ranting-cuz-i-can

[ranting-cuz-i-can]

HELP MEE

OH GOD.

I don't know how to start. So I'm just casually studying right? Prepping for my exams this week. and he asks me to test him through msgs. I was like "sure, how?" but anyway I ended up giving him my reviewer cuz idfk now how to test thru texting.

ANYWAY. later on I get another msg.

smthn along the lines of: "are u going anywhere? Like before valentine's?" And my first thought was "SHET SHET SHET" OH GOD. and I responded "uhh no? why?"

AND I LEFT IT THERE.

THEN HE RESPONDED LATER ON AND IM TOO FUCKING SCARED TO CHECK.

the last message was "hey pls don't tell anyone" FUCK. WHAT DOES THAT MEAN???

(btw I'm an Android user so the preview msg thing doesn't work for me)

So all I saw in the first part was "nothing" "it's just ..." AND THATS IT.

IS IT RUDE TO OPEN IT LATER AT NIGHT?? I CAN'T DO THIS. I JUST WANT TO STUDY.

Btw this is THE SAME GUY I was talking abt in the other post. the one who CHEATED ON HIS GF.

[ranting-cuz-i-can]

BRO IDK WHAT TO DO

so I have a friend who moved to another friend group (we're on ok terms) and I'm pretty good friends with this group alright? And this one girl in the friend group, she's literally the definition of perfect—she's smart, responsibility, pretty, kind, funny, class president, cute, EVERYTHING— and recently it was exposed that her boyfriend cheated on her with some hoe.

Now I was friends with her bf before all that and we talked CASUALLY (I swear on my life that nothing was ever between us and we talked mainly because we sat near each other) and now everyone in the school or who knows about what happened has practically turned on him. Like he's loosing friends. So he's resorted to chatting me more often and yk I feel bad... I mean yes , what he did was COMPLETELY, UTTERLY, AND GROSSLY WRONG. but I feel bad. everyone seems to be abandoning him. He went from a well-popular guy to the bottom of the food chain.

I feel bad for conversing with him bc I'm good friends with his ex and her friend group and they ABSOLUTELY LOATHE him. But talking with him is easy— that's something big for me cuz I have social anxiety.

I'm conflicted. I don't know if I should stop because I don't want them(the gf's friend group) to have the wrong idea. But I also don't wanna just abandon him.. it seems too cruel for me.

plus he knows he messed up and he didn't mean it like that. And he still wanted to be with her but he felt like he was stressing her out so he asked to end it for her benefit.

—also the "cheating", he was chatting with the school hoe and saying explicit things. And the girl sent him a video of her doing a sexual dance and he replied complimenting her— this was DURING THEIR(the ex-gf's) relationship.

also I consider myself closer to him than I am to their friend group because I talk with him more.

So idk I'm conflicted and I don't know what to do.