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@plannedparenthood Reposted from @spokenlikeatrueslut - #AFAB (Assigned Female At Birth) #RoeVWade #ProChoice #ProChoiceIsProLife #SexualFreedom #BodyAutonomy #AbortionBan #HeartbeatBill https://www.instagram.com/p/BxifkBZB5NM/?igshid=iays81k85qel

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You can also message me on FB or through my site. I do not check my Twitter as often Reposted from @spokenlikeatrueslut - #AFAB (Assigned Female At Birth) #RoeVWade #ProChoice #ProChoiceIsProLife #SexualFreedom #BodyAutonomy #AbortionBan #HeartbeatBill https://www.instagram.com/p/BxiCad7BFJN/?igshid=558eu5ivz94m

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When truth is spoken, you can't deny it. @ocasio2018 #BodyAutonomy #ProChoice #heartbeatbill Transcription: "Most of the men writing these anti-choice "heartbeat bills" don't know the first thing about a woman's body outside of the things they want from it." -Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez https://www.instagram.com/p/BxhnDqGhk36/?igshid=1a2k0onahdq4t

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My kid loves the wrinkles on my forehead. She asks me to lift my eyebrows so that they are bumpy, she touches them and laughs "bc it feels so cool." Then she tries to draw them :) Transcription: A-fragile-sort-of-anarchy: My new meds make my skin throw a fit. It's not terribly bad, just a few things here and there, but it's bumming me out because I never really had too many run-ins with acne. My four year old sister, however, is under the impression that it's just "3D freckles," and that they look very, very pretty. She wants all of my freckles to "pop out," especially the ones across my nose; they're her favourite. And it puts me in this weird position where I can't say, "No, this is acne and it's bad," because I don't want to teach her that it's bad to have unclear skin, you know? Because the more I think about interactions I have with children, the more I realize that children will consistently compliment "flaws" until they've been taught not to. Like, a kid at the library, whose sister has vitiligo, saw my scars once and suggested that his sister and I be cats for Halloween, since I have "Tabby skin" and she has "calico skin." "I can be a black cat," he immediately added. "It's not AS cool, but they're the spookiest." When I started losing weight, my brother immediately demanded that I gain it back, because I wasn't as comfortable to cuddle with anymore. My other little sister wants to wear her paint-stained clothes to school so that "everyone can tell [she's] an artist." I don't know. I just talking to little kids just reminds me that all of this superficial shit we worry about really is 100% made up. https://www.instagram.com/p/BxhlZbYBhlN/?igshid=diabrk1uon45

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The experience of being suspicious of people who are actually interested in me resonates. It's been a long time since I've personally experienced this bc I literally give ZERO FUCKS today, but it's been a massive part of my life through my adolescence, teens, and 20's. Today, I'm surrounded by awesome people. #InterpersonalPain #GiveZeroFucks #FortunateForGoodPeople Transcription: User baku: the worst memories of being bullied is when ppl would pretend not to be bullying you and ask you questions and u thought they were just asking u stuff but they were actually laughing at you the entire time and u had no idea bcos you were young and you didnt understand why people would be mean to you when you didnt do anything wrong. User sumersprkl: I spent a lot of my childhood in a constant state of “this is a trap but I don’t know how” User marril96: This stayed with me. Sometimes when people are nice to me, I still think they have bad intentions. https://www.instagram.com/p/BxhhW9hhD9D/?igshid=1bjzphb0ut5xs

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Sorry hardcore believers. In this case you either believe that Jesus was not born from God or that gender is not as binary as you think. #SorryNotSorry The only thing that would improve this comic is if they created Jesus with dark skin. #JesusWasTrans #CriticalThinking #BlowYourMind https://www.instagram.com/rachel_sex_therapy/p/BxcPJh2hZae/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1q26egugasjye

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And with all this, there are relationships that are truly loving and this is antithetical for the desire to get institution out if the private sphere. Reposted from @domina_franco - @milano_alyssa this is just a little bit of why #sexstrike is so problematic and harmful. If you have a massive platform and your supposedly up for revolt or revolutionary action then you need to be informed and actual understand what to put your energy behind..also I’d like to add sex CAN be transactional if the participants agree to it as in sex work where both parties have agency and choice. #sexstrikefail #fail #whitefeminism #prochoice #prochoiceisprolife #reproductivejustice #reproductiverights #sexeducation thank you for putting it all into words @iwritefeminism https://www.instagram.com/rachel_sex_therapy/p/Bxa085ChVKJ/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1p1z88d2x4vn2

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It's super catty shit to talk about people who make different choices or are facing different life circumstances as if you're better than them. Also, fuck all of you who subscribe to this sentiment and take pole dancing classes. That's not cool. Respect people's experiences and choices. #womenSupportWomen #RespectPeoplesChoices #fauxpowerment Reposted from @thegizellemarie - So @hallmark... 🤨🤔.... what made you think this was ok to mass produce this and sell it on the shelves.... there are strippers who are mothers and there are mothers who are incarcerated... how is this even excusable. https://www.instagram.com/rachel_sex_therapy/p/BxazNjLhIAM/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=c97bd68n6bsb

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#TransAwareness #RespectTransPeople #NonBinary #GenderNonConforming #PlayingWithGenderExpression Reposted from @morethanno - https://www.instagram.com/rachel_sex_therapy/p/Bxas1X0hBjy/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=9tz017z4d1yc

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#AdviceFromSurvivors #EmotionalAbuse #EmotionalAwareness #MentalHealth #DomesticViolence https://www.instagram.com/rachel_sex_therapy/p/BxSPzi5B1IZ/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1cd0dv4t6tyw1

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Hey friends! Welcome to the wheel of emotions or the feelings wheel... However you want to describe it. We often feel unheard or lack the language to accurately discuss what is going on for us. This wheel offers some prompts. Just keep in mind, you never have to justify your feelings, but they are yours. I usually encourage my clients to print it out and color it. There have been some very cool expressions with color. #EmotionalAwareness #SelfAwareness #MentalHealth #SelfCare https://www.instagram.com/rachel_sex_therapy/p/BxSPYj4hz_F/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=19j41ztitvz7h

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It is in the interest of big industries to make you hate yourself and your body. We mollify our discomforts with spending money on false hope that any particular product will "fix" us. We aren't broken, we are all acceptable human beings. #consumerismsucks #loveyourself https://www.instagram.com/rachel_sex_therapy/p/BxPasRehnEf/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=h0c04pgxndhr

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I really dislike the quality "nice." I don't want a nice person in my life. I want a kind person, an honest person, a passionate person. Niceness isn't honest and isn't necessarily kind. It is appropriate and often passive aggressive. The best way to insure that I will not be a friend to you is if I detect that you're nice and that being your dominant quality. @jasondavidwongpargin #Truth #Incels #NiceGuysAreNotAlwaysSoNice https://www.instagram.com/rachel_sex_therapy/p/BxPaEK2BScE/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1rg5ya3ow6po

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Reposted from @spokenlikeatrueslut - #whorephobia #sexnegativity #imaslutnotawhore #whorephobiakills #fosta #sesta https://www.instagram.com/rachel_sex_therapy/p/BxLudlBhtMS/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1gxdcunhp5krh

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Follow my snarky page at @spokenlikeatruewhore https://www.instagram.com/rachel_sex_therapy/p/BxJeeLWh8aY/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=eh3u04i3vbpv

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People who rape make a decision. They choose to do something to another person without their consent or their desire. Victims and survivors of rape literally don't ask for it... Otherwise it wouldn't be rape. People can dress, drink and dance however they want. Sex/touch/play is not consensual until they say that it's what they want. #RapeCulture #RapeApology #Survivors https://www.instagram.com/rachel_sex_therapy/p/BxGlcKWhQb4/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1uivedog149dv

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You don't have to play "Oppression Olympics" when it comes to sexual assault. It's horrible that it happens to anyone, so when someone is sharing information about sexual assault in a particular population, that's not the time to compete. #MRAs #MaleOnMaleViolence #Masculinity #SexualAssault #SexualViolence #SexNegativity https://www.instagram.com/rachel_sex_therapy/p/BxGks44Banc/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=18tl8c25kouy3