katchleeifyoucan

[katchleeifyoucan]

Maturing is realising that it's okay to feel jealous but it's not okay to make it other people's problem.

It's okay to feel insecure but it's not okay to bring other people down to make yourself feel better.

It's okay to feel envious but it's not okay to allow this to affect other people and their friendships.

Maturing is realising that these are all natural emotions but how you behave and react to it is a choice.

[katchleeifyoucan]

isn’t it funny how ler mood ranges from “let’s cuddle on the couch, i’ll lighty drag my fingers down your midriff” to “i want to strap you down and blindfold you and scrub your soles with a hairbrush until you’re crying literal tears”

[katchleeifyoucan]

You’re not weird for liking tickles. You’re not doing anything wrong. If it causes no harm and brings you joy, there’s nothing to feel bad about. <3

[katchleeifyoucan]

i talk a big talk but irl im shy af

[katchleeifyoucan]

whoever made soph deactivate fuck you and your mama and have a horrible day

[katchleeifyoucan]

what's wrong? you can't take it? you want me to stop? but sweetheart, i want to keep going. i want to hear your panicked little noises. i want to hear your frantic begging and pleading. i want to hear you say sorry without knowing what for. i want to see how much you fight and struggle and thrash around, just from my touch alone.

you'll do anything, you say?

then be good and take it for me.

[katchleeifyoucan]

REMEMBER:

✨ A woman doesn’t have to have a vagina.

✨ A man doesn’t have to have a penis.

✨ A body part ≠ a gender identity.

✨ Trans women are just as women as cisgender women.

✨ Trans men are just as men as cisgender men.

✨ Not all nonbinary people look androgynous. And no they don't owe you androgynous.

✨ Not all genderfluid people "switch" day by day. There is no rules of being genderfluid.

✨ Not all agender people want to be invisible. Being agender has nothing to do with being visible.

✨ Not all intersex people want to be "explained." They have nothing to explain, they are normal people with their own identities.

✨ Not all trans people want surgery. It's all their own choice.

✨ Not all queer folks want your approval.

✨️Personality or style/appearance has nothing to do with gender.

✨️Every person deserves to be called with the pronouns they prefer no matter what.

✨️Not all genderqueer/transgender/nonbinary people experience dysphoria. Not experiencing dysphoria is as valid as experiencing dysphoria.

✨️Not all asexual people feel no love.

✨️Asexual people don't have to be aromantic.

✨️Aromantic people don't have to be asexual.

✨️Xenogenders and neopronouns are concepts created by people (many of whom are neurodivergent) who are trying to understand gender in their own unique way, and they are perfectly valid.

AND MOST IMPORTANTLY:

✨️Existing as a person is valid and valuable enough. People don't have to label themselves or put themselves into boxes. There is no "gender rules/labeling rules", labels are meant to make people comfortable. Not to put people into boxes.

IF I SKIPPED AN IMPORTANT FACT, MY APOLOGIES. I WILL ADD THAT FACT IF YOU DM ME OR COMMENT!

[katchleeifyoucan]

Those that know me know I absolutely NEED banter and teasing in a session.

But what really gets me is when I’m tied up and I say a bratty, provoking comment that pushes my ler over the edge. Suddenly, they stop teasing and go completely quiet. Then they proceed to attack my worst spots without acknowledging my begs and pleas.

They don’t say a word the whole time. And they don’t stop.

This “silent ler” destroys me every time.

[katchleeifyoucan]

i’m in the mood to really tickle the shit out of someone right now

no room to move

no warm ups

no mercy

just relentlessly tickling every single ticklish spot i can find, all while reveling in their pleas and cries and reminding them how much they’re enjoying it

minors/ageless blogs dni

[katchleeifyoucan]

The beauty of being a Tickle Masochist…

That panic, regret, and the twisting your tummy feels from the anticipation. That rush from your mind trying to think through ideas of escaping. Being bound and no matter how much to squirm, thrash, and try breaking away from being tied there is no escaping. You can beg and scream but it won’t help. It’ll only fuel your Ler even more. You get to the point in your mind you have no clue how long the tickles will last or when they will end. Your Ler says “Sweetheart, nobody is coming to save you. You are mine.” Feeling fingers dig and crawl all over your body. Laughter,begging,screams, and tears echos in the room. Then you finally come to that point where your brain is starting to go mush. Body so sore from thrashing and laughing. Mentally you just accept it all and just endure every bit of it. The endless fingers dancing on your body, the oil dripping from your feet, and the shock of the grooming gloves brushing against your feet.

Masochist love to suffer and endure every ounce knowing we are completely out of control.

[katchleeifyoucan]

"I plead the fifth!" Oh you'll plead alright.

[katchleeifyoucan]

and what if i said i was thinking about attending NEST 2026…

[katchleeifyoucan]

AYO I WAS GONNA MAKE A POST ASKING THE SAME THING

what excuse do yall give when you attend gatherings or see people in different states/countries? see for me I still live with my family and I run out of ideas pretty quickly, I need some creative answers here 😂😂😅 thanks in advance!

[katchleeifyoucan]

no bc being into tickling is so embARRASSING like what do you mean i want someone cute to tie me down and, of all things, tickle me while i giggle and beg them to stop but i don’t actually want them to stop that’s just part of the thing

like why was i cursed with this 😩

[katchleeifyoucan]

you ever want a hookup but then remember that you have a tickle fetish and enjoy sex significantly less without tickling but you don’t know how tf to tell a hookup that? ahaha.

[katchleeifyoucan]

y’all have we still not created a real tickle belt?

someone pleaseee tell me have

there has to be a knismo out there with the smarts

[katchleeifyoucan]

kat’s gonna be a little open real quick.

so i don’t care about like, the number of notes i get on pics. however, i did happen to notice that i always get more on pics where i look feminine.

and don’t get me wrong—i’m gonna continue being who i am and dressing how i want.

but it’s a little disheartening for obvious reasons. because the numbers don’t lie.

i chopped my hair in April. but before then, i was actually growing it out specifically because i knew it looked “objectively” better longer. but i didn’t feel like me (hence the chop).

and i know that the people who find me more attractive when i have long hair and am dressing feminine aren’t the people that i necessarily want to be attracting anyway. i know that. but i have to remind myself.

because to be honest, there’s always that small, internalized part of me that wants to be that American beauty standard. who grew up watching Youtube makeup tutorials so i could learn how to look pretty for the male fucking gaze—only to be left lost when the makeup wasn’t makeuping on my Asian ass monolids.

now, let’s be clear. this post isn’t me fishing for compliments. it isn’t me being insecure. because i actually happen to think that i’m very hot and sexy. it is about feeling unattractive because of societal beauty standards. and normalizing that.

because it is normal. especially in kink communities. especially for poc. and it’s not talked about enough. because when we do talk about it, we’re “insecure and fishing for compliments.” AND because frankly, we often don’t believe any of the compliments that we do get anyway.

so to all of you who feel unattractive and unworthy of love and attention and sex and a partner because of societal beauty standards: i’m so sorry. and i hope you know how fucking stupid those standards are. and i hope you know how fucking beautiful you are. because your worth is NOT determined by society. your worth is NOT determined by old ass white men. you are worthy of everything you want and more. and i hope you never forget it.

xx Kat