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How is this a confusing or unexpected result?

Trans "men" are female. Lesbians are female homosexuals. Why is this fucked up?

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https://diyhrt.wiki/index

This is a site being passed around on here by TRAS. A lot of the posts promoting this have thousands of notes …

Terrifying

are you kidding me

[mandyfem]

Hello just lurking here. I'm a lesbian through and through and I "peaked" just recently. Several months before this. Maybe a year or two, I noticed myself being incredibly uncomfortable about transgender people and I couldn't figure out why.

But mainly, the problem was the weird prevalence of terms like MtF and "girldick" for supposed lesbian spaces (it made me uncomfortable but of course I didn't dare voice that). My breaking point was seeing "transbians" with visible bulges and very lanky male face and body (except with long hair) claiming to be lesbians. I genuinely felt a visceral anger and disgust that I started blocking all transgender related words and content in every site I visited because I felt violated. Like someone sent an unsolicited photo to me.

I think they're invading our spaces and I no longer feel confident in a community that was supposed to be meant for actual women like me.

You felt violated because it is a violation of boundaries.

Fetishistic men in frilly dresses forcefully made their way into female spaces and demanded changes without asking women first.

Now everything revolves around them and women who speak up against this madness are silenced and harassed.

It's truly enraging how they demand respect n compassion but never return it,it's one sided. Women have to shut up and accommodate,while trans identified males are free to do whatever they please.

Be as obnoxious as they feel like because how dare you invalidate them?

It's truly demoralizing...

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😭

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Also, on the topic of drag queens - they prance around dressed as women, but the money they earn from it doesn’t actually benefit they women they imitate in any way. Look at the famous drag queens - who do they employ as assistants? Men. Who do they buy their costumes from? Men. Who do they hire as backing dancers? Men. Violet Chachki created a digital show over lockdown with credits a minute long and there wasn’t a single woman involved. He didn’t hire a female choreographer or a female camera person or even a female coffee-getter.

They’re men, they’re male oriented, and they have male class consciousness.

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There are SO many stories with this outcome.. i don’t think it’s worth to make your “desired” genitalia, just to experience severe pain and dilation for the rest of your life

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"Females can't help but display their sexuality" - you mean you can't look at parts of our normal, natural bodies without sexually objectifying them. Because you are porn-addled.

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Today in: are the gender people okay?

“Being silent and moving to a different game does not make us more safe.”

Sir, this is about Stardew Valley.

But when you believe bullshit like the below to be true I’m sure the world is just littered with dangers:

>“Trans women are not biological men.”

> the study (which would not link to Tumblr no matter what I did but the New York Times has the quote from Pitsiladis) literally says trans women have an advantage over “cisgender” women in sports and also acknowledges that it studied fewer than 100 participants total (19 men, 12 trans men, 23 trans women, 21 women) so the sample size is so small as to be useless

> so now you’re just a male doped up on exogenous cross-sex hormones who’s better than women at a sport but worse than other men and doctors aren’t even calling you a man now

> and you’ll still never be a woman

> and you can’t even play as a trans or nonbinary farmer in Stardew Valley so are you safe anywhere?!?$?

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I wonder where the future of feminism will be, when ordinary people don't know what a woman is. ( most do but afraid to say, others are so woke the answer is abstract like it's an idea and not biological reality )

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finally reddit speaking some truth

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Are you seriously an advocate for matriarchy? Shouldn't radfems be pushing for the abolishing of oppressive sex hierarchies instead of just replacing the current one with another?

Mh I don't know about that but a female dominated society does sound nice and peaceful unlike the one we are currently living in.

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Veteran radfems are all so weary and caustic and their souls are sarcasm, but their hearts are full of an objective, data-driven truth they can't blind themselves to, and they don't shut up, even though people pour shit on them like they're flat-earthers.

These are my people.

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having endometriosis as a TRA was a wild time because how are you going to say, with your full chest, that maybe I should tone down my complaining of pain, bleeding etc because it’s insensitive to those who desperately want a period? maybe I should be grateful I was born in the right body? that my pain is easily cured compared to the mental anguish of being trans? that somehow I’m mocking trans women by making a TikTok about being in pain? that I am tone deaf for posting about getting my hormone injections because it’s not fair it’s so easy for me to get hormonal treatment when in fact it took me 12 years to be taken seriously?

I spent 2 whole years letting TRAs invalidate the pain that I fought so fucking hard to validate because I was brainwashed to believe I was lucky. this evil disease is a sign of luck. I gaslit myself that maybe I was the issue and I should work to make the endo community more inclusive and considerate of TiMs.

all for what?

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What would your perfect world look like?

matriarchal,no more male violence.