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Bye bye 2023! Welcome 2024!!

Like at the end of every year, we remember the highlights of the passing year and compare it with what we expected it to be versus how it turned out. We retrospect; what went well and what could have been better in the hopes of improving the coming year and possibly setting new goals. Likewise, today on the last day of this year I am reminiscing about its good and bad moments. When I started…

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Talking is exhautive

Talking is very exhausting, don’t you agree? I can sit in silence for hours without getting bored, but if you ask me to talk it is just too uncomfortable. I am a very good listener. You can talk to me for hours I won’t mind but don’t ask me to initiate conversations. I have tried it but have failed very miserably. There are very few people in this world with whom you can talk without any filters…

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My first love!

Little did I know I had the potential to experience selfless love in this lifetime. I never thought true love existed in this mean world. It is rare or nearly impossible to experience selfless, vulnerable, true love in this world. I grew up romancing Bollywood’s idea of love. Bollywood’s definition of love is finding ‘the one’ person- who completes you and makes your otherwise useless life…

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Building boundaries

A quote from Grey’s Anatomy Boundaries don’t keep other people out,They fence you in.So you can waste ur life drawing lines,Or you can live your life crossing them.But there are some lines,That are way too dangerous to cross.Here’s what I know, if you are willing to take the chance,The View from the other side is spectacular! Contrary to the above quote, I have built a boundary around myself to…

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Happy ending!?

What could be a happy ending to our stories? Do you think happy endings are even possible in reality? I guess, happy endings are a fancy ideology that only exists in movies. In real life, it’s all about problems and their outcomes. Most of the times outcomes are unexpected and very different from what we wanted. So there is no ending it’s just the series of never-ending problem or…

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Fighting the feeling of Unwanted!

I am the first child of my parents so irrespective of gender, the firstborn is immensely loved and protected. So there is no question of not being loved enough or feeling lonely. But still sometimes out of nowhere I get a strong repulsive feeling of being Unwanted. This undeniable feeling makes me wonder if there is any need for me to be in this world. If tomorrow I don’t exist how many people…

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Sunday- The best day of all!

Is it though? Is Sunday still the best day? For a long time, it used to be ever since we started going to school or had a weekday routine life. But this lockdown has changed that. Now every day seems the same to me. Friday’s aren’t that exciting as they used to be. I am sure many people will agree with me here. I am not a party person so that hasn’t changed a bit for me. I pretty much spend my…

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Honest opinions

The most difficult thing to do in life is, to be honest. Most importantly being honest to oneself. We expect people to be honest to us but it is the most difficult thing to digest if someone demonstrates a negative but honest opinion of ourselves. Honesty is no doubt a beautiful characteristic but it’s appreciated only if the outcome is positive. We want people to be honest but truly we will…

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Confession of a trapped soul

I used to be a believer in God, a religious person to the core. Truly believed there is somewhere in the universe a source of power greater than us. Who gave us this life and is there to protect us only if our karma is pure enough to earn his care. I “USED TO BE” that person, but lately, I have observed that my thoughts now deny his existence. Not because I am turning atheist but because it is…

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“Wait”

Nothing is permanent in this world then why my struggles are? Meaningless endless wait! Is this all my life? Most of the times, I don’t even know where it is heading and the pathetic thing is that I don’t even have any control over it. Days pass.. month turns into years. Nothing changes. Except for the burden of my unfulfilled dreams. It only increases. When I rant about it, people advise me…

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Cathartic writing

Writing in such anonymous blogs is my way of releasing those unaccounted, unaddressed emotions which are hard to express elsewhere. I don’t write stuff for any monetary benefits but I still want more and more people to read it, not to make my blog popular but to seek other people’s view. They say writing is cathartic, do you agree? I believe it is cathartic because when you don’t find someone…

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Death

I don’t have a fear of death like most people do. But I sure as hell am scared of the way I die. It is common knowledge that we all come with an expiry date so why fear? All I care and wish is when that day comes I leave this world with a contented heart and have a peaceful death rather than struggle through each torturous passing day lying in a hospital bed waiting for that day to come. I have…

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Are second chances overrated?

I am sure everybody at some point in their life must have felt the need for a do-over, a second chance at life. Felt a very strong need to just wipe out certain chapters or portions of their life and start over again. Cause we all are accident-prone mistake-making humans.  Sometimes you cannot blame people for their innocent mistakes because chances of getting things right in their first attempt…

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Can there be love without respect?

Can there be love without respect in a relationship? Is it even possible that someone may not give you the respect that you rightfully deserve and still claim to love you? I don’t know what to believe and what not to. I for one believe that respect and love go hand in hand. I would never be able to love someone if I don’t respect them. I may not share their perspectives, views and opinions but I…

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Happy (No regrets) year!

 Make it a rule of life never to regret and never to look back. Regret is an appalling waste of energy; you can’t build on it; it’s only good for wallowing in. – Katherine Mansfield I tried to follow this rule of life to never regret the choice I made in the past. But I today when I look back at my past life choices I am sure I would have not made most of the choices had I known their outcomes…