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People are so much more sad, and desparate, and lonely than you think. I have had three incidents in the last four months were a technician I was working with was being either dangerously unfocused (we work with high voltage), or just flat out angry with their coworkers, and every time when I just pulled them aside to say hey, this isn't you, you're nice, and you're competent, so something must be up - what can I do to help - they have responded by bursting into tears. One guy was struggling to get his wife moved into a care home, one guy just got served divorce papers, and the other hadn't slept a wink the night before because his daughter had the pukes.
I haven't spent my whole life responding to people being rude, or stupid, or dangerous with knee jerk compassion. It's a new habit. The first time I did that as the lead for my lab, it was because the guy genuinely was so good natured that I knew something had to be off. But the other two times were just me going, alright, lets see if it always goes this well, and so far, it has. I'm almost 30, and I just figured out that the #1 reason people are shitty are because they are going through shit.
I don't think you have, like, a moral obligation to respond to people being jerks with knee jerk compassion. But it has made my life so much easier the last four months that I would recommend trying. For your own sake. Please.
(I'll step off my soapbox now. Enjoy your Sunday.)
#text#important things#adulting#knee-jerk compassion is a phrase I am going to keep with me. thank you!
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Where Magic Lives by @yolandekleinn is a modern fantasy m/m novella that’s out for preorder now…and I illustrated its cover! It’s a very sweet story full of lovable characters (especially the tiny dragons). So happy to have worked on this one. Preorder here!
#artists on tumblr#digital art#scribbles#where magic lives#yolande kleinn#all the love for tiny dragons (and their humans)!
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“If two choices are impossible to choose between, it means they have equal merit. Either choice can have your belief. It doesn’t matter which you choose. You shed one chooser and grow into another.” - Richard Powers, Playground
Joy Sullivan, from “Culpable”, Instructions for Traveling West
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Phallin, for @nightstormartistcat , as a revenge on Artfight!!! Because we love an unsettling celestial here. They're an aasimar bloodhunter/fighter/cleric and I've been waiting for SO long to an opportunity to draw them proper >:3
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A revenge for @meadow-cryptid !
[Do not use/repost]
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Thank you for being with me [oc]
(The flowers in the picture are thistle and oleander)
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My commissions are open!
I'm currently offering :
· Outfit design (sketch and polished)
· Character presentation / simple full-body
· Full body illustration / full render
· Character sheet (sketch and polished) If you're interested, head over to my commission page and hop on the queue💗
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raffle prize and vgen requests
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❣️ for NYU Game Center's lecture series this year, ft. Christine Love
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hello hello! I'm opening custom keychain commissions, limited to five slots since it's the first time I try this, perfect for dnd/ttrpg characters wink wink
dm me to claim a spot or if you have any questions!
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Prices for Commissions
Option 1: Half-body with simple background
70€

Option 2: Half-body with minimal/ solid color background
90€
Option 3: Half-body + 3 extras
140€
Option 4: Pixel Sprite
20€
Option 5: Character design (3 total full-bodies/portraits, 1-2 call-outs for weapons/accessories) 230€
DM me with your requests
+ 75% of base price per additional character
+ 20-60 % of base price for animal companions (based on size/complexity)
Option 3 can include busts of other characters/animal companions/etc. as one of the 3 extras for no additional charge
I can work with no visual reference for a +50% design fee (gen AI references will not be accepted)
~ Payment after approved sketch via paypal
~ All major changes (pose, outfit, expression, etc.) must be requested during sketch-phase
~ 2 rounds of feedback and adjustment at each stage (rough sketch, clean sketch, lined/flat colors, rendered) are free, after which I request an additional 5€ or you can request a partial refund based on how far along the commission is.
~ I will not be drawing full nudity or mechas.
~ This art is for non-commercial/personal use only. If you would like to buy it for commercial projects do not hesitate to reach out.
~ I do not allow my art to be used as NFTs.
~ I reserve the right to decline your request.
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I can behave normally around books
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