ohnopeh

[ohnopeh]

[ohnopeh]

[ohnopeh]

please do yourself a favour and read this new fanfic, it’s so good! Read it here

[ohnopeh]

i need to fix my blog tags so bad it’s starting to bother me 🥲

[ohnopeh]

[ohnopeh]

i am a firmly believer of ian getting triggered with things that remind him of mickey during his relationship with caleb and trevor. mickey was forced to be with a woman to protect ian. caleb had sex with a woman because he felt like it, gaslighting ian into thinking it wasn’t cheating. caleb never told ian about having a fwb (!!!!!!!!) yet had the guts to shame ian for wanting to hook up with caleb only, gaslighting him into a relationship.

not even one episode or two from their break up, trevor comes into the picture and forces his relationship with ian— he only wanted a friend but trevor (once again) gaslighted ian into a relationship and to bottom just because saying no to trevor translates into “im transphobic and scared of having sex with you”.

trevor talks a lot about being sex positive , about boundaries, he tells ian he wouldn’t mind trying to bottom if it wasn’t “cause i’m trans and you think that i take it”

if sex is good when consensual, how come trevor always had to twist it all up to get ian to do what he wanted?

ian is scared it is going to hurt him, he doesn’t want to do it, he’s anxious, tries to take as much time as he can before they start. ian gets high to do it. if you need to be pressured, gaslighted and stoned to do something you don’t want and are scared of—- it’s definitely not consensual and boundaries had been been long forgotten. so, trevor, just stop?

ian sacrificed a lot to please trevor— all trevor wanted was to feel superior for “bagging” someone like ian. just like trevor does at the chubby club when he’s upset/sad.

everything is forced, ian is costantly shaping himself into what the other wants, if he slips and let his personality surface he gets called out and shamed for what he thinks says or do.

s4 ian said this

i know he was unmedicated but i truly believe he meant that— yet every relationship, beside mickeys, had ian forcing and questioning himself over and over cause people who thought they were better than him felt the need to shame him

[ohnopeh]

oh to be seen and not just looked at

[ohnopeh]

[ohnopeh]

[ohnopeh]

when life imitates art

[ohnopeh]

[ohnopeh]

i was re-reading some old gallavich fics and found the one where the name Mikhailo was first mentioned as mickey’s full name. the fic is from 2014 so before the show made it canon. the writers asked the fans for name suggestions and over the years there have been suspicions on them looking through fanfics for inspirations (hopefully i’ll be able to find those fics too)

LINK TO THE FIC

[ohnopeh]

saw this thread on reddit and wanted to share it here with screenshots and a link to it!

.

.

.

.

.

.

link to thread here

[ohnopeh]

[ohnopeh]

[ohnopeh]

[ohnopeh]