Realising I love the relationship dynamic of 'I tricked you, it was all a lie, I only ever used you and never loved you' / 'I will kill and deny any emotion I ever felt for you and will bring about your downfall' except they both caught feelings along the way, fundamentally changed each other, will always wonder if they'd made different choices if things could have worked out, and most importantly, never address any of this and instead make it everybody's problem.
that poll post about when you arrive for a party is so so so so so funny because certainly that sort of thing not only depends on your region and the culture in which you were raised or currently live, but also on the extremely specific nuances of the social group hosting and attending the party. My own answer would vary among my own social spheres and the different answers wouldn’t be impolite. They’re just nuanced based on what I know about my friends and circles. Which is the case for everyone answering the poll. Probably very few people responding to that poll, regardless of the response, are truly putting anyone out, but it’s the perfect survey to be extremely difficult to do online in a simplistic way so people in the tags are just applying their own experiences and preferences to everyone else’s answers and everyone is literally out for each other’s fucking blood