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yesterday i was talking to my therapist about how much growing up with a mother who went out of her way to never compliment my appearance or say anything positive about how i looked impacted my self-worth in a way i still carry around with me and i've been dwelling on that conversation ever since. i feel like it kind of goes hard in either direction and most mothers are either really effusive or just never say anything kind to their daughters at all in this regard and i'm curious about other people's experiences.
#as someone pointed it out in the replies theres obvs also cultural differences#but my mum calls me beauty all the time. 'frumusete'#like if i send in a photo to the family groupchat she'll probably just reply smth like 'beauty! kisses!'#one thing i will give my mother is she rly did try her best not to comment negatively on our physical appearance#(i still got image issues from her but thats bc she puts herself down all the time & i grew up to look very similar to her)#i think specifically my mum calling me beautiful / pretty is helped by the fact that the romanian word for beautiful is vv common#its used to express anything from 'it's nice out' to 'you're behaving politely'#less of an intense thing to call someone#polls
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#cant believe i finally see the wigan kebab video and it makes complete sense to me#although i will say 'but theres no pea... just wet' did make me laugh#video#food tw
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we all got that one interest that all of our followers ignore in perfect sync no matter how much we post about it
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ive been listening to all the queen albums and theres nothing more disorienting than hearing the album version of a song for the first time when youve heard the single version a million times. i genuinely thought my headphones were broken and i was only hearing the instrumental out of one ear
#fat bottomed girls is the same except like 8 inexplicable measures of added guitar before each verse#k#queen#for context i grew up on the platinum collection
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i used to be the original imagine y/n girl... when i was like nine or ten i would daydream abt going to university and going to a lecture and brian may being the professor and id be the only one who recognised him but id play it cool and ask him abt his doctoral thesis instead...
#like literally on wikipedia studying up on his astrophysics research interests as if it was gonna come in handy#i also dont think i understood at the time just how famous queen is💀💀#k#queen#music
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Hortensia Mi Kafchin (Romanian, 1986) - Vessels II (2023)
#lesbian urn???????#obsessed with hortensia as a first name#the cuntiest of flower names#hortensia mi kafchin#nice!#romania
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is anyone normal actually using communities or am i just cursed to have them recommended every three posts on my fyp bc tumblr wants to peddle them to users
#like i cant tell if communities r coming up bc ppl r using them or bc nobodys using them and tumblr is trying to drive up engagement#obvs ppl r using them bc i see them but like. is anyone normal using them#k
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unequivocally the best song queen has ever written and it's not even close. and bohemian rhapsody is on this album
#this song is so crazy even at 1 minute long that it makes the song right after it sound normal mundane and boring#that song being im in love with my car#1 minute 7 seconds full of the most delightfully absurd pronounciations known to man....#tiiiiusday i go off to honeymuuuuuun.....#sssursday i go waltzing tu the zuuuuuuu......#k#queen#music#audio#Spotify
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#me last week at work truly#my manager was so nice today in my catchup😭#she was like 'i kept thinking last week how you kept having to deal with all these situations'#im still paranoid so i still believe shes lying to me and prepping the paperwork to fire me#but like. realistically shes so sweet
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Candy Darling by Dustin Pittman, 1971
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New Messer album, 'CUTS' arrives July 18, 2025
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rb with whether people assume you’re older or younger than your actual age
#younger... when i was in my last year of high school uber drivers would wish me luck on the exam that you get into highschool with#like they thought i was 13 when i was 17#recently this romanian barista at the train station pret asked what im doing commuting since 'i look so young'#i told him im 23 and he laughed💀#and when i was clubbing as a minor id routinely be the only one in my friend group id'ed#not even bc the bouncers cared but i was so obviously under 18 they couldve gotten in trouble#anyways the infantilising does suck but it has gotten a bit better since ive entered my 20s
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me: has anyone seen my cat
my cat:



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i love how i can date an article by the vernacular in the ariana grande quote inside it
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diet cuture is so crazy i was just drinking coconut water & googled whats in it (im that guy eating a sausage with the wikipedia page for sausage open fr) and found tons of these 'health' sites saying coconut water is good because it has 'no fat or cholesterol' yeah fucking duh what r u talking abt. its a juice. cholesterol is literally only found in animal products
#anyways doesnt look to be particularly nutritious but it is a nice refresher for this heatwave#my taste palate is so weird im normally neutral-negative on coconut water but once in a while i get such a craving for it#its nice! its good!#k#food tw
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