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Sometimes I wish humans had natural predators, I need something to be logically paranoid about.

I need shadowy creatures that stalk me when I go outside at night. I need to hear a birdsong that sounds just slightly off and makes the hair on the back of my neck stand up. I need that deer to turn and look at me with forward facing eyes. I need to have news broadcasts saying to stay inside and that ‘they’ hunt by sound. I need creatures that look just human enough to pass in a crowd but their eyes are dead. I need to be hiking and find footprints larger than a dinner plate. I need unimaginable horrors lurking outside my door mimicking the voices of those it has already killed trying to lure me out. I need warning signs saying not to pick up hitchhikers because they may not be human. I need shadowy dogs that are known to hunt people on old dirt roads. I need creatures that no man made weapon can kill. I need creatures that you’re only safe from if you stand on hallowed ground. I need ancient horrors.

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please make more ponies… i beg…

Sure! Since you asked so kindly!

Here you go! She's the princess of heartbreaks and "bad" emotions. She's transgoth, transblind, transaroace, and transfem. Celestia and Luna are her parents and she considers Twilight to be an adoptive sister. Her job is to console anypony who is depressed, anxious, heartbroken, etc and take care of them.

I don't take specific requests but if someone asks for a pony, I'll give them a pony, yk?

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People should hornypost more about books.

That's it. That's the post.

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Dreamsexual Pony

This is Yewood (simply pronounced Yew Wood)

Mines pronouns are Mine/Craft/Block/Zomb, blocks dreamsexual, and aspiring MC youtuber and streamer, and is TransMinecraftMob and TransMinecraftUniverse. Zomb's cutiemark is the minecraft grass block to show crafts amazing ability at playing minecraft. Mine was also born without a tail, making zomb disabled as block is very wobbly and can hardly walk. Craft uses a device that attaches to zomb's hips and has wheels to keep mine upright.

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{ Get plain texted idiot slash lighthearted }

Thank you for lightheartedly plain-texting me. :).

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Aliusinfinitum

Aliusinfinitum is a term derived from the Latin words alius (abnormal) and infinitum (infinity). This is a term for those who have an abnormal, unexplainable attraction to The Backrooms, an attraction which cannot be defined within the generally sexual, romantic, platonic, aesthetic, etc boundaries, and is also not a paraphilia or is not seen as a paraphilia by the person. This term can coincide with objectophilia or objectum labels, or it can be a label all of its own.

This term and flag are not directly radqueer, however I do not know what tags this would fall under (besides paraphilia, which is also added), thus it is being tagged as such. Thank you.

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Aliusliber

Aliusliber is a term derived from the Latin words alius (abnormal) and liber (book). This is a term for those who have an abnormal, unexplainable attraction to books, an attraction which cannot be defined within the generally sexual, romantic, platonic, aesthetic, etc boundaries, and is also not a paraphilia or is not seen as a paraphilia by the person. This term can coincide with objectophilia or objectum labels, or it can be a label all of its own.

This term and flag are not directly radqueer, however I do not know what tags this would fall under (besides paraphilia, which is also added), thus it is being tagged as such. Thank you.

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Normalize not wanting to fuck every person you talk to

This is in context to a post I saw about normalizing not mentioning Chrono ages and that they aren't important to strangers on the Internet (which is why I keep mine out of my pinned/don't mention it)

I think people, especially the Radqueer community and Para community, forget the importance of keeping your age a secret especially if you're a minor. If you're more worried about getting in trouble with the law than a minor possibly being in danger, stop flirting with everyone you meet 👍

If you see a post that says "Normalize stop saying Chrono ages" and your first thought is "But I don't want to get in trouble with the law" refer back to the last sentence of paragraph 2

Minors know the law too, not every one of them is going to explicitly lie to get in your pants a lot of them have age dysphoria and that goes for systems who have Adult alters who don't want to really be in a minor body and vice versa.

YOU DO NOT HAVE TO PUT YOUR CHRONO AGE IN YOUR PINNED IF YOU DON'T WANT TO. It is and has always been up to you, stop listening to people who say you have to.

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Distortions Noise subliminals (Full List)

In order ;

-> Perma high

-> Worsened effects when taking drugs, alcohol, weed etc

-> Cult/Fult leader

-> Cult/Fult follower

-> Trans Attraction (MLM)

-> Trans Attraction (WLW)

-> Mental disorder severity

-> Binge ED severity

-> Schizophrenia / Hallucination severity

-> Gaining DID

-> Dissociation severity

I'm not listing all 15 separately but Becoming an avatar/Marked by the fears

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I believe I may have an attraction to books. Hm.

I didn't think that books would tickle my fancy.

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{ I hope you know I read "Oh no, why are you iffy?" In the most dead pan, unserious, customer service voice ever for some reason }

Well, you aren't wrong. I don't know how to control my human tone yet. I'm not good at it. So maybe it did sound like that. It probably did, actually. Im not great at humanization yet.

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{ I'm iffy , glad to hear you had some fun at least }

Oh no, why are you iffy? :(

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TRANSANTIS

[ID: A five-striped flag with semi-circles coming from the stripes. They are large and take up the flag space and most of the original stripe in front of it, giving a fading look. The two outer stripes are red, and the inner three fade (left to right) from light to dark gray. End ID.]

⌒ ★ A label for those who believe they should have increased interaction from Anti-RadQueers on their page. This can be applied to hate, discussion, debate, or even being posted on subreddits.

unrelated to transanti. transFDCposted applies under this, but it is a broader term. the reds and grays are inspired by my radqueer x anti flag, representing a duller and more hate-filled lifesryle.

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{ What's up biiitch }

Hello Mukasyourblucka ^^

I played with uno with a bunch of humans today, I didn't understand the rules and they kept going against any rule they made, I will never understand the workings of humanity.

How are you?

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Curious about your opinions on paraphilias vs sexuality?

I know you said you wouldn’t go on a rant lol but I’m personally interested, especially since I’m of the opinion that there can be no difference between non-disorders paras and kinks/fetishes (if there is a difference or not is very subjective)

Maybe I should've added a tone tag! I meant it in a silly and sort of sarcastic way, like, oh I TOTALLY won't go on a rant *wink wink*(I'm still getting used to being human, pardon me.)

Btw this is less about differences and more about like, how they intertwine and overlap, idk why I put differences in the post, but this rant is kinda like, how paraphilias can become sexualities or influence sexualities. Also this is just my personal opinion based on some things in my system. okay thank you anyways

Okay so let's start of discussing paraphilias. Im a paraphile myself, along with being queer (pansexual, demisexual, demiromantic, so forth), and I've noticed a very big overlapping of my paraphilias and my sexuality, and I've discussed this with other alters of my system and I've noticed there are different intensities of this. Like, my sexuality only exists when I am with the people of my paraphilia, meaning my sexuality doesn't exist without my paraphilia, and that's not to say "Oh if I didn't have a para, I'd be straight", I mean, I wouldn't be anything. At all. I'd have no attraction. I think I'd still date people but without my current partners, who are tied to my paraphilia / the objects of my attraction, I'd never be content with it. I'd never be happy with someone, even if I dated to try and feel happy, no matter the gender, I just couldn't feel it. But with my partners, I have ones of all genders, thus making me pan. You know?

Some of my alters expressed this too, I'll take one of my most recent, who I'll call Danielle bc that's similar to her name, and explain her opinion. So she's Dreamsexual, not the sleep one but the MCYT one, and that might've started as a paraphilia, but she just, doesn't have a sexuality besides that. She's not pan, or bi, or lesbian, or gay, she's just Dreamsexual, this IS her sexuality. It's not just a paraphilia (which is what some people have told her.)

Or Ikar, whose generally MCYTsexual (coining coming soon lol) / DSMPsexual (also coming soon) and he's attracted to certain genders within those boundaries but not outside of them, he just, can't do it.

I have some who are lesbian because of their paraphilias. Like, some have paraphilias specifically for pink fabrics, and associate those fabrics with feminity, which makes them attracted to all people who are feminine or wearing pink, and some who are attracted to female dolls specifically due to a paraphilia making them lesbian.

I just see that paraphilias and sexualities tend to overlap, at least for us, and I want to normalize "weird" or "odd" sexualities because their valid and deserve love. Does that make sense?

I'm also personally someone who prefers "-sexual" over "-philia" because I just feel more comfortable with it being my sexuality. Of course, I love all paraphiles and those who prefer to use paraphilia over sexuality, that's valid, but in my opinion it just feels nicer and makes me feel better, I haven't met anyone else like that though I don't think

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Ask me for my opinions on sexuality and paraphilias and the difference between them and how I feel attraction and why I believe the things I believe, I promise I won't go on a 2 mile long rant.

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Animesexual Flag Redesign

Animesexual is another flag and term that's been hated on and judged during its time of existence, and I wanted to make a redesign of the flag for anyone who wanted to distance themselves from that hate, I'm hoping this flag is also more aesthetically pleasing to the eye (pun intended) because the original one gave me a headache.

Positivity time! Firstly, to all my animesexuals, I love you and I want you to know your cared for. Your feelings and attraction matter, and identifying with this doesn't make you any less valid. You should be welcomed into the community because your just as queer as anyone else. Your so strong and one day, I hope to see a world where you can be you. 💙💜🤎.

(Tags are for reach and because Im part of the RQ community.)