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August 27th, 2024

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touching grass isn't enough i need to cuddle with my FOs

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meet my s/i template !!!

cooked this up for you guys to use :) @ me or link the template here for credit !!! here's how I used it, but you can do whatever you want!

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your F/O(s) would absolutely love you even with all your faults, struggles, issues, even traumas, that make you feel completely and entirely unlovable.

they love you; not only do they love you, but they actively try to help you heal and move past these things.

your F/O(s) love you, you mean more than the whole entire universe to them <3

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I got these new like. they're just like black studs with subtle Old Norse engraved on the sides

and like. just gonna say

my boyfriends would think they're hot

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There's no better pillow than your f/o boobs / man boobs uwu

Dividers by @/saradika-graphics

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Friendly reminder that

male selfshippers are valid

trans and nonbinary selfshippers are valid

queer selfshippers are valid

not everyone who selfships is a straight female

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lovingly headbutts my f/os like a cat... bonk...

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Imagine you and your F/O just, wearing less clothes around each other

doesn't have to be sexual; but I like the idea of just getting cozy together and trusting the other to see more of ya!!

wind down and chill, your f/o wants you to relax~

if you wanna take this sexually go ahead, be my guest, but keep in mind this is usually a sfw blog lol

Click to help Palestinians!

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i think my boyfriends should be here with me so we can giggle about stupid psychology definitions while I study right now and it's homophobic they can't be

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Your f/o listens to your favorite music when you're not around. You find out by coming in unannounced and hearing your own favorite stuff playing. Bonus points if it's a song with sentimental value that they know about.

proship/comship/neutral DNI

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Imagine your f/o writing you a letter in the middle of the night because they miss you so much. Each time they lay in bed, the only thing on their mind is their undescribable yearning to be near you, to caress you softly while they whisper sweet nothings into your ear. In the letter, they describe how grateful they are for having you in their lives and how their yearning is driving them forward to see you again and to hold you close. They describe how much you mean to them and how they can't imagine their life without you in it because you have changed them in such a fundamental way that it honestly changed them for the better. And they describe how much you- ah, they already filled up the paper—the soft candle illuminating the table they were writing at made them think of you—a small light in the middle of the night, to some not very significant, but to them, you literally light up their world, making it a little bit brighter, making it a bit warmer.

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struck by the urge to be a gentleman for him. i yearn to take his hand and kiss the back of it, bring him bouquets of flowers just because, open doors for him while i bow and say "after you, sir" and giggle a little afterwards.

i need to be his good old-fashioned lover boyyy

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One more thing before I pass out. A little thing to make selfshippers like me happy, this could be either you or your f/o in this little scenario!!

Imagine your romantic f/o tearing up a bit or full on sobbing as they cuddle you into their arms, thinking how lucky and grateful to have you. They haven't felt this kind of simple love in so long or ever, and they're experiencing this with the person they love so much. Warm tears stain the pillow as they look at you, the person that they'll be with for what seems like forever.

Your f/o loves you so much and the fact they haven't experienced this kind of love sooner in their life is criminal to them. You mean so much to them as much as they mean so much to you. Your warm love and support for them, your voice and how gentle it is to their ears, the way your eyes softens each time you seem them, everything. Whether they're holding you or you're holding them, they feel so safe with you especially right before slumber.

Your f/O loves you and can never be more thankful to have you. <3

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If you and your F/Os are in a poly relationship, imagine playfully fighting over who gets to sleep in the middle.

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fun date idea for a big polycule: the ferris wheel

how many passenger cars does your polycule need to board everyone? assuming it's four passengers max per passenger cars