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audrey hepburn films, miss dior blooming bouquet in soft pink, feminine tulle, kittens purring gently.

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that same anon harassed me for weeks until I turned off anons. Do they actually think their mom = everyone's mother???

I’m so sorry to hear that, darling! That’s terrible. Obviously just a hurting person who wants to hurt others they see as part of the problem in their life.

I hope anything they said didn’t bother you too much!

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i Hope you kill yourself because you're daughter will suffer like i suffer because of my tradfem mother

Asks like this are why I don’t post much anymore. You can be kind all you want and people will still say the most vile things to you.

I hope whoever asked this feels better, eventually, but man, do they have a wicked heart right now.

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activities, hobbies, and skills that nurture your femininity (pt. I)

cooking (+ points for scratch cooking or farm-to-table)

baking (+ points for scratch baking)

quilting

embroidery

crocheting

knitting

card-making

scrapbooking

flower arrangements

reading/book club

dancing

pilates

yoga

interior design/decor

painting

playing an instrument— piano, flute, harp, violin, etc.

organizing

jewelry making

homemade garment making

fashion design

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Traditional femininity is not equivalent to being a human doormat

When will people stop acting like femininity is about being useless and stupid

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A life of love.

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Craving motherhood 🌻💕

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I dream of being a mother. I know it’s my destiny. I plan what school I will send them to, I already buy parenting books, I research childhood psychology, I collect ideas on activities to do with them one day.

I dream of being a housewife. I plan cleaning routines, dinners, and decorating ideas. I know it’s what *I’m* supposed to do.

I love this blog and I love being able to share my love for it with all of you.

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Hello, hunnies

Quick question: when you have moved into a new house, apartment, etc. did you introduce yourselves to your neighbor? Bring a gift?

I want to do that when I have a house next year, however I’m afraid of coming off as though I am invading their privacy or being weird.

Let me know!

Love,

Angelique

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Sending you love! I got caught in that yesterday, too, with a group of men reblogging my posts with rude comments. I'm sorry you had to go through that, too. Thanks to Tumblr for it's blocking feature. It does wonders to one's peace of mind 🌷💕 you deserve love and respect!

Hello, hunny

I’m sending you love as well! I’m really sorry that happened to you. I don’t know where I’d be without the blocking feature haha!

Love,

Angelique

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Spring cleaning 2023

Hello, hunnies

Happy second day of spring! For some reason, I thought today was the first until I checked, but ya know, that’s okay.

I know in the past I’ve made a list of how I spring clean, but this year I’m going to use this list I found on Pinterest. I hope it helps anyone and if you’d rather tackle a smaller list, you can find my list here

However, I will share the photo of the list I’ll be using this year! It’s a doozy but I know I’ll feel a lot better afterward!

Let me know if any of you join me!

Love,

Angelique

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Misogynistic men making posts about me because they’re too dimwitted to understand the things I say and hoping I’ll give them attention cracks me up. You’re not going to get attention from me, I’m not going to reply to you so you get attention, and what you say doesn’t hurt my feelings when your views are as shallow as a drop of water. :)

Thanks!

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I like that your version of tradfem is just that. Traditional feminity. Just something that existed beforehand and has roots and a long history. It's not a role and it's definitely not a be-all-end-all sort of thing. It's just something you have because you enjoy it and you do it for you.

I'm a feminine transman who has catholics in his family and I believe in gender identity over their gender roles. As in, I believe far more individualism and they prefer more of a cookie cutter sort of outlook that men are men and women are women, thus, should be defined by clear arbitrary lines.

I like that your blog is just liking feminine things and doing tradfem things. Just no complications. Just enjoying a simple life without some big message other than "hey, anyone can like this stuff and it's good for you and there's nothing wrong with being feminine, however you identify or present."

Hello, hunny

Ah! Thank you, 100x thank you!

Thank you for getting *it*, I feel that many people (not just other tradfems) have this view that I have some sort of big message or motive with this blog.

I don’t, as you said! My only motive is to be myself and possibly help other people find themselves - no matter what they may identify themselves as. It’s okay to be feminine! It’s okay to be masculine! It’s okay if they don’t traditionally fit in to what gender you are! Be yourself!

Thank you again, for understanding and for the inbox.

Love,

Angelique

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I just have to say that I'm SO happy to find your blog! I'm very into things like 50s aesthetic, homemaking, marriage, children and such, and I'm a feminist and leftist as well. I had never heard about tradfem and I think it fits really well to what I seek in life, specially knowing that it doesn't mean I'm less of a feminist/leftist because of that! You seem so nice and I hope you can build a beautiful life exactly the way you wish!!!

Hello, hunny

I apologize I did not get to this sooner!

I’m glad you enjoy and of course it doesn’t make you less of a feminist! Choosing to be this way for yourself is way different than believing all women need to do this!

Thank you so much for the well wishes - I think I’m getting closer to that 🥲!

Love,

Angelique

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You have no idea how thankful I am to have found your blog!! Almost all tradwife content comes from blogs that push so much sexism and all I want is some cute aesthetically pleasing photos without the side of misogyny

Hello, hunny

Haha! I’m glad you like it! I’ve been trying to be more active but life is hectic these days, ya know?

Thanks for the compliment and I hope my blog is giving you everything you want!

Love,

Angelique