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having a special interest in smth does not mean that you have to be an expert in that thing
it doesn't mean you have to have the most merch related to that thing
it doesn't make your interest in that thing invalid or lower tier if you see someone who has or knows more about it
it's okay to just have a special interest without having to prove that you're worthy of it
#this was inspired by a reddit post i saw a while back#as well as a reminder to myself for my own feelings of inferiority about my SpIns bc i dont have hella merch abt them or smth#autism#neurodivergent#sorry if this comes off as infantalizing#but even in my 30s i have to remember that it's okay to just get joy out of my SpIns and not stress out about being the#number one expert or smth about them
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you don't have to have played these games, you don't have to have any level of familiarity beyond baseline. this is 100% vibes based. im not even going to say "don't look up their release dates" before you answer but it would be better vibes if you don't.
no, I'm not putting a "see results" answer, if you have NO FAMILIARITY AT ALL just go with your gut.
reblog when you answer for sample size, feel free to put your reasoning and answer in the tags
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I feel like the reason certain dog-lovers insist cats are evil is because they read their body language as if they were dogs. So here’s a very basic guide to common “mean” things cats do that actually aren’t mean at all if you know what they’re thinking.
Rolling and exposing belly- attacks you when touched Does not mean: Give belly rubs! - haha I tricked you! Actually means: I’m playful! If you reach for my belly I’ll grab your arm and bite it because I think we’re playfighting!Â
Lazily exposing belly - still attacks when touched Does not mean: tricked you again! Actually means: I’m showing you my belly because I trust you. Please don’t break that trust by invading my personal space. I might accept a belly rub if I’m not ticklish and I know you well. Snapping at you while being pet Does not mean: I suddenly decided I dislike you! Actually means: You’re petting me in a way that gives me too much restless energy. Please focus on petting my head and shoulders instead of stroking the full length of my back next time.
Is in the same room but makes no attempt to interact Does not mean:  I’m ignoring you Actually means: We’re hanging out! I’m being respectful by giving you space while still enjoying your company. Slapping/scratching your hand when you try to pet them Does not mean: I hate you! Actually means: You’ve failed to establish that we’re not playing, or the way you’re approaching me scares me. Be calmer, speak more gently, make eye-contact and blink slowly at me before you try again.
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i just wanna sleep on my side again im so ready to get these staples out
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i don’t know how to explain to you people that no matter what a country’s government is like i do not and will not support the US indiscriminately bombing that country’s civilians and i don’t know why that’s a controversial take tbh
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ok so i know that torture doesn’t actually work but for the sake of our t4t rp session you gotta pretend that that it at least works a little.
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fun things post surgery
I feel like im getting Phantom Nipple Pain - it's very likely just because there's a lot of nerve endings that just disappeared, but every once in a while im getting a twinge of pain that feels like my nips getting clamped.
which sadly isn't as kinky fun as it sounds
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also if you don't believe me, I'm not comfortable showing my prescription page publicly because of privacy reasons but i can show the proof privately.
so like
my hrt is literally $350 this month for some reason
i obviously can't afforf that, i couldn't afford the $110 it was last month
idk what to do I'm losing my mind
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thanks to pharmacy coupons i was able to get this down to 150 so
at least there's that
but i still can't deal w this after being out of work almost all month for surgery @-@
so like
my hrt is literally $350 this month for some reason
i obviously can't afforf that, i couldn't afford the $110 it was last month
idk what to do I'm losing my mind
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if you're willing and able to help but please only if you're able
so like
my hrt is literally $350 this month for some reason
i obviously can't afforf that, i couldn't afford the $110 it was last month
idk what to do I'm losing my mind
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so like
my hrt is literally $350 this month for some reason
i obviously can't afforf that, i couldn't afford the $110 it was last month
idk what to do I'm losing my mind
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The worst part of human adulthood is being your own zookeeper
#literally i am a tiger pacing my enclosure with a cone of shame#and i need a mutton chop in an ice block tossed into my cage right now
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"Are you good in bed?" No, I can't sleep.
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straight up i am dealing with surgery recovery way worse than I'm letting on and i feel very alone in it
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