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she was right though and I don't mean to imply that anything is wrong with either of them. You want a resilient vivacious woman who can use the media circus to build a real name for herself outside of her familial wealth and knows how to have fun? then you want a Paris, if you want a quiet intellectual with a love for helping others that are less fortunate, then you get an Amal. Every woman has her own excellence and dating the people that are looking for you is the key to success.

A little guide for the girlies

A wise woman once said that the kind of man who would marry Paris Hilton is not the same man that would marry Amal Clooney and it's so true. You need to know who you are and how to market yourself and whoever you'll appeal to naturally to succeed because life is all about compatibility.

When dating pretty much all men come under these categories : independents, partial independents and dependents. 

Dependents

They're: Either young or not established and rely on nepotism, allowances and familial goodwill ( they are highly dependent on mummy and daddy’s approval) or they’re controlled by managers and contracts and are controlled by the image these entities want for them e.g nepo babies, athletes.

You're: Young but age appropriate, hot but reserved and classic with your style personality or hobbies. Not boring but definitely someone that won't create fuss or scandal with their family. More Nara Smith than Anna Nicole Smith. A solid good girl image and a clean slate are musts.

Independents

They're : Established or self made and their money and name are their own ( they’re not controlled by the opinions of others in any big way. You can’t fire them or disinherit them).Don't care about pissing-off family members or managers.

You're: Whatever their type is. Sometimes looks and stereotypical femininity don't matter to them at all sometimes it's all they care about.

These women both landed independents.

but so did this one

Partials

They're: A mix of both, they have their own thing but their families more than likely have a say in how they live or they have boards to answer to.

You're: A mixture of what they want and what they can get away with taking home to their parents.

Further down there are four categories of each 

Entrepreneurial: They made their money through business or they are set to inherit one. Eg magnates, tech bros or heirs.

You're: Either a stereotypical trophy wife or an entrepreneurial person yourself. Looks may matter but they may not.

Academic: Their lives are devoted to academia eg tenured professors, experts in their fields etc.

You're : Educated and more than likely an academic yourself. Being a bimbo with a phd in thewizardliz and simonesquared will not cut it.

Entertainment: They made their money through getting people to waste their attention on them.

You're: Stereotypically hot and flashy and very social think wags and hollywood gfs.

Even further down you have the private and the forward facing. 

Privates will never be in Forbes willingly, they have almost no socials and will make the guy at Starbucks sign an NDA before placing an order.

You're : Extremely Discrete

Forward facers need attention to live and their professional and romantic choices reflect this.

You're: Good At Keeping Up Appearances

[maenadmaiden]

A little guide for the girlies

A wise woman once said that the kind of man who would marry Paris Hilton is not the same man that would marry Amal Clooney and it's so true. You need to know who you are and how to market yourself and whoever you'll appeal to naturally to succeed because life is all about compatibility.

When dating pretty much all men come under these categories : independents, partial independents and dependents. 

Dependents

They're: Either young or not established and rely on nepotism, allowances and familial goodwill ( they are highly dependent on mummy and daddy’s approval) or they’re controlled by managers and contracts and are controlled by the image these entities want for them e.g nepo babies, athletes.

You're: Young but age appropriate, hot but reserved and classic with your style personality or hobbies. Not boring but definitely someone that won't create fuss or scandal with their family. More Nara Smith than Anna Nicole Smith. A solid good girl image and a clean slate are musts.

Independents

They're : Established or self made and their money and name are their own ( they’re not controlled by the opinions of others in any big way. You can’t fire them or disinherit them).Don't care about pissing-off family members or managers.

You're: Whatever their type is. Sometimes looks and stereotypical femininity don't matter to them at all sometimes it's all they care about.

These women both landed independents.

but so did this one

Partials

They're: A mix of both, they have their own thing but their families more than likely have a say in how they live or they have boards to answer to.

You're: A mixture of what they want and what they can get away with taking home to their parents.

Further down there are four categories of each 

Entrepreneurial: They made their money through business or they are set to inherit one. Eg magnates, tech bros or heirs.

You're: Either a stereotypical trophy wife or an entrepreneurial person yourself. Looks may matter but they may not.

Academic: Their lives are devoted to academia eg tenured professors, experts in their fields etc.

You're : Educated and more than likely an academic yourself. Being a bimbo with a phd in thewizardliz and simonesquared will not cut it.

Entertainment: They made their money through getting people to waste their attention on them.

You're: Stereotypically hot and flashy and very social think wags and hollywood gfs.

Even further down you have the private and the forward facing. 

Privates will never be in Forbes willingly, they have almost no socials and will make the guy at Starbucks sign an NDA before placing an order.

You're : Extremely Discrete

Forward facers need attention to live and their professional and romantic choices reflect this.

You're: Good At Keeping Up Appearances

[maenadmaiden]

what Work is the most important? the work you have to do next. narrow the scope of focus down to that singular glittering point.

[maenadmaiden]

The men who make snide YouTube videos about women who ready “spicy” books are so healthy for me spiritually because they keep me intellectually humble. Yes, I am sometimes scornful of women who read exclusively hetero omegaverse style explicit books. But when I’m exposed to the commentary coming from some dude who hasn’t cracked a book in the past decade and who spends all his disposable income on onlyfans, I remember whose side I’m on.

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if you want any success you need to be keeping tech and finance bros off of the pedestal because every single one of them is genuinely just some guy.

they are objectively the lowest hanging fruit and most of them have unhealed mother wounds and just want someone to listen to them harp on about their achievements.

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I miss tough love 2pretty

[maenadmaiden]

manifesting a group of women who are slightly older than me but like to discuss literature, politics, business, markets, good film, share their experiences, travel to places that are not instagrammed and stay in boutique hotels; dinners on Friday at lovely establishments, go to jazz bars and museums, have a distinct personality that shines through their manner of speech, expression of thoughts and style; artists, business figures, musicians, scientists, women who have a deep passion for something; women who know how to have a good time and enjoy themselves without feeling the need to fit into society’s idea of fun.

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I think she may be trying to fit into the image of what she should be and it doesn't really compute. I love anna nicole too and kim does in fact make the tackier side of things look good on her. I think when women have the thing they love and stick to that rather than sticking to what they think they should present it tends be less jarring, lauren has not done that yet. Also the old money aesthetic screams chronically online person who never met a single member of the social group they insist on worshipping

Lauren and Jeff Bezos are finally getting married. I can’t to watch all the shade and entertainment from the upper crust of society. I already know sis is going to look cheap as hell, but she is the hypergamous queen and I respect her hustle.

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Another harsh truth?

People who come from families that have invested hundreds of thousands of dollars (sometimes even over a million) into their education and enrichment usually will not involve themselves with someone who has not invested in themselves or their education at all.

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I love this for you, I adore this for you.

then i did hiromi higuruma and got shadowbanned on tiktok for it!

[maenadmaiden]

the surge looking like the work of a temu med student aside, the body is tea and the hustle is real and she has an earnest smile. Also sidenote I'm kinda sick of the old money elegant perfect at 19 thing, I love a cheap trashy anna nicole trophy wife moment and she delivers.

Lauren and Jeff Bezos are finally getting married. I can’t to watch all the shade and entertainment from the upper crust of society. I already know sis is going to look cheap as hell, but she is the hypergamous queen and I respect her hustle.

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