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Inspired by the brief period of time I thought I was polyamorous because I felt the same way about my boyfriend as I did my best friends and I hadn't clocked yet that all of those feelings were platonic

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That is also really pretty

14 for arospec ask game

14. If you could change the aro flag, would you and why?

Nah, I love our flag

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14 for arospec ask game

14. If you could change the aro flag, would you and why?

Nah, I love our flag

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Arospec Ask Game

To help get #aromantic trending I've come up with an ask game. Don't forget to tag you answers with #aromantic!

What's your favorite part of being arospec?

What's your least favorite part of being arospec?

Favorite color?

Favorite color from the aromantic pride flag?

Favorite pride flag, arospec or not,m

Favorite arospec blogger?

Ever been to a pride event?

Aro culture is....?

When did you realize you were arospec?

Have you come out to anyone? If so, who?

What do you think the biggest misconception is surrounding aromanticism?

What's your advice to someone questioning they are arospec?

Do you know other arospec people? (Online or off)

If you could change the aro flag, would you and why?

What's a movie that you get aro vibes from?

What's a song that you get aro vibes from?

What's a book that you get aro vibes from?

Favorite arospec meme?

Frogs, turtles, or kangaroos?

Question you wish people would stop asking when they find out you're arospec?

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Happy Valentines Day, let’s destroy the government my fellow aroaces specs!

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as a small reminder aro week 2024 is february 18th through the 24th

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since valentines day is tomorrow (or already here for some people), i just wanted to give a shoutout to my fellow loveless aros. shoutout to those who are still alienated when people do that whole "valentines day is for all kinds of love you can still celebrate it yippee!!!" thing. i'm holding all your hands

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Poly aro culture is tossing a coin to decide whether to call each other partners or not.

Valid! It’s totally up to y’all if you want to be called partners and if a coin toss is how you want to do it, that sounds fun!

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Poly-Aro culture is loving all your partners your own way no matter what other say <3

Agreed!

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Poly-Aro culture is having to pause and think really hard every time somebody asks what you have going on with another person. The answer CAN be 'my partner', but it's rarely so simple.

Yeah might depend on if you want to answer questions

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Okay so I'm super aro but also shaking hands with polyam people like YES technically in a way they're opposites (lack of romo love vs multiple romo loves) but like! We're all vibing in a denying ananormanitvity in our own ways! I adore y'all!!

Also shakes this blog around like a rag doll /affectionate positive etc

- Loveless aro who stares at your blog from time to time but has to stop because I smile to the point of my face being sore + WAYYY too emotional and cries sometimes aahzgzhs- In a good way to be clear!!

Also very less important thing but holds polyam ships very gently they're all so neat aough shakes them around /affectionate

YESSSSSS!

We are siblings-in-arms 🤝, we are friends🫂, we are partners in crime🦹, we are locking eyes and giving each other a single firm nod of understanding and comradery, we are allies fighting literally the same fight⚔️.

My rights to choose the family I want is the same as your right to choose the family you want. The more we say "any relationship can be as important as --or more important than!-- romance" the sillier it becomes to champion a single romantic connection as one's life purpose.

Our fates and our fingers are twined, my aro friend. We will lift the other up when one stumbles, and we trek to the brighter world together. 🫴 Take my hand

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Aromantic people and Polyamourous people should be friends always

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when you’ve built your life with someone and have a partner from before you met them and get happy seeing them two interact positively. But then knowing they’re monogamous and telling you they are going to start dating someone you know ain’t it is crushing. I know some of this is just my own issues but it’s like man. why does it seem like the worst thing to have happen.

I'm sorry about that anon

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poly-aro culture is having a queerplatonic crush on almost all your friends and being perfectly content with the situation

Same

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Okay so I'm super aro but also shaking hands with polyam people like YES technically in a way they're opposites (lack of romo love vs multiple romo loves) but like! We're all vibing in a denying ananormanitvity in our own ways! I adore y'all!!

Also shakes this blog around like a rag doll /affectionate positive etc

- Loveless aro who stares at your blog from time to time but has to stop because I smile to the point of my face being sore + WAYYY too emotional and cries sometimes aahzgzhs- In a good way to be clear!!

Also very less important thing but holds polyam ships very gently they're all so neat aough shakes them around /affectionate

YESSSSSS!

We are siblings-in-arms 🤝, we are friends🫂, we are partners in crime🦹, we are locking eyes and giving each other a single firm nod of understanding and comradery, we are allies fighting literally the same fight⚔️.

My rights to choose the family I want is the same as your right to choose the family you want. The more we say "any relationship can be as important as --or more important than!-- romance" the sillier it becomes to champion a single romantic connection as one's life purpose.

Our fates and our fingers are twined, my aro friend. We will lift the other up when one stumbles, and we trek to the brighter world together. 🫴 Take my hand

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When you’ve been out as poly for over a year and your qpp says she might be ambiamorous 👀

Nice!

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The AUREA team is excited to announce that the 2023 Aro Census is open!

The Aro Census is a community run survey that helps collect data on the demographics, identities, and experiences of the aromantic community. Participation is encouraged for people identifying on/with the aromantic spectrum and those who are questioning whether they are on the aromantic spectrum.

If you would like to participate in the Aro Census you can find links to different language versions below. There are instructions on how to complete the survey in each form. Please complete only one form in one language.

We will be accepting responses from September 1, 2023 to December 31, 2023.

Català: https://forms.gle/EHjFtdYS1ZzCE2G88

Nederlands: https://forms.gle/ERXWwR6xhiEpGZPb6

English: https://forms.gle/2repLLgsYW3yKS2L8

Deutsch: https://forms.gle/3ThgjhRCvp4YSG6C6

Ελληνικά: https://forms.gle/Ld4MSQmLqCsJAzqr9

עִברִית: https://forms.gle/4ctV9pVUKCDLtgx58

Norsk: https://forms.gle/H1BUZ3hDSe88BBHy5

Polski: https://forms.gle/P3a59oj7vAqC3F6UA

Русский: https://forms.gle/iDCVHEc2DSw6p1Z3A

Español: https://forms.gle/GzUyUKmkmmdvHCds7

Italiano: https://forms.gle/gpJmJjjJENf5MWpF7

Bahasa Indonesia: https://forms.gle/vPSZkoBF4523avKG8

Disclaimer: Due to the recent wait time and staffing issues at the Trevor Project, we ask that participants use the Trevor Project resources linked in the survey at their own discretion.

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