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Dear men,

- Don’t date women who are hateful towards men but say you’re an exception.

- Don’t date women who say hateful things about men and get angry when you get upset by them.

- Don’t date women who think sexism against women is awful but are okay with sexism against men.

- Don’t date women who constantly expect romantic gestures from you but won’t do the same for you.

- Don’t date women who think it’s okay to be mean to their male partners but would consider it abuse if a man treated a woman the same way.

- Don’t date women who don’t think men can be victims of rape and abuse.

- Don’t date men who wish they weren’t men who like men because “men are trash.”

We always tell women to only date people who know how to respect them. We need to tell men the same thing.

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EMERGENCY HELP NEEDED

Hey y’all!!! I’m beyond fuck! It’s me, your local disabled queertrans, begging for help! I’m not eating at all nowadays, they added a late fee because I couldn’t pay rent, I can’t afford to refill my medicine, and if I don’t pay rent soon, it’s very likely I will get evicted, and I don’t have anywhere I’d be able to go. PLEASE help me. PLEASE help me not starve and not get completely kicked out of my home. I wouldn’t be able to survive on the streets with my disabilities.

Paypal: transdragoning@gmail.com (link)

CashApp: $RDonations (link)

Venmo: @RHelpers (link)

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I hope every lesbian gets to feel how it feels to have another woman be just as crazy about you as you are about them…. not having doubts or confusion.. I wish this with all my heart, for every lesbian.

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im sick and tired of everyone still acting as if autistic people dont exist in todays society or participate in popular subcultures just bc ppl dont want to listen to us talk. we want to be represented as much as everyone else, and actually even more.

i see posts talking about how peter parker is trans with thousands of notes, a lot of them from cis allies. i hear a question about stucky in almost every interview/q&a/con that the cast does. i even see posts like ‘x character is adhd’ with tons of notes because adhd is more socially acceptable than autism. people will break down every aspect of someones character just for tiny hints that they’re trans or gay or whatever, and while i do love trans and gay headcanons being widely accepted, especially by the creators of the content themselves, i still cannot think of one single instance where a character who was coded autistic was confirmed …besides sheldon cooper. i watched bruce banner have basically a meltdown on screen and wrap himself in his shirt, the way i do when i have meltdowns, and no one said a thing. i watched newt scamander avoid eye contact throughout the entire movie, stumble over his words, have a hyperfixation on animals/creatures, etc etc etc and no one said a thing. 

i feel like im just shouting into the void here because its still so unfathomable for people to understand that autistic people exist. we’re here, we’re consuming the same media you are, we’re desperate for diversity just like you are. its never even crossed the minds of the creators/actors that the quirky shy awkward character they’ve created is just autistic– because, wait, peter parker doesn’t talk in a monotone voice like spock, how can he be autistic?!!?!?

literally no one. gives a shit. about autistic people. at all. please just listen to us. give our autistic headcanon posts as many notes as your trans headcanon posts. be aware that autistic people who think their favorite characters are autistic aren’t just ‘projecting’ or ‘overanalyzing’, and you shouldnt just humor us because you pity us. realize that autistic people can look many different ways and just because a character doesn’t act like sheldon cooper or spock, doesn’t mean they’re not autistic. just please realize that we exist.

edit: non autistics are encouraged to reblog

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Let Her Smile

Finally finished one of my first digital pieces in a good few years. Couldn’t help myself with this one.

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Bear Trap🔥

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The gangs all here!

These took 4568943357 hours pls reblog-

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my friends r so talented. rb if ur friends are talented

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That whole "if you can't explain it to a child, you don't understand it yourself" thing doesn't always apply. Like dude, I'm autistic; SOME stuff I can explain, sure, but there's a lot of other stuff I understand, but wouldn't be able to explain to an allistic person even with charts, graphs, live models, and a power point presentation.

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i don't exactly have what you'd call "plans" for the "future", unless "disappearing suddenly under mysterious circumstances" counts, in which case,

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im needinge assistance pls

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im not gonna post on here for a lil while(but prolly will on my new blog)

don’t worry!! it’s nobody’s fault!! and i’m not abandoning my blogs(again...); just takin a break. all asks and messages will be answered/viewed later

it’s for personal reasons. i’m gonna turn my notifications off for that time. see you all later!

[will rb to other blogs]

for my rp blogs, i’ll continue them eventually. i just don’t have the time, energy, nor motivation to work on them rn. sorry

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manga lied to me. i never see bad boy types protecting stray kittens therefore revealing to me their soft side

its always me picking up the cats

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Kids In the Dark - a Deltarune PMV MAP

This project is a year in the making. So many artists worked so hard to help me get this together, and I love and appreciate all of them. Check them out at their social medias below, and thank you to Toby Fox for making such a colorful world.

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