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This is something that I've needed to read recently... Leaving the military has been the biggest challenge I've had to face, and rather than admitting this I've challenged myself (wrongly), I've convinced myself it will work out if I force it. Bitter truth, sometimes it's best to put your 'career' on the back burner, educate yourself about YOU. 2021 is going to be a mystery, but my family, my friends and myself are being made a priority. That's for sure. #selfcare #selfgrowth #selflove https://www.instagram.com/p/CL4slTartz7/?igshid=1s8hcdjcmv0ou

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Here I am, taking myself into a looong weekend which will probably feel shorter than a typical Monday morning... #weeekendvibes #vibing #longweekend #cute #chill https://www.instagram.com/p/CLuPCVSLRro/?igshid=2kdfw1l4o36o

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𝘐𝘵 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘬𝘴 𝘰𝘶𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘦𝘯𝘥. 𝘠𝘰𝘶 𝘦𝘯𝘥 𝘶𝘱 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘴𝘶𝘱𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘦𝘥 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘸𝘩𝘰 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘴𝘶𝘱𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘦𝘥 𝘵𝘰 𝘣𝘦 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩. 𝘐𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘦𝘯𝘥 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘸𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘥𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘮𝘦𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘵𝘰 𝘥𝘰 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘸𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘦𝘥 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘰𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘱𝘦𝘰𝘱𝘭𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘸𝘦𝘳𝘦 𝘮𝘦𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘵𝘰 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱. 𝙄𝙩 𝙖𝙡𝙡 𝙬𝙤𝙧𝙠𝙨 𝙤𝙪𝙩. - - - - - #staypositive #positivethinking #positivity #positivevibes #positivequote #quote #qotd https://www.instagram.com/p/CLquWyNr74U/?igshid=q9p2xr0vwbjf

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Give yourself some time to grow.

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@oliverdunn14 has been getting creative creating his own scented wax bars today 😂 Scent: Vanilla & Lavender This scent was requested by a customer - if I've to be totally honest, I'm not a huge lover of anything Lavender scented. I was secretly dreading our home stinking, but mixed with the vanilla musk its certainly surprised me! 😍 𝘓𝘢𝘷𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘦𝘳 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘷𝘢𝘯𝘪𝘭𝘭𝘢 𝘪𝘴 𝘢𝘯 𝘢𝘳𝘰𝘮𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘤 𝘥𝘦𝘭𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵, 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘧𝘳𝘢𝘨𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘤𝘦 𝘪𝘴 𝘤𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘳𝘦𝘥 𝘰𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘰𝘧𝘵 𝘴𝘸𝘦𝘦𝘵 𝘴𝘤𝘦𝘯𝘵 𝘰𝘧 𝘭𝘢𝘷𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘦𝘳. 𝘎𝘳𝘦𝘦𝘯 𝘯𝘰𝘵𝘦𝘴 𝘰𝘧 𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘵𝘩𝘺 𝘷𝘪𝘰𝘭𝘦𝘵 𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘧 𝘥𝘳𝘪𝘧𝘵 𝘵𝘰𝘸𝘢𝘳𝘥𝘴 𝘸𝘢𝘳𝘮 𝘢𝘮𝘣𝘦𝘳 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘭𝘪𝘭𝘺 𝘸𝘩𝘪𝘤𝘩 𝘢𝘥𝘥 𝘥𝘦𝘱𝘵𝘩 𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘵. - - - - - #homemade #waxmelts #scents #homefragrance #madewithlove #marble #marblemelts https://www.instagram.com/p/CKt_DidLwAf/?igshid=29oouemniztm

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Don't compare your journey to someone else's... We're all moving at our own pace. So long as you jeep moving, you're making progress. Give yourself credit! XOXO - - - - - #selfcare #saturdayvibes #progress #selfgrowth #selflovejourney #selflove #dailyinspiration #affirmations #dailyaffirmations #positivethinking #positivity #positivevibes https://www.instagram.com/p/CKr30UHLINn/?igshid=livbp9yuc6ff

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Many of us have established a comfort zone in our lives. We coasting along taking the path of least resistance and just getting by. Sitting in one spot and doing the same as you have always done is easy and its human tendency to do what is easy. Working a job that requires little effort is easy. Having a belly that's only getting bigger is easy. Having an average relationship is easy. Spending 3 hours a day on Instagram is easy. Criticising someone and pointing out what they are doing wrong is easy. Easy is the comfort zone.  The comfort zone frame of mind is settling for who you are today, which usually brings a lot of dissatisfaction into your life, rather than who you want to be. The bad and comfortable habits you have developed may be fine today, but without some discomfort, risk, and progression to the next level, you are never going to be who you really want to be.  If you’re living in the comfort zone, beware - the danger of the comfort zone is that it doesn’t hurt, it actually feels quite good while you're in it, and you often don’t realise until you're so deep in it. The most important benefit to leaving your comfort zone is to expand your identity. You are not what you think you are. This is true for all people. We have so much more potential than any of us realise. “𝘐 𝘸𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘵𝘰 𝘣𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘨𝘩𝘭𝘺 𝘶𝘴𝘦𝘥 𝘶𝘱 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘐 𝘥𝘪𝘦, 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘩𝘢𝘳𝘥𝘦𝘳 𝘐 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘬, 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘮𝘰𝘳𝘦 𝘐 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦. 𝘐 𝘳𝘦𝘫𝘰𝘪𝘤𝘦 𝘪𝘯 𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘦 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘪𝘵𝘴 𝘰𝘸𝘯 𝘴𝘢𝘬𝘦. 𝘓𝘪𝘧𝘦 𝘪𝘴 𝘯𝘰 ‘𝘣𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘧 𝘤𝘢𝘯𝘥𝘭𝘦’ 𝘵𝘰 𝘮𝘦. 𝘐𝘵 𝘪𝘴 𝘴𝘰𝘳𝘵 𝘰𝘧 𝘢 𝘴𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘪𝘥 𝘵𝘰𝘳𝘤𝘩 𝘸𝘩𝘪𝘤𝘩 𝘐 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘢 𝘩𝘰𝘭𝘥 𝘰𝘧 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘮𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘐 𝘸𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘵𝘰 𝘮𝘢𝘬𝘦 𝘪𝘵 𝘣𝘶𝘳𝘯 𝘢𝘴 𝘣𝘳𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵𝘭𝘺 𝘢𝘴 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘴𝘪𝘣𝘭𝘦 𝘣𝘦𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘦 𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘥𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘪𝘵 𝘰𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘵𝘰 𝘧𝘶𝘵𝘶𝘳𝘦 𝘨𝘦𝘯𝘦𝘳𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴.” ― 𝘎𝘦𝘰𝘳𝘨𝘦 𝘉𝘦𝘳𝘯𝘢𝘳𝘥 𝘚𝘩𝘢𝘸 #thoughts #comfortzone #bethebestyou #happylife #bethebestversionofyou #bethechange #goals #inspiration #inspirationalwords #inspirationalquotes #life #lifequotes https://www.instagram.com/p/CKlPSC6rnKm/?igshid=12z8n145xy4hv

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..I've already been thinking about my new year's resolutions.. 2021 will be me 110% focused on my career however, taking up a fun hobby is certainly needed. I'll be happy to get my skates back on in January 😍❤️ #hobby #2021 #newyear #newyearresolution #rollerskating #green #greenaesthetic #fun https://www.instagram.com/p/CI6ldI9Lh_0/?igshid=1vjitbvwyhng2

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“Confidence Breeds Beauty.” -  Estée Lauder ° ° ° ° ° #confidence #esteelauder #beauty #quote #beautybloggers #skincare #beautyinfluencer #BodyShopUK #thebodyshop #thebodyshopathome #bekind #bebeautiful https://www.instagram.com/p/CIoCcGCLCZn/?igshid=1cbzldkx7k4v4

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““It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not.””

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"The only person you need is yourself" is bullshit. We are a social species. We were made to care about each other and support each other - and there's nothing weak, wrong or sick about needing love, care, attention, validation and support from other people. We need to stop shaming each other for not being completely self-sufficient and independently happy cause we weren't made to be. We were made to care.

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Be happy not because everything is good, but because you can see the good side of everything.

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"Maybe the root of peoples' hate is not having enough love. Not enough love in their household, from their spouse or parents, or they simply dont love/respect themselves. So be the one who loves those whose hearts seem to be made of stone.

You dont have to marry the person, but just show them that someone in this cruel world does care about em."