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Trying to figure out if you’re ace or aro can be so goddamn hard because it’s like, trying to find the absence of something. Imagine you’re at a pond and you want to know if there are any turtles, or fish. Say you find a turtle and you’re like “great! Now I know there are turtles.” Or a fish, now you know for sure there are fish. Or you find both, and now you know for a fact there are both turtles and fish in the pond.
But like, if you don’t find any turtles it might be that there are no turtles or maybe you’re just really shitty at looking for turtles and maybe you THINK you saw a turtle over there or maybe it was just a stick. Maybe there are only a few turtles. Maybe you need to do something special to find the turtles. Maybe a bunch of these rocks are actually turtles but you couldn’t tell them apart. Maybe there are no turtles. You have no idea. Meanwhile some people are saying “Oh there have to be turtles! You’ll find them eventually ;)” or “How many turtles have you found in your pond?” or “Try planting some vegetables at the shore to attract the turtles.” Or “Oh no! What disaster happened to your pond that there are no turtles?” And you’re just standing there wet with an empty net and a tired expression.
But whatever because whether there are turtles or fish or not your pond’s ecology works just fine without them because that’s what eco-communities do they form a system around what they have. You aren’t missing anything if you don’t have turtles you just have a pond system without turtles. If someone tried to change you by pouring a bunch of turtles into your pond it would probably fuck something up.
So you don’t have to be entirely sure. You don’t have to search every inch of the damn pond before you can decide there are probably no turtles. If you want to take the aro or ace label because you think it fits go for it. And if you do find your turtles you can rename the pond. That’s fine.
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I will miss you if they finally realize about you, Tumblr dot com the website and app Twitter account. You shined bright, you magnificent being.
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artist tips
don’t save as jpeg
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“Death is a rare mercy” Alright folks, time to add a new quote to the list of things that go hard and sound like they’re from classic lit, but actually come from unexpected places
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In case anyone is having a bad night:
Here is the fudgiest brownie in a mug recipe I’ve found
Here are some fun sites
Here is a master post of Adventure Time episodes and comics
Here is a master post of movies including Disney and Studio Ghibli
Here is a master post of other master posts to TV shows and movies
*tucks you in with fuzzy blanket* *pats your head*
You’ll be okay, friend <3
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now i have to deal with a whole country of moping people at least until carnaval season, i.e. late february. again. don't get me wrong: uncomparably worst things almost happened this year alone, and maybe because of that i got more sensible to the collective energy and tired of being anxious, i guess???
well... ying and yang, i guess...
#brazil#fifa world cup#these poor guys tho#the players i mean#like they just work here you know#leave them alone#do i have to say i inherently hate futebol culture? 'cause I DO once it represents much of what i hate about living here#but i'm kind low energy cause most people are low energy I GUESS????#look#i really craved for this because regarding futebol i'm a unashamedly a sadistic bitch#but have some decorum#immediately people were screaming on the streets in absolute joy and also happy for... portugal?#the happiness i understand but come on my LATIN AMERICAN fella... most of them don't like you why are you cheering them wtf#bolsonar*sts and far r*ght do not interact and fuck off BTW#anyway#bye
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Shout out to the day i killed the queen via AO3, legendary (name of the fanfic is jigens sick adventure, yes it is a sickfic)
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James would say any publicity is good publicity 😎
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Being on tumblr is like being a raccoon. I dig through the garbage for shiny things I like. Sometimes I find good things to share with my friends. Sometimes I find something horrifying, and also share it with my friends.
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Seattle Morning / Seattle Nights, 2017
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hey mr cookie clicker did you make the grandmas so dommy mommy on purpose or was it unintentional bc either way i want them to beat me with their rolling pins like a cookie 🥺🥺
i think you should be hunted not out of sport but out of duty
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Designed some Fakemon! Cubzier, Tigrance and Bengaroma is a Fire/Fairy starter Pokémon based on tigers and incense.
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"that ship isn't canon! that character isn't gay!" well thats not what the voices told me
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that one post with all the edgy anime boys in a therapy waiting room but it's lain, rei, madoka, anthy, etc.
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