#Ftm

[genderqueerdykes]

if you are a trans boy, especially a teenage trans boy, i wanted to say that as a trans man in their 30's, you have my deepest respects and condolences for what you may be going through right now.

it has become socially acceptable and basically online custom to bully teenage trans boys & mascs, call them cringy, or excuse misgendering them for whatever reason. people put trans boys on this pedestal of "must perform masculinity and manhood to cartoonish degrees" even though they're still children.

people make trans boys fight for their manhood before they can even be boys. i am sorry people can be so judgmental and harsh on you. you are not wrong for wanting to be a boy. you are experiencing something wonderful. it's okay if you still want to be a boy even if people have treated you poorly, or tried to make you feel bad for being a boy. there is nothing wrong with being a boy.

it's okay if you never socially transition. it's okay if you're afraid to come out because it's not safe. it's okay if you never change your outward appearance. it's okay if you try very hard to pass but struggle to. it's okay if you wear "women's" clothing and shoes, bras, makeup, etc., it's okay if you're gay and love other men. it's okay if you're scared of hrt. it's okay if you don't want surgery. it's okay if you mainly occupy girl's spaces still. people will find every reason to pick these things apart and ridicule trans boys for, but they are all perfectly fine experiences that do not make you any less of a boy. you are the one who is in control of your transition, presentation, and state of being- you should be able to prioritize your safety over the comfort of random strangers who have no impact over how you live your life.

i've been put through this too, but later in life as i came out when i was an adult. people still try to make me feel bad for identifying as a trans man, for whatever reason they have in their head to justify hatred of a trans person. i've had enough. there will never be an excuse for how people try to excuse the infantilization and abuse that trans men and trans boys face.

take care of yourselves, no matter what age you are, if you are a trans boy, man, or masc you deserve to know that other trans men care about you, especially when people are scrambling to find ways to punch down on you. there are people who suck, but there are also a lot of people who care about you. keep your chin up. you know who you are

[chaunceydollz]

Disabled Dude here! I really need food Please Help or Share!!

Could anyone help a ngga out, me and my mom (both disabled and with no transportation) are really low on food rn, and could really use some cash to get at least a pizza or delivery. Reddit is absolutely no help bc of my age so this is my last resort. So could anyone spare like $20.96 for 2 pizzas via Apple Pay since I don’t have any other way.

$0/$20.96 pleaseee DM if you can send something via Apple cash!

[lilmoguy]

Trans belly

[lou-is-not-human]

[spiderriot]

‼️help me and my spouse not get evicted‼️

I was forced to pay an 800 doctor's bill or my doctor wouldn't prescribe my life saving meds. So now we're extremely late for rent and 800 dollars short of it. Please share, reblog, donate if you can. My PayPal is mileslaneflem@gmail.com and my spouses cashapp and venmo are below

This is extremely urgent

[genderqueerdykes]

now more than ever it's blatantly obvious that people go out of their way to erase trans men from communities and queer history. it's always been happening, but it's way easier to watch it in real time now thanks to the internet and social media. we are watching people basically gloating that they misgender trans men and don't see them as men. we are now watching people kick trans men out of queer spaces because they are often "femme and them" or "nonbinary and woman" support groups, conflating nonbinary identities with womanhood, and denying trans men or transmasc nonbinary people places to go. many of them get told that their presence would "scare" the lesbians, women and enbies because they have trauma.

where do the trans men with trauma go, though? we can't go anywhere. when i was struggling with domestic violence that ended up destroying my right leg, i was denied shelter in queer spaces and even women's spaces even though i have F on license. domestic violence shelters especially will turn trans men away if we pass. even if we partially identify as women, we can't go in because 'our voices are deep and scary and we're loud and aggressive and threatening and might prey on the defenseless scared women'

finding transmasc support groups is like trying to find a needle in a haystack. i've seen numerous organizations across the US have transfemme support groups, nonbinary/genderqueer support groups, and then nothing for transmascs. where the hell do we go when they won't let us go anywhere?

we try to exist online and they try to erase us from here, too. bickering and arguing about how we're not real men, sending trans men death and sexual assault threats, acting like they're saviors for kicking out the "dangerous ugly men" from the queer community, as if we don't belong to it at all.

i refuse to be erased. i refuse to sit in silence while people tell me my problems don't matter because now i "have male privilege". I don't. once people find out what my legal name is they view me as a woman. strangers however view me as a cis man and will deny me help, either through programs, or because i'm a "strong young man, i should be able to pick myself up by my boot straps." i'm not white. i'm not abled.

i'm proud to be a trans man and i will be here to fight for other trans men's rights to have a platform to speak, and spaces to occupy. i will not rest until trans men & mascs have safe places to be and meet other trans men.

trans men are queer. we belong here. we are taking up the space we rightfully deserve and we are not leaving.

[customboytoy]

can u imagine a 50 year old tguy getting forcemasced? that shells had cracks in it for years but maybe a younger guy cuts his graying hair and gives him his t shots. maybe he edges until his brain melts and he realizes how much better it is to be an old dog for a fit young pup. who cares if his hip breaks when he's getting fucked? hes just a good hole for young men anyway.

anon youre so smart i dont even have extra commentary i just thought of older tdick and felt like i snorted a line

[fallenstarcat]

shout out to every trans person who wants to bind but cannot, whether not as often as you wish or not at all. i myself have gone from binding 5 days a week to once every few months due to asthma and chronic pain. i see you. i feel you. dysphoria is hard, but sometimes physical health needs priority too and thats okay

[forcemasc-ed]

[skywalkerbootleg]

BEST thing that happened to me because of testosterone: I stopped looking like a 12 year old!

I was looking through pictures from 1-2 years ago (when I was 16/17) and I really looked like a child as in I would have guessed maybe 13. Finally I look and sound my age, yippie for transsexuality

[genderqueerdykes]

[absolutelybatty]

Big day for trans people tomorrow

[manichewitz]

i think about this post like. at least once a day