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Brendon Urie Allegations

TW: SA claims

Coca Cola Zero Festival 2009

Kam at Capetown Ostrich Farm

April 13, 2009

Another story that sounds totally real…

let’s debunk it.

Not only were Kam and Leah’s accounts created within the same few days, they were both removed from twitter and deleted their statements.

Kam is alleging they met Brendon going to catch the train home from Coca Cola Music Fest. Which, is a statement bizarre on its own. There’s no way he would just be walking around after a festival. The band had an entire trip planned including safaris and tourist outings because it was the first time they had ever been there.

Yes, you met him when you were on your way to the train station…. Except for the closest train station to the Ostrich Farm is a 4 hour+ walk.

A minor wouldn’t be driving, and South Africa is the 3rd most dangerous country in the world. There wasn’t Ubers in 2009, you would have to take a taxi to the train station, and really someone this young would most certainly need to be accompanied by an adult.

Where they “met” isn’t actually said in this allegation and the person is very vague about details, but if they had been in public with a security guard, why would he be standing there just asking the most bizarre inappropriate questions? None of this makes sense to begin with “he tried to make out with his band mates” is taken straight out of archive of our own, honestly.

Anyways…. The first image is from the show they claimed to be at

The second image is from the next day in Cape Town Square. Brendon stayed in Cape Town overnight. While this person claimed to be catching a train out of Cape Town.

More importantly, Brendon had been in the music industry long enough at that point to know not be outside where fans would run into him after shows. His security has prevented this for years at festivals, venues etc.

Kam deleted and deactivated their account when they were questioned & “surfaced” again

Though people will try to say this was just one of Brendon’s fans trying to make him look better.

The thing that stands out most to me is that at this point he had just started dating his now wife Sarah, who he pined over for 8 months because of the connection they had with one another when they met in 2008, at the time she had a boyfriend but they were brought together 8 months after meeting when she was single and have been together ever since. You can hear Brendon talk about how he met his wife below.

Brendon and Sarah started dating on February 14, 2009 which was 2 months prior to this allegation. He was absolutely enamoured by her for months before he even got to be with her. Ain’t no way he’s going around making comments to underage fans in public. Ridiculous. Sarah mentioned on a stream once as well that they had to be talking all the time when they first started dating and couldn’t get enough of eachother. Which is common when you first start dating someone.

Other loose allegations.

Death Walk: There was a user who claimed he touched her during the Death walk. This is a public very enclosed space where people are literally touching, licking and kissing Brendon without his permission and someone said they felt him grab them. Even if they did feel that how do they know it was him? Or that it was intentional? If you watch any death walk video he is singing with one hand and the other is used to touch hands with the audience and give hugs. At this point people were just making shit up as they went along. These aren’t even remotely verified.

Meet and Greet: Someone claimed he touched their hip/buttocks area at a meet and greet? Again in public? This is the most anxious dude ever, he’s already nervous to meet everybody. If you know him at all, you know he wouldn’t do this.

Here is a video of him talking to a fan who told him someone touched her while she was holding hands with her boyfriend. “It should surprise me that dudes are still pieces of shit… wow, that’s fucked up”

He tends to keep his arms above fans waists as well. If he does put an arm around them it’s initiated as a hug usually or it’s around their rib cage area.

Here’s a video from 2017 of a fan meeting him. He is very sweet and attentive but never inappropriate. He asks them questions and does everything to make them feel safe.

Facebook Allegations

A user came forward saying they had a close friend that spoke to “Brendon” on Facebook and that he “tried to ruin” their music career and sent nude photos of them to other guys. The screenshot is a text message conversation with the poster and her friend who claimed the sexual relationship they had over texts with Brendon Urie. This was a weird one, and I’m not gonna talk too much about it but I will say that Brendon has never had a Facebook account. He even made a vine back in 2013 scrolling his own name on Facebook, cracking the joke “I don’t even have a Facebook”

As I said in allegation 1, this was speculated to be Chelsey Lynn who catfished Ryan Ross (Panic’s former guitarist) in 2013. You can find the link in the first allegation post or even Google it, lots of information there. I ran out of media again but if you’ve seen anything from katkalling or oscarsass in any articles, this is what I am referring to.

While posting about this, user katkalling has a conversation with Breezy Weekes where Breezy fully states that she suspected Brendon of cheating on Sarah. WHICH IS ABSOLUTELY infuriating and ridiculous. This is another reason fans were upset about the way Breezy handled everything and still are.

What we do know is that this allegation had no proof either (only a text message from the friend who made the claims) if there was any validity it was certain to be a lie or was a catfish.

Brendon did talk about his allegations but it was a brief note at the end of addressing the Zack allegations.

Brendon stated the allegations were untrue and that he doesn’t know why they were put out there, but that his fans safety is his number one priority, always. You can listen to his full statement in the link above but here’s the clip about his own allegations.

This was it, these were the “sexual assault allegations” against Brendon Urie.

Educate yourself, educate your friends. Brendon did not deserve any of this and though this may be coming from someone who is a fan, the first two allegations made were from anonymous throw away accounts with features of fanfiction criteria & the last one was either completely made up or someone was pretending to be him to that girls friend.

I will talk about the problematic things he’s done, and the things he’s apologized for moving forward. I hope that this blog helps others see things for what they really are, and not to believe every single thing you read online without proof.

This was a tough one, I had to listen to his statement again and ended up in tears.

I love all of you.

Thanks for following me and being receptive to my evidence.

You can find part one of the allegations here

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I miss when bands would just be gay and slutty on stage

x, x

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The real homoeroticism is whatever lead singers have going on with their bassist/guitarist

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prize for being the only ryden drawer in 2023 almost 2024 or something like that

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i really enjoyed trolls 3! wow i drew so much fanart! (ive actually drawn way more than this)

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I am going to eat this entire candy cane.

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Panic Fact: okay, time to clear up some misinformation I see being circulated. I know that Ryan has picked up new fans as of late and it is clear that a lot of them are not familiar with how things were when Ryan was in Panic 15 years ago. There are people saying Brendon sexually assaulted Ryan and that is just not true. A very important thing to know about Panic shows back in the day is they were scripted. They did basically the same thing at every show. Referred to as stage gay. There was a part where Brendon would go over to Ryan and Ryan would act shy. This got a big rise out of the audience, especially Ryden believers. But it was SCRIPTED. If you know anything about early Panic, you should know what roles they all played in the band. Brendon wasn’t making Ryan uncomfortable. It was acting. They were playing characters on stage. Brendon mentioned this in an interview awhile ago and it has been misconstrued by fans that aren’t familiar with the early days of Panic or those shows.

And here is what Ryan has said about it:

And Spencer talking about how their show defied masculine stereotypes:

Some shows the tables were turned and Ryan would kiss Brendon… or sit on his face:

I would urge you to learn about Panic history before spreading such harmful and untrue things. I will make another post about the band dynamics to help shed some light on the roles in another post for fans that aren’t familiar with the early days.

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wardler again oncie baby

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"this is just so their oomfies woofies are aware 🥺 nothing more!!" -spreads it everywhere even after everything was already talked out-

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fuck this shit man and fuck both of you specifically. Hop off their dick i'm begging you

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Everyday i wake up angry at the world that I’m in the universe where brendon urie is EVIL.

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rip pete wentz you would’ve loved loona

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ryan answering fan questions after the album release party at origami vinyl in los angeles, 8 june 2010

– from SquidChompProductions on youtube

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pause please. important video incoming