lalondegender - Tumblr blog

[lalondegender]

PSA/FYI

If yoy have a problem with my DNI keep it to urself. I literally can not help my triggers. All the things on my DNI list are erither triggrs or MAJOR discomfs. Dont message me when Ive literally never interacted witg you before and say u have a problem with it.

Edit: adding on 2 this, It rlly makes me paranoid and makes me feel like shit when i get messages like that. I do not care if you have a prblem with my dni. Literallt just keep it 2 urself.

[lalondegender]

happy autism acceptance month!! ∞ 

[lalondegender]

I feel like we should talk about emotional self harm more. Purposefully triggering yourself, going back to sites, people, places you know hurt you purely because you want to be hurt ect. I feel like so many ppl brush that off, but it can be really damaging

[lalondegender]

people with speech impediments, vocal stims, tics, stutters, an obvious accent, who are mute (to any degree), who talk to themselves, or who have any other noticeable vocal traits, you’re all really cool and wonderful and I’m wishing u all an epic and poggers night

[lalondegender]

[SYSTEM PICTREW BETA 1.2]

At least it is out. My system picrew thats been long awaited! this was primarily done by Jordan in our system, so if you appreciate it feel free to address any thanks to him bc he stayed up for. so very long to work on this. 

Please don’t edit what you make in any way, and don’t use this as an icon if your blog has discourse/syscourse on it. we don’t want our art associated w that, and please don’t use it if you gatekeep or fakeclaim. As long as you stay in your own lane and dont harass anybody, you’re fine to use this. Further rules are on the picrew itself, but it’s pretty straight forward!

These are optimized/made to create PK icons for the most part! 

Feel free to RB this with your finished picrew. As for now we are NOT taking suggestions for what to add. We will post if that changes. Far more is intended to be added, we just wanted to show our work and that its being worked on. 

some features:

variety of human and nonhuman skintones

black / white scelera and ability to be heterochromic

pride flag backgrounds

multiple wing/horn options

other stuff idk its 11pm man

we hope y’all enjoy! We’ll rb this the next time a big update is done. 

[lalondegender]

AMAB enby sapphics are great and belong in the sapphic community. Yes, that includes even the masc ones who some might deem not sapphic enough. Newsflash: THEY ARE SAPPHIC ENOUGH!! All AMAB enby sapphics are sapphic enough!! Stop treating them differently and give them the love, respect, and acceptance they deserve!

[lalondegender]

Two brokendollix icons i made on a whim!

Feel free to use wity credits~!

[lalondegender]

Brokendollix

a gender comparable to that of a broken porcelian doll. It is small and fragile, and broken into small peices. This gender is hard to understand due to it having many sharp edges, which seem to hurt the user everytime they try to examine their gender further. This is ONLY to be used by neuroatypical and/or neurodivergent people. Coined by me, flag by me! Feel free to redesign it :)

[lalondegender]

some factive positivity for today~

*･゜ﾟ･*:.｡..｡.:*･'(*ﾟ▽ﾟ*)'･*:.｡. .｡.:*･゜ﾟ･*

(^O^)／ factives that feel connected to their source? amazing!

(^O^)／ factives that don't feel connected to their source? incredible!

(^O^)／ factives that front often? so cool!

(^O^)／ factives that never front? show-stopping!

(^O^)／ factives that only front once in a blue moon? magnificent!

(^O^)／ factives from traumagenic systems? super special!

(^O^)／ factives from endogenic systems? wow, neat!

(^O^)／ factives from mixed origins/spiritual/other types of systems? positively perfect!

(^O^)／ factives? lovely, wonderful, valid, real, incredible, show-stopping, spectacular people!!~

reblog to show your love to factives in your system and out of your system~~ ( ◠‿◠ )

*･゜ﾟ･*:.｡..｡.:*･'(*ﾟ▽ﾟ*)'･*:.｡. .｡.:*･゜ﾟ･*

do not syscourse under this, you will be blocked no matter what side you're on

[lalondegender]

Can I just say… Genderqueer people are gosh darn G L O R I O U S! I don’t know how they do it. They’re so kind and handsome and strong and just… so freakin’ wonderful! They inspire me so much. Their strength is incredibly admirable, and their beauty is something I could appreciate forever. People who are genderqueer make this community and this world so much better, and they contribute so much to both just by existing in them. I am absolutely over the moon to get to share this community with such fantastic people like them! Genderqueer people are awesome, and I hope they always remember that!!!

[lalondegender]

1. A qpr <33

2. Drawing, discovering my identity, and talking with friends!

3. Unaccepting, sadly

4. Hang out at the mall with friends!

5. I got into Homestuck, which is now my biggest spin!

6. Yes! I`ve discovered I`m a bigender sapphic :)

7. japan!

8. Bigender!

9. No clue!

10. Hang out with my friends in a public place!

11. A QPR or a girlfriend lmao

12. I got a girlfriend! Sadly things didn`t work out.

13. My friends

14. Staying safe and healthy!

15. Just... everything tbh

16. My ex girlfriend is the best thing

17. Literally they`re not. They don`t even require masks. I would change that by requiring masks and putting restrictions in place.

18. No not really!

19. Conventions :(

20. Yes and yes!

21. Honestly no clue what to ask!

Queerantine Asks!

1) What has your queer heart been yearning for since quarantine started?

2) How have you been spending your time?

3) Are you stuck in an unaccepting, neutral, or accepting environment?

4) If you could go out and do something fun without the risk of getting COVID-19, what would you do?

5) What’s a new hobby/interest you’ve gotten into since quarantine started?

6) Have you learned anything new about your identity?

7) If the current travel restrictions weren’t in place, where would you go?

8) Have you picked up a new identity label since quarantine started?

9) When do you think the pandemic will end?

10) What’s the first thing you plan to do when quarantine is over?

11) What would make quarantine better for your queer self?

12) Have you experienced anything new, fun, or exciting during these past few months?

13) What or who is something you’ve been missing since quarantine started?

14) Have you been staying safe and healthy, or have you been taking risks by going out more?

15) What’s the worst thing that’s happened during quarantine?

16) What’s the best thing that’s happened during quarantine?

17) How’s your city/state handling COVID-19? Is there anything you’d change about it?

18) Have you started watching any new shows or movies or reading any books since quarantine started? If so, which ones? Are any of them queer-related?

19) What has the pandemic ruined for you?

20) Have you formed any new friendships or relationships during the past several months? Are any of them with other LGBTQ+ members?

21) FREE QUESTION! Ask anything you want!

[lalondegender]

To the Sapphics/Trixics going through a break up right now, especially a first one-

I'm sorry that things have been extremely hard for you. wlw/nblw relationships can be sweet, beautiful and passionate. They probably give you some of the best, warmest moments of your life. I know. I understand you.

Now that things are ending, I need you to know that things are going to fall into place eventually. It might not be as fast, it might not be the way you wanted it to be. You'll cry a lot, you'll feel like you can never stop loving her. You'll feel low. You'll mess up your studies. All of that is absolutely valid. It's alright. We're not perfect and we can't expect too much from ourselves.

But please give yourself time to heal. Talk, write, sing, draw- express your feelings. Be kind to yourself. Focus on yourself. You're valid. You're worthy of love, respect and a healthy relationship- whenever you're ready. ♡

[lalondegender]

aromantic sapphics? fabulous!

demiromantic sapphics? amazing!

aroflux sapphics? spectacular!

lithromantic sapphics? excellent!

frayromantic sapphics? great!

arospike sapphics? brilliant!

greyromantic sapphics? wonderful!

all arospec sapphics? ethereal!

[lalondegender]

You are BEAUTIFUL and PRECIOUS, friend. PLEASE BE NICE TO YOU TODAY OR I WILL COMPLAIN LOUDLY.

Shop , Patreon , Books and Cards , Mailing List

[lalondegender]

It’s scientifically proven that nonbinary sapphics are stunning and radiant! Their beauty can only be matched by the stars ⭐☀️☄🌙🌟

[lalondegender]

Reblog this post if you are NOT a white, fully abled, neurotypical, heterosexual, cisgender male.

Trying to prove a point :)

[lalondegender]

@adhdyuuji requested a cleancore stimboard with themes of suds and water!

• ● • | • ● • | • ● •