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🌈🌈🌈 PROSHIP DISCORD SERVER HI

were lowkey DYING i dont wanna become inactive and i feel like it being a dm-only type thing was the problem so. HERE IS OUTWARDLY THE DIRECT LINK. there is a short form just to make sure youre the target audience!! but!!! its easy i promise

were proship/fic, propara (ANTI CONTAAAAAACT.), pro all good faith labels, andddd? we have pluralkit+tupperbox, various art channels, various dedicated ship/fic channels, and an open suggestions channel you can recommend WHATVEERRRR

server owner CHILL but also lowkey a menace hey hi. im very lenient and friendly i only bite if im excited (threat)

server is 15+ by the by and owner is a teenager! if that makes you uncomfy i understand you dont gotta be here

were very chaotic please join

ACCEPTING OF EVERY AND ALL FANDOMS PLS PLS PLS SHARE YOUR FANDOMS W US!!! AND/OR OCS!!! MULTIFANDOM SERVER!!! NO MATTER HOW CRINGE!!! B W US!!!!

also i feel its important to mention: this is NOT a radqueer server but if you feel safe here as a rq you are 100% allowed but be aware there are anti-rqs myself included. its not my business to decide whether or not youre worthy of a safe space just make sure to not make anyone uncomfortable or hurt and that goes for EVERYONE this is a space of peace and joy there will be ZERO ILL INTENT and when i see that i shut it down QUICK dont mess w me grrrrr growl

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hi guys havent logged in here for a while but im alive i promise. im the mod that deals with like the. management? the person who is not the persona of this account. idk what to call myself. IM THE SECOND MOD 💥💥💥💥THE ONE THAT💥 who cares honestly

this blog is HIGHKEY INACTIVE so sorry. its been. two months. which isnt awful HOWEVER

me and Numero Uno Mod had a Drama and we kinda ghosted each other and ig hes been salty and hasnt posted on ANY of his socials including this one which ok whatever.

i. MIGHT talk about it like another time but idk if that would feel. overreactinf? idk it was like a personal me and him problem it feels a bit stupid to make it yalls problem i DONT KNOW but i just felt i should give like a proper. "hey. this blog is officially Dead" (well like not really i might just take over but YOU KNOWWWW i cant make any promises)

anyways sorry guysm been fun love yall kiss kiss hug. love yourselves foreveer be in peace take no shit and spread no evil i have you all in my hearts 🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛 dms always open i think. just slow responses thanks kiss kiss kiss

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despite being insanely involved with proship/antiship shit I have never EVER seen an self proclaimed anti NOT go against their own values

"all of us want people to get better and have therapy" then uses "fat", "fatherless", "psychopath", and "delusional" as an insult, triggers proshippers purposefully, stalks, and interacts/supports people who does these things. plus a ton of y'all resort to suicide and death threats when somebody is weird and/or disordered in a way you don't like.

"we just don't want children to think incest is okay" then threatens, grooms, gaslights, or even ships REAL people with REAL rapists just because theyre a proshipper (also, look after your own damn kids.)

"but these topics are seen as desirable, and can still influence anybody" then enjoys media that has you play as a murderer, media that is just about gore, or media that is told by an unreliable character (eg. tell-tale heart, lolita, etc) that shows their criminal actions in a good/okay light.

"this is/could be illegal, so you shouldn't do it" then plays/watches free/pirated games and movies, threatens others, and has probably vandalized a structure in a way they don't realize (or acknowledge) (also how is liking a ship ever going to get close to being illegal?)

"your content could trigger somebody" then, again, will send threats, stalk, say that proshippers deserve their trauma, and do nothing except belittle them

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minorities living in america, please stay alive, you WILL make it you WILL live to see another day

i know its scary but you have to keep going

you have to keep pushing forward just to prove you will not go away EVER

you must keep living and inspire the next generation to persist

we can do this

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"I am cringe but free" you harass proshippers bro

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How to know if you've been manipulated into believing you are an anti

> Guilt by Association:

If you've been told that liking certain content automatically makes you a bad person or aligns you with harmful groups, that's a red flag. This tactic plays on guilt and can push you to reject things based on fear, not your own beliefs.

> Pressure to Conform

Have you ever felt like you must agree with a group or face being ostracized or attacked? Manipulation often relies on social pressure to force people into one perspective.

> Misinformation

If the arguments against proship rely on scare tactics or misinformation (like over-generalizing harmful behavior or falsely equating fiction to reality), that’s a sign that you may have been influenced through fear rather than facts.

> Silencing Nuanced Conversations

If you’ve noticed that discussions around proship/anti-ship in your circles discourage nuance, critical thinking, or even hearing out differing opinions, it’s likely you’ve been steered into a rigid belief system.

> Disconnecting from Your Own Likes

If you once enjoyed certain ships or fictional works but now feel uncomfortable or ashamed to admit it(without any clear personal reason)ask yourself if that shame was imposed from outside.

> Shaming for Thought Crimes

If you've been made to feel guilty or ashamed for simply thinking about a ship or idea, even if you’ve never acted on it, that’s a form of thought policing. This tactic implies that even private enjoyment of fiction is wrong and that you're only “good” if your thoughts align with a certain group.

> Cult-Like Group Dynamics

Does the community you’re involved in enforce strict rules about what can and can’t be enjoyed, isolating or attacking anyone who doesn’t follow the norm? Manipulative groups often demand loyalty to a single cause or belief system, punishing deviation with social exclusion, harassment, or cancellation.

> You Feel Conflicted

If deep down you still enjoy certain ships or fandom content but feel torn between your personal enjoyment and the pressure to conform, take this as a sign. Internal conflict often arises when you’re being pushed into beliefs that don’t align with your authentic self.

> Over-reliance on “Influencers”

If you���ve formed your opinions solely based on what online personalities or fandom influencers have said, you might want to rethink. Influencers can sometimes push their own agendas, and it’s important to critically evaluate their claims rather than blindly accepting them.

> Redefining Terms

Have you noticed how certain communities redefine words like “abuse” or “harm” to fit their agenda? Manipulators often blur the line between fiction and reality by changing definitions. For instance, enjoying a fictional ship doesn’t mean supporting real-life harm, but some people will try to convince you otherwise to gain control over the narrative.

> Fear of Being “Canceled”

If your fear of being attacked or “canceled” is driving you to adopt anti-proship views, then your stance is likely based on external pressure, not personal conviction. The fear of social backlash can force people into silence or compliance, even when they don’t truly agree with the anti-proship movement.

> Gaslighting

If people in your fandom spaces make you question your own enjoyment of ships, telling you that your feelings are “wrong” or that “you don’t realize how harmful that content is,” you might be experiencing gaslighting. They’re trying to make you doubt your own tastes and values, convincing you to adopt theirs instead.

> Virtue Signaling

Does your involvement with anti-proship ideas feel more about proving that you’re “good” or “moral” in the eyes of others? Virtue signaling often relies on outwardly showing alignment with the “correct” opinion without encouraging deeper thought.

> Isolation

If you’ve been cut off from friends or fandoms that are proship, ask yourself if this was really your choice. Manipulators often push you to distance yourself from people or spaces that don’t align with their views, isolating you in a controlled environment where your new beliefs are constantly reinforced.

> Moral Panic Culture

Have you noticed how anti-proship rhetoric mirrors larger societal moral panics, where certain ideas or interests are exaggerated to be dangerous or harmful? These movements often rely on fear-mongering, claiming that enjoying fictional content can lead to real-world harm, without concrete evidence to support it. Being swept up in a moral panic can make you feel like you’re doing the “right” thing, but it often stifles critical thinking.

> The “Right Way” to Fandom

If you’ve been told there’s only one way to enjoy fandom and that anything outside of those strict guidelines is wrong, you’ve likely encountered gatekeeping. Fandom is about exploring different interests, genres, and relationships. There’s no “right” or “wrong” way to engage with fictional content, but manipulation tactics thrive by enforcing rigid boundaries and shaming those who deviate.

Vs the ACTUAL Antis - how they behave?

In many fandom spaces, the term "anti" refers to individuals or groups who position themselves against certain ships, content, or fan activities, often on moral grounds. However, beneath the surface of this "moral crusade," many antis engage in harmful behaviors that revolve around bullying and censorship rather than promoting genuine discourse or protecting others from harm.

> The Focus on Bullying

Antis often claim their actions are about "protecting" people, especially minors, from harmful content. However, what they’re really doing is targeting and harassing individuals who enjoy certain ships or tropes they dislike.

Public Shaming: Antis will often single out and publicly humiliate individuals over their fandom interests, especially if they engage with “problematic” ships or tropes. This public shaming can include doxxing (releasing personal information), starting harassment campaigns, and rallying others to dogpile their target.

Harassment and Threats: Instead of engaging in productive conversation or respecting different views, antis frequently resort to sending hate messages, insults, and even death threats to people who engage in content they think is inappropriate. This extreme bullying behavior shows that the goal isn’t about morality—it’s about control.

Name-Calling and Labels: Antis are quick to label anyone who disagrees with them as dangerous or morally corrupt. They’ll often call people “abusers,” “pedophiles,” or “incest apologists” simply for enjoying certain fictional ships, even if those claims have no basis in reality.

> Censorship Over Discussion

Antis don’t engage in thoughtful dialogue or debate—they aim to censor and silence any opinions that don’t align with theirs.

Mass Reporting: One common tactic is organizing mass reporting campaigns to get fan art, fanfiction, or even entire blogs taken down. They’ll flag content they disagree with, often manipulating platform policies to enforce bans or removals, regardless of whether the content actually violates terms of service.

Policing Tags and Spaces: Antis frequently attempt to take control of fandom spaces by policing tags, platforms, and even fan events. They demand that certain ships or content be removed or banned, claiming that those things "shouldn't exist," and attacking creators who refuse to comply with their demands.

Gatekeeping: Antis often act as gatekeepers, deciding who is “allowed” to participate in fandom and who isn’t. They’ll dictate what types of content are "acceptable" and label any content or creator they disagree with as problematic, often pushing for full exclusion of that person or fandom from certain spaces.

> Hypocrisy in Morality Policing

Claiming to Protect While Harming: While antis claim they are trying to protect marginalized groups or young people from harmful content, they’re actually perpetuating harm by bullying, attacking, and driving people away from fandom spaces.

Attacking Minors: Ironically, many antis target the very people they claim to protect. Minors who engage with fandom content—whether they’re artists, writers, or just fans—are often harassed, attacked, and shamed for their interests, even if those interests are completely harmless. Antis frequently ignore the well-being of the people they supposedly advocate for, focusing instead on being “right.”

> Bullying and Censorship Aren't Fandom Values

At its core, fandom is about creativity, exploration, and community. It’s a space where people can engage with fiction in personal ways, often as a means of expressing themselves or processing difficult emotions. Antis, however, turn fandom into a battleground for moral purity, where bullying and censorship are used to force conformity.

If your fandom experience is being dictated by fear of harassment or being censored, it’s important to step back and recognize that this behavior is not normal or healthy. Fandom should be a place of joy, not a place of judgment. No one should be bullied for their fictional preferences, and everyone deserves the freedom to engage with media in their own way. Don’t let antis rob you of the freedom to explore and create.

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you can be pro fiction and be disgusted by some artwork

you can be pro paraphilia and be disgusted by some attractions

you can be pro kink and be disgusted by some fetishes

you can be pro anything and be disgusted by some or all parts of it

you can NOT be pro anything and harass those in the community for nothing.

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I love you, freaks!

I love you, hypersexuals!

I love you, furries!

I love you, proshippers!

I love you, paraphiles!

I love, love, love you!

Keep being weird! Don't let others tell you otherwise!

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“ugh why do proshippers get all the cute artstyles, emoji combos, and flags!?!?” because harassment and bullying is ugly. the literal point of being an anti means you are pro censorship. you destroy creativity simply because you dislike it. of course the non-hateful people are going to be more creative and have cuter things because we are free to express ourselves and don’t bring others down for harmless things.

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YouTube and tiktok are the worst places to be HUMANS on. Neither site is for sharing content, it's for sharing PRODUCT. If you're not a consumer that buys everything you see, you won't survive on either. And this applies metaphorically too; if you don't agree with all the ragebait on there, you will NOT be making it out in one sane piece.

Youtube and tiktok are the worst places to be openly proship on.

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“That’s fetish art!!” I can’t begin to tell you how awesome that makes it

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You can TELL when an anti comes from TikTok by the way they speak. They shut you down, and try to be sassy n shit.

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hey

hey you

you don't need to justify or defend creating "problematic" content

you can do what you want

it's fiction

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I think of this sometimes ~ ☆

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Pet peeve: people online will act disgusted by the term "ageplay" because they don't actually care to read what it means and assume the worst and then turn around and call a pretty woman "dommy mommy" when that is literally ageplay

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some proship memes for your viewing delight