARGE egos we hairstylist seem to have. An ocean of seating for our peers, family, and friends surround the stage, again feeding our conditioned desire to be the center of attention. Industry leader judges and award presenters, a tv personality host, and superstar stylist...NAHA defines the beauty industry. 

Inspirational risqué. Beauticians reach to the deepest imaginative mental place in attempt to be given the title... BEST. Yearly, beauticians submit designs they have dedicated themselves to be judged against other amazing work from across the continent. Beauty has definitely been elevated beyond daily limitations during this competition. The submissions are pure art (Definitely not hairstyles meant to be worn in normal life ), presenting a refreshed opportunity to unlock what created this profession originally...beautiful genius. 

And the winner is.... Why?

The exposure alone is magnificent, and the escape from mundane repetitions is freeing. Imagined being credentialed as the best of your craft, all of its opportunities, and how many more times you will hear “Yes” instead of “no”. Power is beautiful. Salon life, though rewarding, can become absent of interest while challenge and intrigue eventually become mastered reruns. Freedom, expression, and artistry all define hairstylist, and entering the North American Hairstylist Awards reinvents the thrill that we found when we originally became who we are...innovacreartists. 

Written by ilobeau.com