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Help fund my top surgery!

Hello all, I am a disabled, trans-masculine person looking for help. I cannot afford surgery, don't have the credit for a loan, and need top surgery ASAP. I can't keep going on without it. I started a funding campaign, so please help! https://www.crowdrise.com/hanns-top-surgery/fundraiser/hannhenson

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fun tip for cis people: instead of saying “back when she was a he” or “back before [birthname] became [preferred name]”, try not being a pile of shit by saying something like “before she came out” or “before she began her transition”!

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The anime, solves big problems with children’s card games.

The manga (or at least what I’ve read so far, which isn’t alot yet), solves small problems with murder and/or a lifetime of suffering.

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Whu

i spent the day making myself sAD

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*draws a character facing ¾ right on a blank white background* oh thank god. i’m good at art again

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the more things change the more they stay the same

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remember when ted cruz said “donald trump may be a rat but i have no desire to fornicate with him”? i know the whole election has been weird as hell but i don’t think we truly appreciated the bizarreness of a presidential nominee implying he wants to fuck rats as long as they’re not donald trump

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I think there honestly is a bit of a nuance here we're missing. A transgender fetish is often not a trans fetish. They are not the same. All you have to do is look at where porn is drawn and not acted by humans, therefore having no need to be based in reality. The fetish isn't for us as trans people and let's be honest it's fucking wrong to say that it's about transgender people. It's about girls with penises or boys with vaginas and/or tits. That's what the kink is. Futanari? That's a big, popular subset of hentai and it's based on cis girls with penises.

Someone who sexually fetishizes trans people doesn't actually care whatsoever about trans people. The attraction comes from the idea of being fucked/fucking someone with "opposite" genitalia. Not all trans people have that!! That doesn't define us. Let's call this for what it is.

When I was sexually assaulted by a guy who "liked non-binary people" because they were "like dudes inside a hot girls body", he was NOT attracted to me because I was trans. No one, or few people say, "oh Man, mmm, it really turns me on that your gender identity doesn't match the one that society erroneously gave you at birth." fuck no! They say "I like the idea of your genitalia."

And that's where the problem is. I might forgive a trans fetish if it actually existed, but it doesn't.

THAT SAID, as a trans guy I do you know, watch porn, so I support trans people in the porn industry. I want to see people like me represented there, and I have no problem with sex work or pornography if it's done right. It's just hard to remove that from the "trans fetish".

I've noticed you seem to take offense when people have a fetish for non CIS genders, and I get where you're coming from but people really can't control what turns them on, some straight people are turned on by gay sex of the opposite gender, that's fetishizing a sexual orientation. Some people fetishize race, some fetishize occupations. Everyone is someone's fetish for some reason or another. Maybe consider being more lenient with people who have trans fetishes most don't mean to offend.

I don’t think it’s wrong / bad to have a kink / fetish for trans people. The problem comes when people misjudge when and how to bring this up and end up disrespecting people, or just totally objectify them.

Several people have pointed out that there have been a number of trans fetish blogs liking some of the posts here. If this blog is helping them get a better idea of how to treat trans people with respect (or at least, how NOT to behave), that’s a good thing.

People with a trans fetish exist. And as long as they still treat trans people with respect as human beings, that’s okay.

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Proto Man is totally cool with the fact that he is constantly dying

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the worst thing about speaking two languages is trying to use an expression from one language that fits perfectly into your conversation but the other person won’t get it

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I had not taken seriously the possibility that Donald Trump could win the presidency until I saw Matt Lauer host an hour-long interview with the two major party candidates. Lauer’s performance was not merely a failure, it was horrifying and shocking. The shock, for me, was the realization that most Americans inhabit a very different news environment than professional journalists. I not only consume a lot of news, since it’s my job, I also tend to focus on elite print news sources. Most voters, and all the more so undecided voters, subsist on a news diet supplied by the likes of Matt Lauer. And the reality transmitted to them from Lauer matches the reality of the polls, which is a world in which Clinton and Trump are equivalently flawed.

Lauer’s Pathetic Interview Made Me Think Trump Can Win

“I was totally against the war in Iraq. You can look at Esquire magazine from 2004. You can look at before that.” This is a lie. Trump has been quoted supporting the invasion beforehand and even afterward. Nobody has produced any evidence of Trump contradicting his support for the war before it started. His line to Lauer was transparently ridiculous – how could a 2004 interview supply evidence of having opposed a war that began in 2003? But Lauer did not try even a single follow-up.

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The average undecided voter is getting snippets of news from television personalities like Lauer, who are failing to convey the fact that the election pits a normal politician with normal political failings against an ignorant, bigoted, pathologically dishonest authoritarian.

Emphasis mine. Matt Lauer failed the profession of journalism, and he failed America tonight. This is not a fucking game, this is not a fucking horserace. This is an election between, as Chait writes, a normal politician with normal political failings against an ignorant, bigoted, pathologically dishonest authoritarian. 

Chris Matthews was quick to defend Lauer after this pathetic display, saying that if Matt Lauer “calls Trump a liar”, then Lauer will be accused of expressing an opinion and not being impartial. That’s a fucking disgrace, and laughable coming from Matthews, who frequently spends most of his show demanding that his guests buy into whatever frame Matthews has constructed that day.

Anyone who is afraid of calling out lies when they are interviewing someone who wants to be president is not qualified to conduct that interview. Anyone who isn’t prepared to challenge the assertions of someone who wants to be president, because they’re afraid of what the big mean old political parties will say about them has no business calling themselves a journalist.

Matt Lauer should stick to empty celebrity interviews and cooking with celebrity chefs, because he clearly isn’t ready for the responsibility NBC gave him tonight.

(via wilwheaton)

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I cried like a baby. This show really addresses things that are important.

This was such a great message.

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Current Mood: Yugi’s face when villains pretend to be his friend

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The 90′s summed up in one gif