Type 9, INFJ. It's me!!!! She/Her. #ActuallyAutistic with ADHD
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'ao3 needs a like and dislike button'
what you need, my algorithm-rotten minded friend, is a grip
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i love the -with mama trend but sometimes i get sad because that is clearly papa and he aint getting any credit raising those darn kids...
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STOP CENSORING YOURSELF ON THIS WEBSITE. FUCK SHIT SEX MURDER ALCOHOL DRUGS FAGGOT DYKE QUEER TRANS BITCH SLUT WHORE SEX SEX SEX SEX!!!!!!!!!!!
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okay now I'm curious and I dunno if this is really such an archaic foreign thing to young people today or if I'm just out of touch
Please reblog, I'd love to see a lot of responses!
#I've heard the phrase many times but I don't know it#I assume it has something to do with payphones??#Which I have never used#born in 93 btw
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i don't actually give a fuck whether fatness is an indicator of health because health shouldn't indicate a moral high ground. being healthy isn't some pinnacle of human achievement, it's not morally superior. and being unhealthy isn't a moral failing and shouldn't mean you're less worthy of kindness, justice, and a good life. signed, a chronically ill person who will never be "healthy" at any weight.
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i've only glimpsed this phenomenon through the proverbial glass bottom boat but if "found family" is being restricted by nuclear family roles that is so sinister and people need to start getting aro about it real fast. get relationship anarchist about it, even. we've gotta reinforce the idea of chosen family over these prescriptive roles of parents siblings etc. especially in media and fandom. when you experience truly unrestricted chosen family dynamics in your personal life it frees your mind let me tell you
like i've seen people arguing lately that people overuse the idea of found family in fandom, putting characters forcibly into conflictless nuclear family roles that don't mesh with the source material at all—and while the latter part is true, and i agree, that's not really what found family/chosen family has really ever meant to me, at least not exclusively? everyone's definition of family is different obviously and i think that's where the rub is. all i'm saying is as a society and within fandom we could stand to get weirder with it!
#I agree with this#I see a lot of fighting within fandoms about characters you are 'allowed' to ship with others#because they'll see a certain dynamic as familial and be disgusted by people shipping it#even though that's a fandom interpretation not canon#it's very restrictive and weird#like there's two unrelated male characters who knew each other as kids#and I've seen so many people DISGUSTED that others ship them romantically because they're 'brothers'#when in canon they're not even friends lmao
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They say that the way you should view disagreements in relationships is “us vs the problem” and not “me vs them” and I think that to a certain extent that mindset can also be helpful when engaging in political or ideological movements
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JANE EYRE (1996)
dir. franco zeffirelli
#afgshdjkah I thought this was The Turn of the Screw oh dear#I was literally thinking PETER QUINT! YOU DEVIL
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me, every single time i see people (especially women) talking about the divine feminine energy, or the sacredness of the womb or whatever it is now:

[image description: a two-panel photo of a person dialling a number and then placing the phone to their ear. the contact is saved as ‘Ursula K. Le Guin’ /end ID]
context is this quote by her:
But I didn’t and still don’t like making a cult of women’s knowledge, preening ourselves on knowing things men don’t know, women’s deep irrational wisdom, women’s instinctive knowledge of Nature, and so on. All that all too often merely reinforces the masculinist idea of women as primitive and inferior – women’s knowledge as elementary, primitive, always down below at the dark roots, while men get to cultivate and own the flowers and crops that come up into the light. But why should women keep talking baby talk while men get to grow up? Why should women feel blindly while men get to think?
#you see it a lot with terfs#they want to describe anything they consider female as sacred or special or magical#and anything they consider male to be disgusting or bestial or lesser#every time I see someone on here with a name like 'vulva mystique' I'm just like oh no
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rb with whether people assume you’re older or younger than your actual age
#younger....#I was at my sister's wedding and I'd just had my hair and makeup professionally done#I was feeling confident#the photographer comes up to me and asks how old I am#'fifteen?' he guesses#I dropped my phone in shock lmao#I told him to double it and he was like WHAT?! I thought you were younger than 15 I was just being nice!#there's something about wearing a full face of makeup and being mistaken for a literal child that just hurts lmao#I'M NOT EVEN THAT SHORT OKAY I DON'T GET IT#I went on a ferry and a staff member asked which one of us drove there and looked me and said 'well you're clearly not old enough to drive.#I WAS LIKE 31#I went to the shop with my mum and someone asked her how she's been keeping the kids busy over the holidays#Mum asked how old she thought I was and she said 13#I was like 25 and wearing dark purple lipstick#fuck
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🍂 ‘When death’ll close my eyelids
And my race on earth is run,
Will you miss me when I’m gone?’ 🍂
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your discord pfp and your tumblr pfp are locked in a room together. what happens?
#that would be Saku and Zhang Hao lmao#um... it'd be Saku trying so hard to not stare at a pretty boy#so nothing new I guess lol
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immortality as theft (you have to steal life from something else) immortality as parasitism (there is something else inside You that is keeping you alive and you become less of yourself more and more the longer it stays in you) immortality as violence (everything is trying to kill you because everything is supposed to die and the universe will always try to find a way to right the wrong that is You) you understand
#this is why vampires turned out of spite are the most interesting#like the ones turned to be useful to their sire#or just to force them to watch their loved ones grow old and die one by one#so much more interesting than 'I met an immortal teenager and we fell in love and now I too am an immortal teenager'
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#I understand not saving animals from other animals#because you are potentially starving the predator animal#but from a random freak accident?#why not!#it's not like a family of polar bears would've been saved by a whole flock of penguins starving in a fucking hole in the middle of nowhere#Neil deGrasse Tyson is such a fucking edgelord I swear#THE UNIVERSE DOESN'T CARE ABOUT YOU!!!! >:( I'M GONNA WRITE ABOUT IT IN MY JOURNAL TONIGHT#ALONG WITH MY POETRY ABOUT THE HEAT DEATH OF THE UNIVERSE#gimme a break loser#I occasionally watch TV shows where real human people go out of their way to save a random animal JUST BECAUSE#we can be kind even if the universe is indifferent
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